Stop telling men about your birth control

SaltCupcake · 2019-12-03T20:50:38+00:00

Absolutely!!!! Condoms EVERYTIME. The amount of dirty dick out there is astounding. Men truly don’t give a fuck. They’ll fuck anything. I heard a “joke” from a comedian that described how he fucked a rotting banana peel....let that sink in.

suaveagave · 2019-12-03T20:36:24+00:00

I tell all men I’m not on birth control. Men are already insanely reckless with sexual health as it is (only one man I’ve ever been with insisted on using condoms every time). If after learning I’m not on BC, they still try to pressure me into using no condoms, it says all I need to know about them and they get ghosted.

rftw2013 · 2019-12-03T21:10:05+00:00

MEN LIE SO THAT THEY CAN HAVE SEX RAW WITH YOU.

MAKE HIM USE A CONDOM, EVERY TIME.

Ms_Tilly · 2019-12-03T20:26:05+00:00

Honestly this is the best advice I've heard in awhile. I have the implant because it's easier. I'm going to tell any man I'm considering sleeping with that I can't take birth control and see wtf he says. Anything other than "No problem. I believe in using condoms every time!" won't be accepted from me.

extraacct1234 · 2019-12-03T20:45:25+00:00

Not to mention if you tell these idiots you are on birth control they treat it like a sex toy or something kinky that you are doing for their sexual satisfaction. They start talking to you and about you like you're some sl+t wh+re they can do whatever they want to. Men are essentially retarded because of their entitlement, penis and testosterone.

PlatyupsCommittee · 2019-12-03T20:49:19+00:00

OMG. Your friend's plan was such a bad idea.

As to condomless sex?

I never moved forward dating a man unless he was willing to go to get tested with me in tow and then show me the results once he had them. May seem like overkill, but:

(a) It weeds A LOT of them out. Most of them will say something like, "You don't even trust me?" No, of course I don't. I barely know you.

(b) We all deserve to have that information before we sleep with someone.

(c) A lot of men have never gotten tested at all and just assume they haven't got anything if they don't have symptoms.

If a man really likes you and you mention this, he'll get tested as soon as he possibly can. He'll call his doctor right then and there to schedule it. Don't have sex with him even WITH condoms if he won't do that.

And as to birth control, say you're not on it for health reasons that you can't change. Then later when you trust him enough to have condomless sex, just tell him you and your doctor finally figured out a form of birth control that works for you.

2019-12-03T20:46:26+00:00

if you tell them you are on BC they will stop using condoms. I will never tell anyone about my BC until marriage.

letsberealforamoment · 2019-12-03T21:18:39+00:00

I had this discussion recently. I told him I was not on any kind of Birth Control, and never have been and never will be. I have two kids. I told him i am blessed with very regular cycles and that I do not have sex between days 10 and 18 of my cycle. If I do have sex during those times, then he wears a condom. That arrangement worked for my 2 prior husbands, and it will work for any future sex partners.

ddl2046 · 2019-12-03T20:45:55+00:00

Pretty good advice actually..thank you for this

AlienUtterings · 2019-12-04T13:42:06+00:00

WHY do some women think it's okay for the male to sleep w others?? EWWWW

NoThisIs-Patrick · 2019-12-03T20:53:48+00:00

Your friend is gonna have a bad time with that dude

idiosyncraticg1 · 2019-12-03T21:12:04+00:00

I’m praying male birth control comes to the market in the next few years. Next guy who would want to have sex without a condom will have to be on birth control. Period.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2019-12-03T21:09:55+00:00

People do this?!

a-net_ · 2019-12-04T10:01:54+00:00

It's unbelievable how many men are reckless with not using condoms.

JuddHerpatow · 2019-12-04T04:58:37+00:00

It's sad that it's a nice surprise when a man actually is carrying condoms on a date.

Livingontherock · 2019-12-04T08:31:42+00:00

I don't agree with a ton of the comments on here, but this may be a good thing solely for the rise in HIV.

I grew up as they were trying to eradicate it and made decent moves. Now it is coming back with a vengeance! With the new cocktails and "prep" every one is acting like HIV is not a death sentence. It still is, it just takes longer now.

Also HEP! Omg! The amount of HEP in ages between 16-40 is actually gross at this point.

Novemberinthechair · 2019-12-04T13:45:09+00:00

You are a wise woman.

mandoa_sky · 2019-12-04T14:02:35+00:00

not to mention all the moids out there who commit the crime of stealthing

Title	Stop telling men about your birth control
Author	abacadabat
Upvotes	176
Comments	31
Date	December 3, 2019 8:18 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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