I was reading an article about 23 ways that exes try to Hoover you back in. My ex has done at least half of them just in the last few weeks. Sound familiar?

Some gems. Some of them don’t even make sense:

As I think you still love me . Maybe you’ll let that happen maybe you won’t . I just wish you would say it

I think at the time.. I was trying so hard to create boundaries for myself I didn’t realize I was rolling over your feelings. I wanted to make this right forever. I just couldn’t reach you. I’m sorry you think I’m playing games

I made a mistake with you I know .. I think about it often.

You’re never going to forgive me or give me another opportunity?

I treated you as if you weee the problem.. but really you’re so much more than that. I’ve been trying to reach you because I really love you. And it’s real and I’m not gaslighting .. or whatever else you said.

I want you with me.. that’s all . I understand I threw that possibility away but at least I have said it

All of everything .. I want all of everything with you.

We were a good match.

And... I bought a dining room table ..