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[–]Mean_Green_KweenFDS Disciple[S] 103 points104 points105 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/05/breadwinning-wives-gender-inequality/589237/
But the more economically dependent men are on their wives, the less housework they do. Even women with unemployed husbands spend considerably more time on household chores than their spouses. In other words, women’s success in the workplace is penalized at home.
But the more economically dependent men are on their wives, the less housework they do. Even women with unemployed husbands spend considerably more time on household chores than their spouses.
In other words, women’s success in the workplace is penalized at home.
[–][deleted] 70 points71 points72 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I was always the breadwinner in my marriage. Still did the majority of the parenting and housework until I couldn't take it anymore. It's 100x easier single parenting than being married to an adult child.
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Glad you got out!
[–][deleted] 36 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The worst part is that when these women divorce, at least in most places in the US, they'll be on the hook to pay their lazy ex husbands alimony.
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank God we don't have alimony in my country. That would have sent me off the deep end.. wow, what a slap in the face.
[–]DazzlingMolasses7FDS Newbie26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Jesus women can’t win, can they? I guess the only way is to opt out of the game completely and leave men in the trash can where they belong.
[–]wolfie3793 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't know where you're from, but around here disposing of hazardous waste in an ordinary garbage can is highly illegal.
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I did 100% of house and yard work when my ex was unemployed for close to 5 years. We constantly argued about it and he got so frustrated by it that he became physically abusive. He said that was the reason. He wouldn't empty the dishwasher or do 1 single thing. He wouldn't let our pets outside because it was too difficult and so I cleaned pee and poop off carpet whenever I got home from work, which was long shifts.
He called me a gold digging whore after we split, when I got with my now-fiance who has stable employment. Apparently it's gold digging to want a guy that supports himself.
[–]circescircusRuthless Strategist102 points103 points104 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
At least half of the women on breakingmom are married to this guy. Check out that sub if you want to scare yourself into leveling up and being more selective.
[–]mightbethrowawayyyFDS Newbie66 points67 points68 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
And they think fds is toxic? I just can’t understand
[–]circescircusRuthless Strategist106 points107 points108 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They think FDS is toxic because FDS challenges their martyr complex. They choose shitty men, build shitty lives with them, won't leave these shitty men and then indulge in the depressed alcoholic mommy needs wine subculture as a coping mechanism. I see way more man rants there than kid rants. The sub pretends like both types of rants are the same-- one type of rant is about a grown ass man, another type is about children that are you are responsible for parenting. So even if your kids suck, whose fault is that? You and your NVM husband's fault. The women on that sub are just way too in denial.
[–][deleted] 40 points41 points42 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think they see this sub as toxic because FDS cracks through their self-inflicted denial-fog... Coming out of the fog is too painful for them to cope with, so they will deem anyone who tells them the truth as "man hating" or "toxic.
[–]mightbethrowawayyyFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh wow. I feel bad for their kids then
[–]ManchurianCantaloupeRuthless Strategist44 points45 points46 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Crabs in a bucket. They're miserable and they want you to be, too.
[–]ShaakieFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That sub enrages me!!! How can they be that much of a doormat? It makes my blood boil. I'm so glad i don't have to deal with that shitty lives :S
[–]DaeYeNoKenKINKmeisha™️ on parole6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's actually a very good idea- I find that sub inspirational. Just probably not in the ways they intended!
It's better not to have kids or be a single mum than be partnered with an L/NVM.
[–]InayahDaneenFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That sub Makes me so grateful I haven’t settled for less than what I desire 🙏🏻
[–]fairywakesFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok, my heart was breaking for those women. It just looks and sounds like absolutely hell.
[–]mightbethrowawayyyFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My dad always does cooking and the majority of housework, so do many of my friends’ dads. I never realized “manbaby” was a thing until I left home for college. Then there are those guys who feel entitled and brag about their “cooking skills” because they know how to use a microwave... fuck them
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[–]lonelybones1FDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My ex never took his tooth brush with him when he would stay over at my place even after asking him to. So in the evening when going to bed he wouldn't clean his teeth and the morning after neither. His pubic hair stunk of cheese. It's so gross, like how do women tolerate such behaviour? 🤮
[–]Davina33FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh! Wouldn't be surprised if he is toothless by now. There's no excuse!
[–]InayahDaneenFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OmG grossss 🤢
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[–]DaeYeNoKenKINKmeisha™️ on parole2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bleh! I've encountered a few of them. Nothing wrong with a nice beard on a man... If he keeps it clean!
[–]persephones_torchFDS Disciple23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm grossed out but also impressed
[–]cantstopthemachine77FDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey! How’d you get this picture of my ex!?
[–]--qtbunny--FDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Several years ago I “dated” (I was manipulated into an online relationship with a guy who was 19, and I was 14 at the time). i was with a guy who was a man child, with several bizarre fetishes. This picture reminds me of him. Disgusting, pedophilic and had a huge fetish for diapers and age play.
He used Christianity to justify his sins, by saying that what he was into was moral, and that outsiders didn’t understand him.
At the time I didn’t realize he was a porn addict, but now thinking about it, I’ve noticed the amount of times he wanted me to do really do anal, wear diapers, and pretend to be his mommy, enact porn scenes, despite my numerous responses of saying NO.
[–]WitchykoFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What is he holding in his hand? It is looking like a (his own) rotting cut-off dicklet.
Edit: Oh wait, I think it is a sock, actually. Oh well, still rotting ...
[–]greatcathyFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Enquiring minds - don't want to know!
[–]randomgirlimokFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was married to this guy...
[–]UpbeatIncubatorFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THE POWER OF CHRIST COMPELS YOU! *whips out the holy water*
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You guys keep finding pictures of my ex lmao
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The way a ton of them play video games while they leave their infants and toddlers unattended is baffling. The fact so many women seem to look the other way when their partners spend HOURS playing video games is beyond baffling to me.
[–]wedonthavetobeishtarFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wait. How did you get a picture of my ex?
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[–]ManchurianCantaloupeRuthless Strategist44 points45 points46 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]DaeYeNoKenKINKmeisha™️ on parole6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]cantstopthemachine77FDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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