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[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple285 points286 points287 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
The level of shit men are putting women through on a global scale is bat fucking shit insane.
[–]ironymaiden87FDS Apprentice74 points75 points76 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Pretty much exactly what I was going to say. What the hell kind of fucked up dystopia are we heading towards.
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist48 points49 points50 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Yep exactly! It’s only gotten worse progressively over the last 17 years I’ve been dating, and I can’t see it getting better any time soon... until more women demand more, and stay celibate until it changes.
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple51 points52 points53 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
FDS is a response to peak patriarchy. Patriarchy is in its downward spiral. It's self annihilating and self cannibalizing, a lot like capitalism. This shit can't continue indefinitely and we're finally standing up and taking no more shit.
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I hope there’s a big change within our lifetime! Otherwise I’m sticking to no relationships again. Though a small part of me would still like one.
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
FDS is the only good thing that has come out of the internet in my view lol the internet has been so damaging and toxic to humanity (one of the worst male inventions ever if you ask me) that it would be super ironic if this internet community was patriarchy's tipping point lmao
[–]ironymaiden87FDS Apprentice12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
To be honest, ladies, I think we are part of a revolution.
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh I really hope you’re right! The thought of this makes me tear up from happiness
[–]7_0f_9FDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Saaaaame
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Completely agree. As always, something which could be SO good for humanity, in terms of keeping in contact with other people, making new connections, learning and spreading information... has been perverted by men.
[–]IthinkItsLipGlossFDS Newbie148 points149 points150 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Honestly, a lot of posts on reddit haunt me.
[–]DatonecatladyuknoFDS Apprentice47 points48 points49 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same. They pop back into my head all the time
[–]millenniumY2KFDS Newbie114 points115 points116 points 6 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
My ex was similar, didn’t want me to use a vibrator without him because if I was going to orgasm, he should be fucking me. I have one friend who’s boyfriend told her a vibrator “was gay.” I have another friend who’s bf initially agreed to use one in bed which of course she loved. Then he probably talked to some guy friends because all of the sudden he was insulted she’d ask to use it, and he wanted her to stop masturbating all together so she’d just magically orgasm while he was fucking her. Men literally are the most insecure assholes I swear.
[–]blackopium777FDS Apprentice58 points59 points60 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
My ex had a rather small penis and was basically going crazy when I wanted him to use toys in bed, so I can have at least ANY pleasure from sex. Males are insecure when it comes to toys, because they KNOW their penis can't measure up to them. Shouldn't be our problem, tho.
[–]The_Alpha_NutFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Both LVM I’ve dated thought I should orgasm from their penis alone. Both were big into porn, cam girls, etc. The last one shot down the idea of using my little vibe, but also would only do oral for a minute tops, and couldn’t figure out how to use his fingers on me. Of course, he wanted all kinds of acts from porn too and literally told me that although I was “naturally beautiful”, he really preferred “fake” (his literal words). Think pornstar/instamodel with overly large implants, fake nails, fake lashes, thick foundation, etc.
An HVM won’t be threatened by toys because he will actually care about your pleasure. My current partner bought me one based on the 5 star reviews (seen on reddit) and was excited to use it with me. He’s also very giving in bed and very vanilla, has never said a damn thing about my unshaven legs...and never watches porn. Coincidence?
[–]blackopium777FDS Apprentice19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex was also a PA and had unrealistic standards regarding sex. My husband who is neither into porn nor into any "kinky" stuff is amazing in bed, because he puts my wellbeing and my orgasms before his every single time. Open communication is also really important, but only doable when you are with a HVM. LVM are not worth to have sex with, ever.
[–]AlienUtteringsFDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
MiSsIoNaRy AnD gReYs AnAtOmY/s
[–]Solid-LiquidFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah. When he couldn’t get hard, he blamed it on his medication but was able to maintain an erection when I would blow him. The sex was so bad that it got to the point where I didn’t wanna have sex with him cuz I knew only one of us was going to have an orgasm.
[–]Jay-quellenPickmeisha™️3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't get it at all -- like, they know they can do like 20% of the work and get 100% of the credit, right? Defies all logic.
[–]cantstopthemachine77FDS Newbie52 points53 points54 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
And r/amiwithanasshole was just banned for being unmoderated. How do we get it back? It is so needed!
