let’s talk about it

chickenanf · 2021-08-10T16:38:00+00:00

Yeah, I never understood how people say things like raceplay or ageplay are just kinks. Like you are literally getting off of racially degrading people. I think it has to be some kind of joke.

chasingshoesales · 2021-08-10T18:24:30+00:00

My LVX was Indian but seemed to only date black and Latina women. I’m Latina. I eventually realized he was very racist and sexist and thought of us as less important.

Example 1: we witnessed a car accident (car turned into a parked car) in front of my building in a predominantly black area. I only wanted to check if the driver was conscious to see if I should call 911. He grabbed me and ran me into the building like we were getting shot at. Basically I was supposed to ignore the fact someone was possibly dying in front of my building because he was black and we were in a ghetto area??? He argued that I was stupid and naive and that guy was probably going to get shot at or a fight was gonna break out. I know damn well if someone got into an accident in front of his predominantly white area he’d have checked if they were alive.

Example 2: I told him my parents were viciously abusive and never loved me. I have many examples of clear neglect and abuse. He argued that that’s just how Latino parents are and I need to stop being childish and force a relationship none of us want... He basically argued that they were so “simple” that they didn’t have the mental capacity to understand how or why they should care about their children… No… they are narcissists that hate seeing me happy. He literally wanted me to be a pickme to my PARENTS who don’t love or want me!!!

Example 3: He constantly made fun of his black ex wife. Honestly I believed everything he said but now that I’m out of it all I realized what happened. She got into an Ivy League for a PhD so he tried to compete with her by getting an mba. Even after the degree, he was still a loser and every business he touched failed. He portrayed her as a crazy black Karen and my dumbass ate it all up. She was NOT a bitch for getting child support and alimony. He was just a loser and she deserved more than he could give.

It’s weird but racists love to sexualize and objectify the people they hate. A clear red flag is if someone says “I love insert race girls” and they are not of that race. They’re probably racist. Even if you have a racial preference, “reassuring” a girl you like her for her race or any race specific feature is really disgusting.

kinkykitten333 · 2021-08-10T16:59:55+00:00

And these men will say they respect women, when they are mentally torturing every moderately woman they see in their minds!

djfrankenjuice · 2021-08-10T17:00:26+00:00

No no no see that’s just “rape play” and it’s natural & healthy. /s

throwaway-fds · 2021-08-10T16:36:05+00:00

Because it's a just bullshit if it's only applied to men, but if you are able to apply it to women as well then it's totally valid and real! /s

curiousiberiantiger · 2021-08-10T17:15:27+00:00

heads up reddit r/n is full of crappy meme like

~ feminism is ¦equality¦ & not ÷misandry÷~

<dicktards> feminism is ¡liberation! from patriarchal oppression

misogyny is a terroristic practice in the male violence war against womn

femicide is a term for the specific murder that happens when a man kills a womn & they're more frequent and less punished than man on man homicides

misandry is just a feeling

minkeyaye · 2021-08-10T19:24:45+00:00

Because misogyny isn't taken seriously.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-08-11T00:31:06+00:00

Male violence and male depravity is always excused, and women’s trauma responses to male violence and sexual assault is pathologized as a “disorder.” I hate this world.

HoneyBouquet · 2021-08-10T17:46:02+00:00

Imma kinkshame all men who are into BDSM. Y'all are sick fuckos 🧍🏽‍♀️🍿

Also rando men who keep replying to my comment like "oh but what if women are into it" SHUT UP 🤚

The women who endorse BDSM are pickmes.

Resident-Equipment95 · 2021-08-10T23:44:39+00:00

Women who “enjoy” BDSM are pickmes and/or recovering from trauma. There is nothing empowering about being degraded.

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-08-11T06:48:51+00:00

They are actually seen as misogynists, even within the kink community. Problem is that they are tolerated. NV-dOmInAnT-men self describe that way with a tongue in cheek sort of "charisma" which abolishes all constructive discussion. The kinkmeishas have only themselves to blame for enabling and even openly defending those abusers (ironically that's one of the rare occasions they are allowed to speak openly despite being a woman). Needless to say that kinksters absolutely despise assertive or feminist women as human beings.

fairywakes · 2021-08-11T00:30:20+00:00

Let’s 👏 fucking 👏 talk 👏

Title	let’s talk about it
Author	Resident-Equipment95
Upvotes	2133
Comments	29
Date	August 10, 2021 4:26 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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