There are many women who want to move abroad for a guy. While the media often glorifies these cases as "romantic examples of how love conquers everything", these stories don't always end with a happy ending. There are plenty of women who moved abroad for their SOs only to end up being dumped, cheated on, scammed, or killed.

It doesn't matter how the guy promises you that it is easy to find a job and how he will give you money after you move for him. Plenty of men are pathological liars. Of course they will tell you about how great life abroad is if he wants to convince you to move. They will only show their true colours after you move.

Moving abroad for a guy is super risky. You're giving up your job, family, and friends for him. If that guy leaves you or dumps you for someone else, you are pretty much stuck with having "nothing". It generally really hard for someone to find a job in a new country. You're literally risking a life in poverty so for some guy who may turn out to be a LVM. You may not even be able to find a job as nice as the one you gave up before moving abroad as the company probably hired someone to "replace" you. Also, once you're in a new country away from family and friends, it's easy for a LVM to isolate you and subsequently abuse or even kill you.

It doesn't matter if you're from a developing country and want to move to a developed country your SO happens to live in. There's the unspoken trend that it's genuinely much harder for someone from a developing country to find a job in a developed country than the other way around. Unfortunately, many companies in developed countries do not recognise degrees from and work experience in developing countries despite not admitting this due to "political correctness".

Many men who convince their SOs to move abroad for them would have never done the same thing for a woman. They are selfish and only care about themselves.