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[–]sentinelsexyFDS Newbie174 points175 points176 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
he'll be interested for 2 seconds
[–]PinkFurLookinLikeCamFDS Newbie[S] 87 points88 points89 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly - cause any guy who’s interest swings all over the place like that don’t mean shit
[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple143 points144 points145 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Are they starved for positive attention or do they just have low self esteem that they don’t want to work on? Why is it everyone else’s fault for not complimenting enough? I can compliment til I’m blue in mfing face and it won’t do shit if they don’t work on themselves.
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[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple60 points61 points62 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I just don’t understand like... if you want more compliments, compliment each other more. Again, why is it on us to fucking make the changes you demand?
[–]HennyyenniFDS Apprentice47 points48 points49 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
They only want compliments from girls they wanna fuck and they only want compliments on their mediocre looks and intelligence. Try telling a guy that he’s kind or sweet they don’t consider that a compliment judging by all the losers constantly whining about “oh girls always say how nice I am but they don’t fuck me cause they only want douchebags!” 😂
I work in customer service I get compliments on my makeup, my hair, my outfits, that I look pretty but I also get compliments that I’m sweet and friendly and that makes me super happy. But LVM rich or poor none of them want to be told how kind they are. Elon musk who is LV but incredibly rich I doubt he gives a shit about kindness. And broke dudes they wanna hear about how hot they are regardless of their broke selves but they don’t care about being called nice and sweet. LV Men want specific fake shallow compliments from women who will fuck them. They literally think if a woman compliments them but didn’t fuck them that the woman was lying. It’s honestly their fault they don’t get compliments.
[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If you tell a guy he is nice he'll shit himself. They think it's an insult.
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Part of thinks if a guy is insulted by being called nice they're becoming self aware
I'd be devestates if the only way someone could describe me is as "nice"
[–]HennyyenniFDS Apprentice25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
They don’t have anything worth complimenting about but they feel entitled to compliments.
Also they want compliments for the bare minimum. “I have a job and no criminal record and I pay the minimum child support I’m a good man praise me!” 😂
But then you entertain them and say “yes you’re such a good man unlike the other 95 percent of men” they call you a sexist misandrist who thinks all men should die.
[–]fim_de_semanaFDS Apprentice22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More often than not they don’t have low enough self esteem with how entitled they are.
[–]MonicaLSolisFDS Disciple20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why is the burden on us to compliment them? Why can't men compliment each other?
[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They do it by giving each other pay raises and promotions.
[–]skyerippaFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The dumb thing is I constantly compliment my male friends and bfs and my friends compliment theirs too and I see it happen. Who wbere exactly are all these compliment starved men then?
[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s the incels who don’t go outside and spend their entire time insulting women online. “Gee sir, allow me to compliment your charming way with words as you insult my gender, intelligence and body. Cheers!”
I think guys mostly just want physical compliments like the ones they primarily give, while we are much more likely to compliment personality traits or accomplishments, if we give compliments. They probably think sleeping with them is the compliment 🙄
[–]sadocapitalist-1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Compliments make me feel worse about myself. Still working on self esteem but it for sure comes from within.
[–]feminologie_FDS Apprentice55 points56 points57 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't compliment men anymore because whenever I do, they assume I've just offered my body to them. No, scrote. Stop reading into every damn thing and making it sexual when it's not
[–]lvioletsnowFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. Once locked gazes with a guy, when I turned away I could feel him staring at me, so I looked again and he took that as a sign to approach. Being a moron, I gave him my number figuring it couldn't hurt.
Naturally, first thing he wants to do is come over late at night to "play games" and "chill".
Interestingly, I was coming into the 'Anger' stage of disillusionment and tried pushing for a proper date and he just would not stop trying to get me violate my boundaries. Swore up and down he wasn't up to anything. Lies.
[–]blueveinnobleFDS Apprentice[🍰] 172 points173 points174 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
"The average guy is so starved for guilt-free sex, that a simple "hi" (from you) is enough for him to think he's entitled to your company and your body"
-A translation
[–]__kamikaze__FDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Truth! This is a phd level analysis 😂
[–]PinkFurLookinLikeCamFDS Newbie[S] 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This the one 💯
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
thank you
[–]Mimory1254 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂😂😂😂
[–]HealingGumsMurphy01Throwaway Account0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wonder whose guilt? Because they sure as hell are shameless in their thoughts and attitudes.
[–]MonicaLSolisFDS Disciple35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But if you compliment him, you have to look fuckable enough for him. Otherwise, he will be disgusted.
[–]eveninghopeFDS Apprentice55 points56 points57 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, what's to stop men from complimenting each other, aside from their own issues and ingrained ideas of toxic masculinity
[–]Proud-PurposeFDS Apprentice[🍰] 32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
In order for that to work, men would have to care about other men's input on their sexual value first. They don't, even if they pretend they do. No migtoe hugbox full of men gassing each other up about how "alpha" they are has ever increased men's self esteem. The more they do it, the more they know it's fake, the more negged they feel in the end. That's why every male needs a female to support his fragile ego (whether she's a wife or a random stripper), other men won't do.
Fun fact: most bodybuilding forums have a running joke about how "getting JACKED and SHREDDED" will only get you complimented by other men while sexy women chase scrawny twinks.
[–]fim_de_semanaFDS Apprentice16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men’s sense self worth is tied to their sense of sexual value. They don’t give a shit what other men say because it doesn’t change their own view on their perceived sexual value.
