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Michael_Huntington · 2019-03-04T22:14:25+00:00

Yuuuuup. It’s funny how quick “Babe what’s wrong? You can tell me anything.”

Turns into “The only reason you think I’m cheating is because your mom left your family. Don’t take your issues with women out on me!”

PS: she was cheating

MichealScarn92 · 2019-03-04T22:20:28+00:00

Funny story, a few years ago I was dating this girl who was simply not accepting that I wouldn't go any further in our "relationship" (not really a relationship, we just fucked once or twice per month, but in her mind we were almost a couple), so every time I said that I didn't want to see her anymore she would get more and more clingy and stuck like superglue.

So what could I do? I inverted my game, inspired by a work colleague that just had his fiancee end their engagement (he was going through some rough times, his mother and father just died in a car accident and he was left to take care of his 13 year old sister with mental paralysis), I started being all weak and complaining about everything to her, made every talk we had about how hard my work was, how depressed I was feeling, just became a total beta, guess what, she couldn't handle one weak of my downer persona, she ended our "relationship" by text message saying that she needed someone that would make her feel secure, safe from the world, that she didn't want someone who would turn all the conversation about himself. Haha haha

For the love of God, I never laughed so much in my entire life, I can just imagine how a lesbian relationship must be when both of them are in their nagging period. It was a scumbag move of mine to be so deceitful and even to out so much effort to do that, today I would just completely ghost and file a police report if the bitch kept calling and following me around, but hell, that one deserved it.

DaBiff184220 · 2019-03-04T22:26:55+00:00

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o0perfect0o · 2019-03-04T21:12:09+00:00

Classic narcissistic behavior

bonethugsgoat · 2019-03-04T23:09:53+00:00

Don't never ever open up to a woman, they give zero fucks about your feelings or emotions, I learned this the hard way a long time ago when I got emotional around my then GF and opening up to her about how much I missed my nephew who passed away in 2003 at only 4 years old.

Soon after she became about as dry personality wise as anybody could ever become, these broads have no sympathy. Besides, tools aren't supposed to have emotions and that's what we are to women.

Once you show one little crack they figure you're already broken and toss you out to get another.

DrFeelFantastic · 2019-03-04T22:32:45+00:00

Yeah, this and worse. Like pressuring a guy to open up about being cheated on or treated badly by another female and then hide cheating or abuse by saying, you're just paranoid, it's your ex that damaged you. Total gas lighting.

Although I've experienced this, is it really something every, or most or even a lot of women do? I've always thought this was more of a a narcissist or Machiavellianist.

momonboi · 2019-03-04T23:43:25+00:00

Lol I was with a girl for two and a half years, at which point I cried in front of her for the first time (was going through some tough shit). She dumped me that same week and told me, “I always thought you were strong until now.”

Turns out she had already been seeing someone else so she pretty much just used it as an excuse to break up.

SomeoneStopMePlease · 2019-03-05T04:12:42+00:00

Had an ex pressure me into telling her the story of how I lost two good friends from my active duty days to suicide. Before I met her, twice a year on the days they died i would send flowers to their graves and go out and buy them a beer and drink it "with them". I finally told her the stories of their lives, how they were leading up to it and what it took out of me when they died

When I caught her cheating and left her, one of the things she said to me when I asked " how am I supposed to just get over this?" was "oh, and if you ever get sad just know theres always an answer. Go grab your rifle and join your friends".

So yeah. Keep your private shit private.

heal_thyself · 2019-03-04T23:43:38+00:00

The first girl I got serious with spawned a relationship and I made the mistake of telling her she was my first and she used that to make me feel self-conscious whenever she was mad at me. It was hard for me to find women at the time, but she was pretty social and had a lot of orbiters so she was way more experienced than me. (Trust me, she made that very clear to me on several occasions) Whenever she wanted to hurt me, she would just bring up the fact that I can't find anyone else or that I'm 'still learning' -- as if that's something I should've been ashamed of. It was a big deal to me that it happened, but obviously she meant more to me than I did to her. Never gonna make the mistake of opening up again.

fuckyouredditx2 · 2019-03-05T01:09:18+00:00

I leaned this when I was 16 but it didn't register until 10 years later when literally every bitch did the exact same thing....

Gentlemen, there are some things you have to learn to take to your grave

Profligate-Prophet · 2019-03-04T23:32:28+00:00

Its so shitty that this is true. I am not going to say 100% of women do this... but such a large number of them do you cant even trust them. Ask yourself is it worth losing it all just to open up?

rmullen1282 · 2019-03-04T23:59:26+00:00

Been there before. Ex complained I didn't open up enough. So I called her bluff, started opening up immediately and was brutally honest 24/7. She couldn't handle it so I laughed in her face and said, "this is what YOU wanted".

traveling_introvert · 2019-03-05T01:43:54+00:00

If you're a man who's having problems discuss them with a trusted male confidant; your pastor, your father, a mentor etc.

