OP asks if she should go on another date, (but without alcohol this time). After commenters criticize HER reckless behavior, she even considers apologizing to HIM for getting blackout drunk. “Maybe he didn’t know you passed out” or “If you can’t keep up, don’t drink” offered as words of support 🙄

LadyHormoneMonster · 2020-02-25T04:26:59+00:00

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Pizza-n-Lice · 2020-02-25T05:52:29+00:00

Accidentally slipped it in her ass? This is so fucked up and disgusting. Drinking on a date is a horrible idea. Going home with a stranger is a horrible idea. "No red flags"... yeah except for the rape.

extraacct1234 · 2020-02-25T04:25:03+00:00

Complete with "accidental anal"....

Bullshit he didn't know she was drunk off her ass. Also I'm really not sure how you black out after a bottle of wine. I have shit for tolerance but I can drink a bottle. I'll definitely be drunk but I'll remember everything that happened.

This is so messed up.

Skittleschild02 · 2020-02-25T04:36:16+00:00

.......Beam me up! Fuck these humans & stop the planet. I want off.

VanHustlerBaby · 2020-02-25T05:50:52+00:00

I had to show my ex bf the British video about ‘tea and consent’ he raped me when I was passed out drunk and used every excuse in the book, I only knew because there was damage...

quaintlyspoken · 2020-02-25T06:42:44+00:00

Pure rape culture.

What a barbaric world.

JCPCat1956 · 2020-02-25T08:56:55+00:00

Wow she got date raped and gaslit. 😭

This is exactly why alcohol is not a good idea for first dates or ever, with this guy.

A part of me wishes he were in prison and gets the same treatment while being fully awake.

phantom_0007 · 2020-02-25T09:44:06+00:00

Yikes, I wouldn't want to be in her place after she realizes she's been raped. I don't know what makes men do this, but reading things like this makes me want to swear off dating and become a vigilante and smash all these narcs in the skull.

Maisiebr · 2020-02-25T10:04:19+00:00

The accidental anal makes it even worse.

Estelwaterbottles · 2020-02-25T08:38:52+00:00

Disgusting. Everything about it

azngirl7689 · 2020-02-25T13:27:34+00:00

That sounds like date rape. Accidental anal after drinking? Not planned at all.

Warrior-Kai · 2020-02-25T14:55:14+00:00

She was too drunk to consent. This is rape.

psychsense · 2020-02-25T05:52:59+00:00

This is why I quit drinking right here

LadyHormoneMonster · 2020-02-25T09:39:51+00:00

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blackopium777 · 2020-02-25T15:13:06+00:00

This is absolutely horrifying! This was definitely rape and I am simply so disgusted..

I had some really hard months after getting out of an abusive relationship. I was drunk nearly every day, week after week. In that time, I never got blackout drunk, I always KNEW what was going on, my body just didn't quiet listen to my mind, so some guys thought I was trashed, while I was still in my right mind. The amount of ugly, balding dudes 10+years older than me, trying to make me go with them was huge. I was never out alone, luckily, so my friends always told them to fuck off and took care of me. It's so disgusting to think about all the predators that go around and look for young, blackout drunk girls to basically rape. I honestly wouldn't know how I would react, if something happened to me, especially something horrible like this girl had to endure. I would probably kill this person for being such a POS.

riseaboveagain · 2020-02-25T16:03:09+00:00

The guy is a predator and it was all intentional on his part. He’s probably done this many times before.

How will she feel when she finds out he probably filmed it with his laptop camera, too?

My heart bleeds for her. This poor girl needs to wake up. Oh, and get an STD test, too.

Iprotestthetest · 2020-02-25T09:34:48+00:00

I really hope she doesn’t meet him again

timetofliptables · 2020-02-25T17:09:30+00:00

Tag her! Whatever sub she’s posted that in I can’t imagine it’s doing anything good for her.

Fucker knew exactly what the fuck he was doing and then he got an additional kick out of telling her about it the next day as if it was all her idea.

No no no fucking rapists getting away with shit over and over. I’m fucking fuming right now.

2020-02-25T21:16:39+00:00

Holy fuck did anyone tell her to get to a safe place? She was literally the victim of a crime here.

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