I (33F), a proud bisexual with a pretty rough history of pickme and kinkmeisha behavior, have recently entered into a serious relationship with a HVW (35f) and it's completely reinforced FDS teachings for me.

We are both PhDs, make about the same money, etc, but I LOVE spoiling her - buying her gifts, taking her out to dinner, planning dates. It's made me realize that all those LVM I've dated in the past didn't really like me that much or value me. (She loves spoiling me too, which is fun) I have NO problem spending effort and money on her and actually really want to just make her happy. That's what all you women deserve.

Furthermore, sex with her is great! Any man who tells you it is hard to make a woman come is A LIAR. You just have to pay attention, listen, and want to do it. Plus, she's never pushing me to do anything I don't want to do.

Tbh, I don't know if things don't work out between us if I'll ever go back to men but if I do, my standards have risen so much. Don't accept less than being treated like the queen you are because if your partner actually cares about you, they'll automatically treat you that way. I sure am because I want to keep her!!