[–]SourceInHerEyesFDS Apprentice42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Huh? You just know certain scrotes on reddit attacked that forum. They have a strong interest in not being outed. That's why they hate this subreddit so much because every single day, women are waking up to their bullshit.
[–]cantstopthemachine77FDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link
I actually just made a thread about it asking what happened and how we can get it back up. What happened?
[–]SourceInHerEyesFDS Apprentice26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I suggest to make a new one. Titled it AIWAA, instead of having the word "asshole" in the name. I don't know why it supposedly broke "reddit rules", yet r/gonewild and all the other porn sub reddits which may or may not contain minors are alive and well. Go figure.
[–]cantstopthemachine77FDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That doesn’t make sense when the sub r/amitheasshole is one of reddits most popular subs. When I went to the sub it said it was banned for being unmoderated so I don’t think it has anything to do with the name.
What were you talking about before about scrotes invading it or something?
[–]SourceInHerEyesFDS Apprentice12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Maybe it was reported by scrotes. That sub had moderators. So it really doesn't make sense.
[–]cantstopthemachine77FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea that was my guess in the post I made.
Edit: rereading this whole thing I had misunderstood your first reply. Your wording was meant to say that you bet scrotes were reporting it, but how I misread it was you saying “didn’t you know that sub was attacked by scrotes?” so I was thinking you had some info about it that I didn’t.
[–]spotsandstripes9FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, the only mod made a post a couple days ago saying that she was going to remove herself as a mod and that she didn’t really want to be involved in something like this anymore. So the subreddit was probably unmoderated for a couple days, making it an easy target to asshole men.
[–]IthinkItsLipGlossFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s because the mod quit, there was only one and she felt she couldn’t handle the sub. I did notice some comments from men which couldn’t be reported, because there was no moderator’s. It wasn’t going to be a safe place without any mod’s.
[–]SourceInHerEyesFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I would volunteer to mod that sub. There's something quite satisfying about banning scrotes and hurting their little egos I reckon.
[–]IthinkItsLipGlossFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha I like that attitude. The sub will have to be created again.
[–]AnnieandFishFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There was only one moderator, and she quit by revoking her own mod status. She couldn’t instate a new mood because of it. Can someone remake it?
[–]throwaway64857FDS Newbie52 points53 points54 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember one about a woman who was dying and her disease was very degenerative. She found out her husband was cheating with rough BDSM sex at lunch time a few times a week but was HAPPY when she found a text from the other woman saying "i can't wait until she dies" and the husband defended his sick wife. She said she was proud of him.
It sickened me that he could live with cheating on his wife as she lay on her death bed. He couldn't even wait until she was fucking dead in a few months.
[–]asowwFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Plain evil.
[–]ros-bosFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes I scroll through that sub and all I find myself saying over and over again is men ain’t shit.
[–]MagnoliaMirageFDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh no.... God these women need some help.
[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I couldn't handle the toxicity of those relationship advice subreddits so haven't visited for a while. Just seeing that is going to put me off even longer. Also getting counter-arguments to sensibly written comments advising the OP that they're being mistreated, combatting what I've said with support for the other person in the party with "empathy"; "oh they're probably just doing this thing because they're not well", blah, blah, - ACTUALLY, jackass, that person is doing the thing to the OP because they don't give a fuck if it's hurting OP and it's not on OP to help them change, to walk them towards being a better person. Fuck those subreddits. They're so delusional sometimes.
[–]supremelyparanoidFDS Apprentice20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Is this real? Omg
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"everyone on the internet always tells women to dump the guy!"
This is why. If you are with an HVM you are not writing to a bunch of random people on the internet to ask if your a boyfriend is an abusive asshole.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The story of the woman with cancer sickens me. When someone you love becomes sick your first instincts should be to take care of them and to want to protect them. He sounds so simple minded, as if he has no coherent thoughts or humanly behaviours. He’s pretty much like a monkey
[–]2koolforpreschoolFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Literally every time I check that sub I come across one that’s worse. I just checked it after seeing this and there’s one by a woman wondering what she should do because her husband is seeking other women to shit on him and she thinks telling him to stop would be unfair.
[–]abstractsadgurlFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dump him, dump him, and sue him then dump him.
[–]kittykitty_bangbang0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mine made me throw it out, gahhh some major fucking insecurities. The day he was gone I upgraded my old one lol bye bitch ✌️
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men didn’t get this depraved on their own...libfems absolutely helped them Get to this point by defending porn and sex work.
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