Here’s a small compilation of TikTok comments from women waiting for a ring- never settle your standards for a LVM.

ZoErSonHud · 2021-08-21T13:05:43+00:00

Found this treasure trove on a TikTok of a woman “jokingly” complaining about not being engaged yet after 3 years.

Reminder: don’t be bringing children into a relationship without a ring and do not be doing wife duties for a boyfriend. These women are key examples of settling for less and lowering their standards. Do not let that be you. The sheer denial and coping humour from these women realising their situation is palpable and honestly sad.

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2021-08-21T13:46:45+00:00

This is embarrassing and foolish. You shouldn’t have to beg or drop hints. If a man wanted you to have his last name, you would’ve had it already. And actually the fact that a man isn’t willing to provide the safety net of marriage for the woman and kids is disrespectful and should be a dealbreaker…

1Here4Bach · 2021-08-21T14:07:17+00:00

If you have to give a man “hints” that you were ready to get married yesterday then he isn’t the one. A man who truly loves you and wants to marry you doesn’t need a hint. All of these women are place holders.

Their men are staying with them because they give them sex, cook, pay half of the bills and clean and that’s a better deal than being single. As soon as they find the “woman of their dreams”, they’re going to leave these women faster than you can say “low value man”. Men aren’t like women, when men don’t like their partner they will stay with her because besides not liking her, she makes his life a lot more comfortable in a tangible way.

Your man is annoyed at you whenever you talk because HE DOESN’T LIKE YOU. He doesn’t take you out on dates or give you affection outside of sex because HE DOESN’T LIKE YOU. He ignores you most of the time BECAUSE HE DOESN’T LIKE YOU. He hasn’t asked to marry you aFter almost a decade BECAUSE HE DOESN’T LIKE YOU.

GoddessIxtab · 2021-08-21T13:30:06+00:00

My sister's been with her scrote for almost 18 years, no ring, no mention of marriage. They've subtly hinted that they're trying for a baby. As in not saying it out loud but telling me that they bought a new car better suited for children, or from his perspective: his golf clubs...

imaydestroyyall · 2021-08-21T13:43:37+00:00

Stop giving these men children if they can't commit! This is way to common.

strainedcrow · 2021-08-21T13:47:14+00:00

Why are they even seeking a ring anymore, wouldn’t you just resign to “I don’t believe in marriage” at that point? Terrifying. If they eventually get married does it even feel as good anymore? I’d be embarrassed to tell family.

throwaway-fds · 2021-08-21T13:34:02+00:00

A woman I know was with her current guy for 10 years, one kid, no ring. Only proposed after she got pregnant with their 2nd kid.

vagabond-playing · 2021-08-21T14:08:07+00:00

9 years no ring? i bet that guy is waiting for the next "best" opportunity to monkey branch

leadmemories · 2021-08-21T13:17:02+00:00

fak_beauty_standards · 2021-08-21T14:24:02+00:00

Damn. A relationship is a deal. You cannot let someone drive your car for free and kindly expect the payment after 6 years.

Why does it work in business, but not in marriage?

DandelionScreaming · 2021-08-21T15:03:14+00:00

I used to think my mom was old fashioned when she said to never date more than 2-3 years. But reading stories on here and of all these women dating for 10+ years… I get it now. If he can’t decide within 700ish days if he wants you as a partner, move on.

Vmchik · 2021-08-21T15:29:37+00:00

Men have used liberal feminism as a cop out for their not wanting to get married and avoid accountability. How many pickmes have you heard saying they don’t believe in marriage? Too many and all of them are always in this situation. Because apparently we’ve transcended from the need for marriage like the whole point isn’t about getting legal protections in case something goes wrong in a partnership especially with children involved. Now men can easily find women to spread their seed with and leave whenever they feel because the government and the state can’t hold them accountable. To the state, they are single. Really shows how men have coopted progressive ideals to make their lives easier.

myousername · 2021-08-21T15:52:40+00:00

If you want a ring, that's when you imply that you're looking for marriage and that if he's not going to do that for you, then you'll find someone who will.

If he's fine with breaking up, then you have your answer

GabbaG0ul · 2021-08-21T18:04:48+00:00

The thing with men not wanting to marry is they don’t want to give up the free labor/sex, but they want to keep their options open should something newer come along. When something newer does come along, suddenly they’ll claim they were “so miserable” the whole time. Monkey branch to the next women and have very few consequences. Then their entire social networks will support the decision and paint you as the “nagging hag” that tried to trap him with a baby and is robbing him with child support.

Title	Here’s a small compilation of TikTok comments from women waiting for a ring- never settle your standards for a LVM.
Author	ZoErSonHud
Upvotes	253
Comments	23
Date	August 21, 2021 1:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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