That’s why some men hire prostitutes just to talk to, instead of, say, talking to their male friends.
[–]PinkFurLookinLikeCamFDS Newbie[S] 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And us women give legitimate opinions to eachother, whether positive or negative, which is why I will ALWAYS highly value a compliment from another woman💅🏼
[–]polardonutFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol and suddenly they expect women to come up to them and give them compliments. Like no, I dont want ur creepy ass thinking that u can hit on me. There was a post about this on r/TwoXChromosomes. Someone saw a post like this and decided to compliment guys more.... results were.... what u would expect. Basically she aint doing that no more. Wonder y....
[–][deleted] 47 points48 points49 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
In hs I had a bf who literally had a crush on me and the whole school. Those guys are for everyone lmao
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[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Male version of pick me?! Lol😂
[–]CoffeeBeforeAdultyFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg...pretty sure that trait was in every guy I dated. 😮
The guy who went back to his ex when I was in hs because I wouldn't let him kiss me. Who went back to me later and we "dated" for like 4 months. 🤮 He also happened to be soooo hung up on a completely different ex. I should have posted alllll the laugh emojis when he told me (I was young and pre FDS, I was still laughing but didn't show it on msgr). Grossest guy I have ever met.
The guy who bounced off the girls in our mutual social grouping in jr high, who I said no to in jr high and should have kept that no solid at 18/19 instead of agreeing to date the guy who basically said he "had someone who really wanted to date him" and had been "waiting a while". 🙄 My pick me ass.
Annnddd...last but not least, the guy who actually said he wanted an Island of cute girls. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
I am not proud.
[–]vmuzondiFDS Disciple19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
This statement is like a beam coming from a lighthouse for pickmes. When they hear this, they feel vindicated for putting so much energy into men. “Aww he just doesn’t know his worth. I’m just showing him how great he is by doing xyz.” I feel like men know what they are doing when they say stuff like this. Now it’s our burden to bring up their self esteem and fix their insecurity issues. Clearly, we are the ones causing them to be such hollow shells of human beings.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This was literally me.
[–]GAaliyah12Pickmeisha™️14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop being nice to men
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
INTERESTED TO PUMP AND DUMP YOU.
not interested in you as a human being.
[–]MonicaLSolisFDS Disciple10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Boo hoo
[–]Mimory1259 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bitch "I'm starved for casual sex and NSA with any hot girl" this is what these dumb shits are trying to say
[–]StrawberryMoon3FDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why doesn't he ask his homeboys for attention?
[–]Noemie_MathildeFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
WHY are they starved of positive attention?
Because they are not doing anything positive with their lives.
[–]Kitty015FDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If I could make any man interested in me by complimenting them then I’d be complimenting HVM only. Not these LV scrotes.
[–]_tinyimpFDS Apprentice10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s called insecurity
[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha! A compliment? I absent-mindedly smiled a guy a few days ago because he looked at me for staring absent-mindedly in his direction. And then he got all excited and said something dumb to me.
[–]lvioletsnowFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Every time I've complimented a man, save once, they've taken it as foreplay or something. They say they want compliments, but what they really want is an excuse to proposition you.
[–]yourscreennamesucksFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No but we already know this don't we?
[–]th3n3w3ston3Pickmeisha™️2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right? This isn't a secret.
[–]QuicklyquiglyFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow. Gross. A simple compliment from a man is enough for me to consider them an irritant that I wish I could physically swat away like a mosquito. But no, I have to be like awwwww thanks because if they’re not coddled it’s a whole big thing and I don’t have any interest in stroking their ego that way either. If I’m ever so fucking fragile that a cheap compliment means anything to me other than a nuisance then I deserve the misery that being so pathetic brings me.
[–]PinkFurLookinLikeCamFDS Newbie[S] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A male I don’t know randomly complimenting me is actually scary, since we all know they’re prone to violence and emotional outbursts if we don’t go “oMg Meeeeee😍😍😍😍” 😒
[–]sadocapitalist4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You get what you give when it comes to positive attention. Men should be nicer to each other. Not really my problem though.
[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Positive attention? The world is made by men for men. Mediocre men get promotions and high paying jobs.
[–]scootinawayfromuThrowaway Account5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So close to getting why girls don’t compliment guys more but he is way too dense to see from the other POV. You can’t even comment on a haircut without a guy being blown away that you notice.... you must have a crush right? No girl wants to give these guys the wrong idea cause they are the first to make you feel the worst about doing something NICE. Normalize guys complimenting guys and remove the stigma they themselves have created.
[–]buffysummerrsFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s like the men who have big Instagram accounts. I’ll see all these girls who will write “Omg you’re so handsome!” “You can have me daddy!” “Sexy boy” “🔥🔥🔥”
And I’m thinking “Ew. You’re just feeding into this narcissists ego. He doesn’t care. It just makes him go ha-ha I’m so hot and everyone knows. Then he feels he can act like a dick to everyone and get away with it. He already knows he’s hot, hence why he made an Instagram account and has 30k followers. You don’t need to tell him.”
I actually tend to troll them when I come by them, just because I can’t stand it. They’re addicted to attention like some celebrity and it’s gross. And you can tell they’re not nice people. This is why I don’t compliment guys. Guys run with compliments and think they’re hot shit. Women don’t.
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