No thanks.

sentinelsexy · 2020-09-09T18:54:41+00:00

he'll be interested for 2 seconds

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-09-09T19:15:50+00:00

Are they starved for positive attention or do they just have low self esteem that they don’t want to work on? Why is it everyone else’s fault for not complimenting enough? I can compliment til I’m blue in mfing face and it won’t do shit if they don’t work on themselves.

feminologie_ · 2020-09-09T22:00:45+00:00

I don't compliment men anymore because whenever I do, they assume I've just offered my body to them. No, scrote. Stop reading into every damn thing and making it sexual when it's not

blueveinnoble · 2020-09-09T19:13:42+00:00

"The average guy is so starved for guilt-free sex, that a simple "hi" (from you) is enough for him to think he's entitled to your company and your body"

-A translation

MonicaLSolis · 2020-09-09T22:05:01+00:00

But if you compliment him, you have to look fuckable enough for him. Otherwise, he will be disgusted.

eveninghope · 2020-09-09T19:37:03+00:00

Honestly, what's to stop men from complimenting each other, aside from their own issues and ingrained ideas of toxic masculinity

polardonut · 2020-09-09T22:02:03+00:00

Lol and suddenly they expect women to come up to them and give them compliments. Like no, I dont want ur creepy ass thinking that u can hit on me. There was a post about this on r/TwoXChromosomes. Someone saw a post like this and decided to compliment guys more.... results were.... what u would expect. Basically she aint doing that no more. Wonder y....

CoffeeBeforeAdulty · 2020-09-09T19:18:30+00:00

In hs I had a bf who literally had a crush on me and the whole school. Those guys are for everyone lmao

vmuzondi · 2020-09-09T22:01:09+00:00

This statement is like a beam coming from a lighthouse for pickmes. When they hear this, they feel vindicated for putting so much energy into men. “Aww he just doesn’t know his worth. I’m just showing him how great he is by doing xyz.” I feel like men know what they are doing when they say stuff like this. Now it’s our burden to bring up their self esteem and fix their insecurity issues. Clearly, we are the ones causing them to be such hollow shells of human beings.

GAaliyah12 · 2020-09-09T23:14:53+00:00

Stop being nice to men

2020-09-09T22:34:25+00:00

INTERESTED TO PUMP AND DUMP YOU.

not interested in you as a human being.

MonicaLSolis · 2020-09-09T21:55:53+00:00

Boo hoo

Mimory125 · 2020-09-09T23:40:15+00:00

Bitch "I'm starved for casual sex and NSA with any hot girl" this is what these dumb shits are trying to say

StrawberryMoon3 · 2020-09-10T00:23:11+00:00

Why doesn't he ask his homeboys for attention?

Noemie_Mathilde · 2020-09-10T01:27:48+00:00

WHY are they starved of positive attention?

Because they are not doing anything positive with their lives.

Kitty015 · 2020-09-10T00:58:25+00:00

If I could make any man interested in me by complimenting them then I’d be complimenting HVM only. Not these LV scrotes.

_tinyimp · 2020-09-09T19:38:06+00:00

That’s called insecurity

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-09-10T01:26:17+00:00

Hahaha! A compliment? I absent-mindedly smiled a guy a few days ago because he looked at me for staring absent-mindedly in his direction. And then he got all excited and said something dumb to me.

yourscreennamesucks · 2020-09-10T01:27:52+00:00

No but we already know this don't we?

Quicklyquigly · 2020-09-10T05:24:08+00:00

Wow. Gross. A simple compliment from a man is enough for me to consider them an irritant that I wish I could physically swat away like a mosquito. But no, I have to be like awwwww thanks because if they’re not coddled it’s a whole big thing and I don’t have any interest in stroking their ego that way either. If I’m ever so fucking fragile that a cheap compliment means anything to me other than a nuisance then I deserve the misery that being so pathetic brings me.

sadocapitalist · 2020-09-10T10:55:02+00:00

You get what you give when it comes to positive attention. Men should be nicer to each other. Not really my problem though.

ItsFreezen · 2020-09-10T11:23:08+00:00

Positive attention? The world is made by men for men. Mediocre men get promotions and high paying jobs.

scootinawayfromu · 2020-09-10T14:41:22+00:00

So close to getting why girls don’t compliment guys more but he is way too dense to see from the other POV. You can’t even comment on a haircut without a guy being blown away that you notice.... you must have a crush right? No girl wants to give these guys the wrong idea cause they are the first to make you feel the worst about doing something NICE. Normalize guys complimenting guys and remove the stigma they themselves have created.

buffysummerrs · 2020-09-10T04:48:58+00:00

It’s like the men who have big Instagram accounts. I’ll see all these girls who will write “Omg you’re so handsome!” “You can have me daddy!” “Sexy boy” “🔥🔥🔥”

And I’m thinking “Ew. You’re just feeding into this narcissists ego. He doesn’t care. It just makes him go ha-ha I’m so hot and everyone knows. Then he feels he can act like a dick to everyone and get away with it. He already knows he’s hot, hence why he made an Instagram account and has 30k followers. You don’t need to tell him.”

I actually tend to troll them when I come by them, just because I can’t stand it. They’re addicted to attention like some celebrity and it’s gross. And you can tell they’re not nice people. This is why I don’t compliment guys. Guys run with compliments and think they’re hot shit. Women don’t.

Title	No thanks.
Author	PinkFurLookinLikeCam
Upvotes	276
Comments	54
Date	September 9, 2020 6:49 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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