The Fact They Even Have To Ask...

Radiant_Success · 2020-03-19T12:06:08+00:00

She doesn't have a boyfriend. She's somebody's personal fuck buddy.

shiwanginaithani · 2020-03-19T12:40:17+00:00

I have had the same situation where he never had the money when I asked him to meet and would be partying with his boys and I was stupid enough to pay for both of us multiple times.

Dreamer_Of_Time · 2020-03-19T14:17:27+00:00

The fact 6% of the voters said no kinda pisses me off.

Hoping it was only one or two people who voted no, though. Otherwise, if it’s a large number, my faith in humanity has dwindled.

BlackEmeraldMoon · 2020-03-19T14:04:41+00:00

BEEN THERE.

I took him and a friend out for his birthday, meanwhile, I spent my birthday applying for jobs FOR HIM because he got fired and I knew he wouldn't find another job unless i did it for him.

Didn't even get a card of course.

bumblingbumblebees · 2020-03-19T13:07:04+00:00

had this happen to me 😅. i knew i wanted a fuss on my birthday, so at the advice of my friends, i clearly told him my needs. “my bday is a big deal, i want you to make a fuss. i know you are trying to save money so it doesn’t need to be expensive, but it needs to be something.”

he didn’t do jack shit 🤣.

Ngwanuza · 2020-03-19T13:11:21+00:00

You already know that this dude ain't shiiiiiiit! He fails to prioritize your emotional needs. And furthermore, do not fall for the "low maintenance chick" stick- you will eternally be treated as an after thought....

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-03-19T12:40:29+00:00

Oh gosh. This was me once. So glad to be out of that.

2020-03-19T17:54:01+00:00

I would literally feel like a free sex toy if was being treated like this by a man . I can’t believe women are are dating trash and have to ask for opinions for such obvious things.

deathbecoming · 2020-03-19T15:19:41+00:00

For my exes 29th I got him a grill, all the equipment, and threw him a massive party. For my 25th, three months later, he got me a squatty potty. We lived together and he had been wanting one. He didn't even make me dinner. When I left him I took the damn squatty potty.

riseaboveagain · 2020-03-19T13:55:52+00:00

The only reason he even knew it was her birthday is because she probably told him

LVM don’t bother to remember birthdays, but they’d be outraged if you forgot theirs

Parking-Act · 2020-03-19T18:54:49+00:00

This was once me. Except he bought marijuana and alcohol for himself to indulge in alone. I paid for a nice resort/bed and breakfast and purchasef everything. He wrote me happy birthday on a post it note and I held it close to my heart lmao he paid for my lunch and complained about it the whole time that was the only time we didnt go dutch. That demon tried to ruin my birthday again after that one but I was that close to dumping him for the 2nd time and then finally did a few weeks later!

DundiesAllStar · 2020-03-19T14:19:16+00:00

He obviously has money if he’s out with his friends all the time but even if he ha zero money, you don’t need money to make someone feel special. There are so many ways he could’ve celebrated her birthday that wouldn’t have cost anything at all and even more than would’ve cost hardly anything.

If someone cares about you they find a way to let you know regardless of circumstances.

tauruspiscescancer · 2020-03-19T13:30:16+00:00

Someone direct her to this thread! Immediately!

HoneyNJ2000 · 2020-03-19T14:55:41+00:00

Who wants to bet that this fool just gives, gives and gives to this guy - cooking for him and cleaning for him and buying him stuff and probably helping the loser with his bills - all while he continues shitting all over her?

Datonecatladyukno · 2020-03-19T18:32:47+00:00

That 6% of liars though...

FodderFigureIllushun · 2020-03-19T16:20:46+00:00

End it already.

spates6 · 2020-03-19T21:02:47+00:00

lmao she is so cucked

scarletbegonia79 · 2020-03-19T19:26:01+00:00

Come on now! This kind of ignorance is giving the rest of us, with brains, a bad name! You don’t need us to answer this question for you! I don’t care how young you are! Get gone woman! Next question?

G-Minus · 2020-03-20T05:17:00+00:00

Half of the people who voted on that were probably guys.

Title	The Fact They Even Have To Ask...
Author	throwwfarfarawayyyy
Upvotes	466
Comments	27
Date	March 19, 2020 11:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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