Thiopental5mg · 2019-03-05T03:30:40+00:00

I opened up to my mother about my depression, then later a couple of months when she got mad she told me 'how about you kill yourself'? And that coming from a person's mother

user_miki · 2019-03-04T21:28:44+00:00

True as the females wall .

BonelessSkinless · 2019-03-05T00:59:44+00:00

Facts.

Super mega facts.

And they call us detached, sticky this tweet to the main banner.

ramfex21 · 2019-03-05T02:33:48+00:00

It’s a shame to know that you can’t actually open up to women. Because they will use it against you. And if you don’t open up to them they will use the excuse that you are too distant and that’s why they cheated... lol .

TheNewAge2147 · 2019-03-05T01:58:10+00:00

Whenever a girl asks me to open up, all I will tell her next time is that my deep down inner personal issue is that I am an extremely confident playboy who scores so many girls that it's hurting my chances to get into heaven so I am forcing myself to be humble and act shy. This way, she won't be able to suddenly lose interest in me like they always do after you actually tell them your secrets

tolstushki701 · 2019-03-05T02:13:03+00:00

Sadly, I once opened up to my sister and it didn’t turn out well. Ever since she has been using it against me in every argument.

SuspiciousTruth · 2019-03-05T01:32:24+00:00

Just like in “ Friends”, when Jennifer Aniston’s character dragged Bruce Willis’ character because he opened up to her after she begged him to.

SilenceOnTheWire · 2019-03-05T02:08:41+00:00

True. Even my own mother does that, that's why I never tell her anything.

Fuck, I never trusted women and learnt from a very young age never to, precisely because of this sort of shit.

helenvsgladys · 2019-03-05T05:10:05+00:00

True as hell. I told "the love of my life" some incredibly personal things about insecurities I'd struggled with in the past, and it was less than three weeks before she was throwing that shit back at me with the most sickening sneer on her face I've ever seen, over a completely insignificant argument that just happened to catch her on a bad day.

SnarkyFella · 2019-03-04T23:33:14+00:00

This guy again? He really knows his shit.

JaySuperFly · 2019-03-05T01:26:24+00:00

I remember I told my girlfriend about my grandmother who passed away after complications with Alzheimer’s. My grandmother lived with my family while she was dealing with this and it was a horrible experience that I wish I could forget. I would vent to her about this. A couple of weeks later me and her got into an argument and she started laughing at how my grandmother died and how she had forgotten who I was at times and about how her condition would make her say hurtful things to me. This is the reason why I’m never venting about personal matters with anyone outside of my family.

Partucero69 · 2019-03-05T01:57:12+00:00

So damn true. As a divorced man. I approve this post.

ILOVEASIANCUNTS · 2019-03-05T02:14:50+00:00

absolutely 100% correct

purplemashpotato · 2019-03-05T03:11:34+00:00

Accurate

wisdom_of_Solomon · 2019-03-05T03:41:10+00:00

Do not show them where to stick the knife.

They will.

Taylor-Made-Life · 2019-03-05T04:49:56+00:00

I noticed a difference in you the last couple days, just want you to know that I'm here for you, she said. Me:Okay, I'm struggling to quit smoking weed, I was on day 12 yesterday without it but I smoked and I wish I could just be done. Her: "That's it, I'm fucking out of here, I'm not going to be with a stoner! I'm taking our daughter, see you in court!" -RealShit

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2019-03-05T10:14:25+00:00

NEVER open up to a woman.

(a) You are giving her ammunition for the next time you have an argument.

(b) For a woman, familiarity breeds contempt. Once she knows your weaknesses - or even that you HAVE any - she will start to respect you less as a man. Indeed you may find she is no longer sexually attracted to you, or less attracted.

NEVER open up to a woman. It will make your relationship worse, not better.

vivid_mind · 2019-03-05T02:38:30+00:00

Once she uses all the ammo and see nothing breaks you any more she'll always call your mom a whore. Then you say AWALT and grin.

Jugrnot8 · 2019-03-05T08:18:56+00:00

Had this happen multiple times. When some women gets mad they go ww3 quickly and somehow it's still all your fault you made them do it

ChinaCatLogan · 2019-03-04T23:58:07+00:00

Strange, cuz when you try to tell a typical boy about problems the response is to man up. Or they don't want to hear about it cuz it's not manly. Bit of a double negative.

mdedian · 2019-03-05T01:12:16+00:00

I’d hope no one here relies on a woman to “fix” them in the first place...

ndaloim17 · 2019-03-05T01:50:15+00:00

Had one telling my bro and I to lower our confidence. That's WTF you females like!!!

jacketguy · 2019-03-05T03:22:18+00:00

sooooooooooo true

MesaBoogeyMan · 2019-03-05T05:04:10+00:00

100 fucking percent.

