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[–]AffectionateAvocadoFDS Newbie 190 points191 points192 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I like this energy this is queen energy
[–][deleted] 97 points98 points99 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
I forgot who it was exactly but there was this article on a woman who spoke on how she has two houses. One for her and one for her and her husband. I get it’s not the regular setup but it goes to show then you can have someone on the same wave length as you.
[–]bluelightsonblkgirlsFDS Apprentice 78 points79 points80 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
LAT - living apart together - is definitely a thing and would be my preference if there was enough money to maintain two households.
[–]killereverdeen 39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My parents did that for a year! They had to because my dad didn’t want to live with his MIL and they said they really enjoyed it. They went on dates, hung out, etc and it felt for them like they were in the beginning stages of their relationship 😅
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is cute, but did they do this after having kids?
[–]killereverdeen 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, two years ago (they have three kids, 8, 15, 21)
[–]redpeithosFDS Apprentice 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The user said their parents did that 'for a year'. It is safe to assume that they did not after having children.
[–]Wiggy_BopFDS Newbie 33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is my ideal. The musician Todd Rundgren lives in a house that’s divided in sections. He has one section, the wife has another, and there’s a communal area. I always thought that would be great.
[–]GriKas 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Was it Helena Bonham-Carter and Tim Burton maybe?
[–]szsunshinePickmeisha™️ 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think that might be Gillian Anderson.
[–][deleted] 51 points52 points53 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s exactly what my mother says.
[–]Reachingout365FDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Living alone is the best. Go to bed when I want, wake up when I want, bathroom with the door open, watch whatever I want, no pants, etc.
[–]21feelsFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This actually describes my current relationship perfectly lol
[–]reversetwinkiexxFDS Newbie 82 points83 points84 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean, I get uncomfortable even when the cleaning lady comes.
[–]kdramapeachFDS Newbie 93 points94 points95 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
unless they’re paying all my bills
[–][deleted] 74 points75 points76 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not even that. My ex husband paid all the bills but he sucked regardless.
[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What did he do?
[–]WorkingOnMyself01 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok. Possibly true.
[–]BlackgirlwandersFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Her facial expression 😂
[–]vuntyFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is exactly what I tell people 😂
[–]WorkingOnMyself01 29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same girl. Same.
[–]Seasmoke_LVFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A true queen.
[–]Ccstriker77 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel this
[–]disco-banjoFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Big mood
[–]stuffedtacosFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can relate to this so much!! I LOVE living alone!!
[–]Reachingout365FDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
God I love her. She was my childhood lol. She seems rad and I love her attitude.
[–]Skittleschild02FDS Apprentice 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me right now. Get out! Thanks for the doritos!
[+]yafavoriteobserver3 points 6 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Well, I want to end up with a HVM in my house. So I don’t want to emulate this. Nor is that truly a dating strategy? It’s a lack of any strategy, if anything. Am I wrong?
[–]RadarFemefFDS Newbie 136 points137 points138 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It seems like a kind of level up strategy where marriage isn’t needed for a fulfilling life. Pickmeishas and LVM often say that women need a man, but it’s not true. We might want a man, but we don’t need them
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist[S] 88 points89 points90 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you read the handbook, you will see that a big part of FDS is understanding that you may or may NOT end up in a couple... and you should be OK with that! Level up!
[–]MortigiFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Then why did she wed three times?
[–]ErikaNaumannFDS Newbie 43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She divorced them all, and hasn't been married since the early 90s. I guess she just took longer to learn.
[–]MortigiFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Once is enough for most but better late than never!
[+]HoneyNJ2000 -8 points-7 points-6 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
While I agree with her sentiment, I doubt there's a parade of men all lined up at her front door, vying for a chance to be her husband. LOL.
Not a fan.
[–]wegonfuckornahFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She’s had many men smitten with her over the years.
Just because you don’t find her attractive doesn’t mean nobody else should either.
[–]gcthrowaway2019FDS Apprentice 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's not even the point but go off.
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[–]Wiggy_BopFDS Newbie 33 points34 points35 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]GriKas 14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]szsunshinePickmeisha™️ 3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Reachingout365FDS Newbie 26 points27 points28 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]21feelsFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]reversetwinkiexxFDS Newbie 82 points83 points84 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]kdramapeachFDS Newbie 93 points94 points95 points (8 children) | Copy Link
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[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice 8 points9 points10 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]WorkingOnMyself01 13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]BlackgirlwandersFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]WorkingOnMyself01 29 points30 points31 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Seasmoke_LVFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ccstriker77 13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]disco-banjoFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]stuffedtacosFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Reachingout365FDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Skittleschild02FDS Apprentice 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]yafavoriteobserver3 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Well, I want to end up with a HVM in my house. So I don’t want to emulate this. Nor is that truly a dating strategy? It’s a lack of any strategy, if anything. Am I wrong?
[–]RadarFemefFDS Newbie 136 points137 points138 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist[S] 88 points89 points90 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MortigiFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]ErikaNaumannFDS Newbie 43 points44 points45 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]MortigiFDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]HoneyNJ2000 -8 points-7 points-6 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]wegonfuckornahFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]gcthrowaway2019FDS Apprentice 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link