Heres a few Green Flags 😊

DelicateDream · 2019-10-24T00:01:24+00:00

I’d add “shows interest in you personally”.

kokiokiedoki · 2019-10-24T01:42:00+00:00

Spirituality is more of a neutral flag IMO

labchi1d · 2019-10-24T04:05:08+00:00

Most importantly: supports all of these things in you

sassykat2581 · 2019-10-24T14:30:40+00:00

Ex 0/12
current boyfriend 12/12

Now that I’ve seen the real green flags I realized how my ex was manipulative to try to make me think his behavior was a green flag.

burntmatchesburn3x · 2019-10-24T22:05:42+00:00

Something else: Get a look at HIS APARTMENT/HOUSE. Is it clean? Are there any pictures on the wall, art of any kind (bare walls: red flag)? How's the kitchen, can he cook for shit? Dishes in the sink? Is the bathroom clean, is there TP? If you seen any porn, bikini calendars or the like, red flags, get outta there. Most men live like degenerates. In general, NEVER cohabitate with a man. Once he has you trapped, any facade of cleanliness will drop.

minikookie · 2019-10-24T02:38:36+00:00

Could you make one for red flags? Having a single resource like this would be really nice! Especially for people who are just finding this sub

JupiterThunderCrash · 2019-10-23T22:34:45+00:00

This is A+ content! Very helpful.

okaybrie · 2019-10-24T14:10:47+00:00

This is great but I think what’s important to remember is that these do not balance out the red flags. I’ve dated guys with more than one of these qualities or traits, but the red flags still outweighed them.

GrayPillGirl · 2019-10-24T15:17:38+00:00

Biggest green flag is when they introduce you to their friends immediately. Cheaters and fuckbois try to keep those two worlds separate so their asshole buddies don't accidentally blow up their spot. This is especially true as men get older and their friends become mature enough to be disgusted by cheaters. If an older dude is cheating, you will never meet his friends.

liuliu00 · 2019-10-24T17:22:50+00:00

I would say long-standing friendships is overhyped. I'm constantly rotating friends, because we change, but it doesn't mean I treat my SOs poorly. On top of which, I know people who beat up or cheat on their SOs and they have tons of long-standing friendships. I think this is one "green flag" that really needs to die..

AstroG4 · 2019-10-29T11:36:31+00:00

Oi! As an atheist, I resent being excluded by the “spirituality” green flag. Someone can be a perfectly healthy partner without needing to believe in any vengeful sky fairies.

illbeyourkitty · 2019-10-24T04:08:09+00:00

So I’m supposed to date myself?

Bilgewat3r · 2019-10-24T07:40:28+00:00

I know someone with like all of these I think but nobody ever seems interested in him lol

drunky_crowette · 2019-10-24T15:23:10+00:00

Since when is spirituality a factor?

greenteaapplepie69 · 2019-10-24T00:53:29+00:00

Love this! 💕

katiedarling37 · 2019-10-24T14:07:11+00:00

I honestly didn’t know there was an opposite to red flags until a few days ago.

ponchoacademy · 2019-10-24T14:13:00+00:00

I really like this... Not only for what to look for in others but to reflect on if these a qualities one possesses themselves too.

EndToAllStories · 2019-10-24T15:28:52+00:00

I really like this, thank you OP

numbers909 · 2019-10-24T18:36:23+00:00

Really. Some genuine good advice.

Mountain_Lily · 2019-10-25T06:33:21+00:00

Good post, good post!

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2019-10-31T16:22:35+00:00

Don’t you love it when he has all of these, then randomly sends a dick pic? Like WTF?

spattersongt · 2019-10-24T20:45:10+00:00

Define healthy hobbies. Curious what unhealthy would be... binge drinking, partying?

Kaddy03 · 2019-10-24T21:31:07+00:00

Isn't this blue?

ShebaStokes · 2019-10-24T09:22:04+00:00

Vulnerability...... Maybe...... Like once in a while

CandyyWarhol · 2019-10-24T04:56:03+00:00

I needed this today! Thank you!

BabyGothQ · 2019-10-24T07:28:50+00:00

Damn. This is great, thanks for posting.

quentin_taranturtle · 2019-10-24T16:47:38+00:00

Is it possible to find someone with all these traits? The only guy I know like this is 28 years older than me and married haha

KeenoUpreemo · 2019-10-24T19:56:41+00:00

What is spirituality?

AsparagusAndHennessy · 2019-10-24T21:00:19+00:00

Will never ever pay on a date

pokersnob · 2019-10-24T21:20:24+00:00

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pokersnob · 2019-10-25T00:30:03+00:00

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KeysOpenTrees · 2019-10-26T06:25:37+00:00

Why spirituality?

JishAFish · 2019-10-27T05:42:56+00:00

I’m sorry but why do men need spirituality to be good

Turtuloo · 2019-10-24T23:07:18+00:00

Where is the “always pays for dates” flag

fourteencarrots · 2019-10-24T00:32:04+00:00

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pokersnob · 2019-10-24T15:21:47+00:00

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_ChestHair_ · 2019-10-23T23:09:24+00:00

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Title	Heres a few Green Flags 😊
Author	pokersnob
Upvotes	3938
Comments	106
Date	October 23, 2019 8:42 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/dm5epg/heres_a_few_green_flags/
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