Level up sis!

throwawayitst · 2020-06-13T05:24:32+00:00

Im the happiest ive ever been, been 3.5 months since i broke up with the ‘love of my ..’ nativity BS ☺️

I go to sleep feeling grateful everyday and it has changed my life

redpeithos · 2020-06-13T10:11:49+00:00

It also certainly helps once you remove the rosy glasses and start seeing things the way they are. Many men who used to seem special become uninteresting - and perhaps even repulsive - once you remove these glasses.

PsychologicalBeat2 · 2020-06-13T07:19:08+00:00

Lmao this is so true. If I ran into my ex now I wouldn't even give him a second look

pickmieshaexorcist · 2020-06-13T13:14:58+00:00

Very true. My ex husband was an emotionally unavailable nerdy “intellectual”. I used to be all about the aloof nerd boys. Not anymore, no way, no how. My current husband is so different that I’d have never imagined myself where I am now years ago.

Sreshme · 2020-06-13T13:27:41+00:00

For most of us, he was never our type and level to begin with.

2020-06-13T14:33:08+00:00

If you cringe at the the thought of the men you've dated in the past, you've definitely leveled up!

trippysloths · 2020-06-13T05:47:14+00:00

So true. I always date guys that look completely different so if an ex runs into me, he sees that he isn’t even my type anymore. Or I date ones that look similar to show how replaceable men are. What do you think hits worse? If he looks like your new man or looks completely different 😂

bey124 · 2020-06-13T09:39:48+00:00

Now, let’s call us women instead of “females” and I can 100% agree

ThatTXHRlady · 2020-06-13T11:24:02+00:00

This is so true! Iwish had found this sub before finding my ex. Throughout that whole relationship I was such a pick me. We had just had a baby who was born with complications and I kept worrying if I was meeting my ex's needs while caring for our sick baby.

That's when I realized my child needed me more and my looks, job, etc. could go to hell as long as this child was healthy. I kept trying to convince my ex "give me time, I'll go back to work and start bringing money in again, just let the little one get healthy". Nope, he continued cheating cause "I wasn't meeting his needs, I wasn't taking care of myself".

So I threw the whole dude away, my child outgrew his condition, I finished my bachelor's, got my professional certification, got the best job ever with great compensation, opened a side business, and feel a whole lot better about myself.

I wouldn't even look at him now 🙄🙄🙄

venus_lee · 2020-06-13T10:09:44+00:00

This is honestly so fuuny and true, even personality has to be different

pancakeCEO · 2020-06-13T22:55:05+00:00

This is so true... I leveled up haaaardcore after the disintegration of my first relationship. I don't know what happened to my ex but he gained what looks like 50+ pounds. It doesn't bring me any gratification just vague sadness for humanity.

keepcalmandFREAKOUT · 2020-06-13T10:41:57+00:00

Lmao true. I look back with disgust.

Saving_Is_Golden · 2020-06-13T09:10:21+00:00

I can't wait to level up.

SuccessfulShow5 · 2020-06-14T03:01:41+00:00

I’m trying 😢

even_thriller · 2020-06-15T12:25:52+00:00

Pretty much this is spot on. Its healthy to complete a lot of self reflection and change after a relationship that eventually you turn cringe and think 'why did I ever date this person?!'

em0873 · 2020-06-18T02:06:35+00:00

True lol my type is girls now lmao

Title	Level up sis!
Author	ishika_23
Upvotes	659
Comments	32
Date	June 13, 2020 5:20 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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