How do you feel about the comments hating on her? (Possible trigger warning)

subgirlygirl · 2021-12-04T07:25:50+00:00

The comments are BULLSHIT. Was she supposed to stay there and get shot? She did exactly the right thing, exactly what any real man (what this man) would want her to do in that situation. The scrotes commenting would've gotten robbed and killed, no doubt after using their girlfriends as a human shield first.

aquietsword · 2021-12-04T08:33:04+00:00

Didn't get to the comments but she did nothing wrong. No idea what there even is to hate lol, besides the scrote intruder? Probably just the weak sad bois that want to be the princesses getting mad in the comments section.

GlitterLoveAngel · 2021-12-04T07:05:10+00:00

TLDV:So basically the video shows a man defending his fiancé(Now wife) and himself from an armed man who broke into their apartment. He did a good job at restraining the gun and making sure his fiancé didn’t get hurt. But throughout the video when this was taking place, the fiancé was reacting in shock and didn’t get involved in the fight but after the man and her fiancé were outside, she ran into another room and dialed 911. I get it, she’s in shock and definitely would’ve most likely gotten hurt if she were to fight against the criminal since men are a lot stronger and her fiancé has a better chance at defeating this guy. However I made the mistake of going to the comments which are being extremely insensitive and hating on her. They kept getting upset over the fact that she didn’t get involved in the fight and left him to fend for himself. One guy even said “I miss the good old days when your woman would hit the guy you’re fighting with a flower pot or something. At least try to help out.” And “I feel sorry for this young man who has such a girl. He deserves better.”

But I call bull. For one, she was in shock and her first instinct was to freeze while her fiancé’s instinct was to fight. Second of all, she did help by calling the cops immediately when she was no longer at risk. Third of all, when women do fight, men and women will claim her as dumb and idiotic if she were to get harmed during the fight because she’s a woman and should know better than to get involved in a fight with two people much stronger than her. But apparently she should’ve acted? She could’ve put both of their lives at risk if she were to get involved and she literally could’ve gotten extremely injured if the guy were to hit or throw her or something and I know for a fact that she definitely would’ve been blamed if that happened. I’ve also heard from a bunch of men(Most of them were on Reddit surprisingly) Tell women to not get involved in fights between men cause all you’re going to do is put yourself and him at risk. Men would literally say that the best thing you could do is to separate yourself and call the cops. But when women follow that advice, it’s their fault for not engaging. Fourth of all, when the genders are reversed, people sympathize with the men who took no action while the women did everything even though they were at a much greater risk of their lives being in danger. I remember seeing quite a handful of videos where men did nothing and people were legit sympathizing with the guy and hating on the women for not being able to do much. But when it’s reversed, shame on her for being reasonably too shocked and afraid of engaging in a situation and letting the stronger gender handle it. It carries the same logic with the whole “Equal rights, equal fights.”

Aocwannabe · 2021-12-04T07:56:47+00:00

This is why you only date men who take pride in protecting you. Btw- truly masculine men do not start fights but they will not hesitate to defend weaker people than them.

The last man I dated seriously told me that if anything should ever happen I should run and get help. He would take care of everything else…and def didn’t want me to see something that would traumatize me.

Contrast that with a man I went swimming with and thought he spotted a shark, began swimming away and left me there. Circled back only after he realized it wasn’t a shark. I never wanted to have sex with him again after that.

What is even the point of being with a man that doesn’t protect you?

misandryismadeup · 2021-12-04T09:52:28+00:00

One commenter wrote how it’s 2021 and women who want men to do the “dirty work” should be in the kitchen. First, women already are in the kitchen doing majority of the cooking, working and now expected to protect too?? Why can’t men just stop home invading and be more like women? Why have we made them the standard?!

cocacolalips · 2021-12-04T19:39:18+00:00

I have been attacked in public by homeless men 3 times and not once did a man help me. Mind you, no woman ever helped me either, but on two of the occasions women witnessed it and came to me afterwards to ask if I was ok and needed help. Most women and all men look you like you are a dirty troublemaker when you're the victim of a public attack by homeless men and scurry away like you have leprosy. Only a few women have risen above the norm in my experience. Men have descended below it.

What I mean by this is that once I was attacked by a homeless man who was angry I didn't give him a donation in exchange for using the ticket machine he was squatting under, so he yelled at me and physically pushed me away from the machine before I could select the ticket I needed. I managed not to fall over, screamed, and ran to the nearest place of safety I could find: the open doors of the bus which had just arrived. A man in normal civilian clothes observed the whole thing and just calmly entered the bus without doing anything to help, which I expected because that's how most people react.

What I didn't expect was that he was an undercover ticket controller and after witnessing me being attacked for trying to buy a ticket and run into the nearest place of safety, he made a beeline over to me and smugly demanded to see the ticket he knew I had a very good reason for not possessing. Basically I got fined 60 euros for not battling a homeless drug addict in order to buy a 2 euro ticket. Buses don't have a machine to buy tickets inside, only a machine to stamp one-way tickets with the time of entry, and even if it did, a human being with empathy could have seen I was on the verge of crying and trying to gather my emotions and wouldn't have expected me to be a robot who remembers the stupid ticket when I had just been attacked.

So basically what I have learned is that men will not help me if I get attacked by an unarmed man. Some will leap at the opportunity to exploit the attack to extract money from me. But I'm expected to defend them? Them being fiances makes it a bit different, but then again, if she got breast cancer and lost her "rack" and her hair he would likely ditch her according to the statistics too. We do not know the whole story of their relationship. He was defending himself just as much as her and it makes sense since he had the gun and she presumably had none. I really don't know what she could reasonably do to help...when two people with more upper body strength than you are in a heap on the floor struggling over a shotgun, you run, you don't try to pry a loaded weapon away from someone who is stronger than you and could misfire at you or the fiance at any second. "Too many cooks in the kitchen" comes to mind. And it's not like she ran out of the house to safety, she stopped and called the police for him. That took some courage. For all she knew, in the minutes it took to call, the intruder could have killed the fiance and come for her. She could have just run to her car and left and called the police after she was safely driving away. These commenters are 100% just keyboard warriors with delusions of grandeur.

No_Fig2938 · 2021-12-04T09:44:41+00:00

What's she supposed to do? run towards them and jump in? She could've gotten in the field of the shot gun and got killed, it's stupid af if she's trying to play hero.

Also she was in shock as she said, a lot of women's reaction to dangerous situation is to freeze, we don't have the ability to fight a man head on, it would've been cool if that wasn't a thing I guess.

They're just a bunch of whiny assholes angry at a women for not reacting how they liked in a moment of complete fear where your body is completely responsible for your reactions, they also probably would've ran away like cowards and left thier girlfriend, "men are protectors of women!!!" I can't say no more than men are trash.

LetsGetin_Formation · 2021-12-04T21:51:40+00:00

Scotes projecting their insecurities that they could NEVER protect themselves, much less any one else in even a mildly inconvenient situation, much less a deadly one.

And they wonder why women are repulsed by them.

InternalEmu1477 · 2021-12-04T13:18:18+00:00

OK, I live in Europe, so no fights with anyone armed, but IF I saw an opportunity I would fight alongside my partner against ONE UNARMED intruder. Like hitting them on their head from behind opportunity. When I'm sure there is only one of them.

My advantage is that Intruders don't expect any resistance from small middle aged women, so they just might turn their backs to me. Biiig mistake. Big. Huge....

But if it was too risky I would run and call for help ASAP, because that is the best way to help my partner out from a bad situation. Ring the police, wake up the neighbours, check that the police are on their way just to be sure...

(then I'd pick up an axe / fire extinguisher and go quietly back... yeah, I'm petty like that).

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BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-12-05T01:28:40+00:00

Fucking trash. Most men are like that (referring to the scrotes in the comments section). Some of the women in there have terminal pickme-itis. Men are protectors my ass.

Averyhvw · 2021-12-04T18:30:56+00:00

Wow, can we clone this guy? 😅

bluemexicanblanket · 2021-12-04T20:19:20+00:00

that man isn’t really my type but the way he handled the situation was sexy AF and i’d probably marry him too 😂😍

Title	How do you feel about the comments hating on her? (Possible trigger warning)
Author	GlitterLoveAngel
Upvotes	48
Comments	27
Date	December 4, 2021 7:05 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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