JokololoTheSearcher · 2019-03-05T06:46:43+00:00

Oh men I experienced it several times.

Rakialtj · 2019-03-05T07:06:20+00:00

Ahahahaha So True!

SuperWoosh_LG · 2019-03-05T10:51:20+00:00

Man, this hits home. I was a chick for four years, she was an anxious wreck, she had a personality disorder, and was just generally difficult. I did everything to help her, and detach her somewhat from her narcissistic mother; she genuinley was a different person; much stronger and infinitely more confident. After putting up with her shit for 4 years, and constantly treading on eggshells and weighing up every word I spoke, I too got anxiety, really bad, and chronic stress and depression.

So, she left me. After all I did to help her, she wouldn't even entertain the notion of attempting to help me. I learned an invaluable lesson there, and it's shaped me into who I am now. So...thanks, I guess, bitch?

Anomalistic_Username · 2019-03-05T13:30:11+00:00

Yea just like my mother.

I confessed to her first that I hate my uni course and wanted to drop out and stay home.

We both told dad and he was chill about it and was happy to have me back home.

So i’m taking a break atm before transferring to IT.

I had a small stupid argument with my mom today and she told me that I’m a loser who has nothing to do in the house while everybody else (my high school classmates) is succeeding in life.

It hit me hard but it’s true. But wtf, thought you were supporting me rather than belittling me

1haitham11 · 2019-03-05T06:19:57+00:00

a girl i met on a tinder equivalent used my history with my dad as a threat/blackmail so i can be with her, i blocked her and ignored completely. i never met her face to face, just phone calls / texts, this lasted one week until i offed her

thetrueassman · 2019-03-05T06:23:41+00:00

FACTS

sacredsub · 2019-03-05T07:11:56+00:00

I undersnd MGTOW points of view. Yet I fear it may rob some of you from experiencing life o the fullest. Rag away, as you will.

anasbb · 2019-03-05T08:57:33+00:00

Couldn't agree more.

irishluckk · 2019-03-05T09:14:16+00:00

It's a shit test

smfuel87 · 2019-03-05T11:19:06+00:00

I never understoodthis shit.

My last gf fucking berated me frequently for "not opening up".

Sure as shit over one quasi argument, I do.

And of course as you expose yourself as weaker, she loses interest because now you appear weak.

"PFFfffff you're such a pussy"..... and leaves...

bradtwo · 2019-03-05T12:00:01+00:00

This is truer than most will believe.

thatguyhanzel · 2019-03-05T13:00:08+00:00

I cannot express how important this is

fasterfind · 2019-03-05T13:07:10+00:00

That's definitely a woman thing, and most of them will do it. They don't really have a moral or ethical code of conduct, 'just whatever'. NEVER trust a woman with anything she could potentially use against you, or which might not be flattering to yourself. But then again, why bother 'maintaining frame' like a red pill? We're not here to pick them up at MGTOW. We're just leaving the shit show behind, and it's absolutely beautiful.

It takes a while to really feel it, but it grows on you with a sense of liberation and new identity. Not giving a fuck is beautiful.

pclinuxmac · 2019-03-05T13:12:44+00:00

I remember when I was a beta and acted this way like it was normal.

Never again.

Leo_3108 · 2019-03-05T16:10:25+00:00

Realest shit said

jeabben · 2019-03-05T17:30:34+00:00

Suicidal?

scocasso · 2019-03-05T17:50:05+00:00

Yeah. I made myself a rule, never to ever tell any girlfriend anything personal about myself ever again. A woman's weapon is INFORMATION. They will casually ask you about your friends, work, thoughts, feelings, etc. and use it against you later on. They are searching for your weakness. They collect all kinds of information; as a man you just cannot foresee what they will use and how they will use it, so don't tell them anything. Just make stuff up, because if you don't say something, they'll never stop pestering you. All of my girlfriends also had a mental list of all of the things that I had done 'wrong' in their eyes. They totally forget about all of the nice, kind, considerate things -- only the negative things, and they remember every little thing from every single time you left your socks on the bathroom floor, to all the times you were late, to that time you missed an appointment... you name it, they remember. But they forget about all the times you picked them up from work, or gave them a back-rub when they were tired, or changed the oil on her car, or... whatever... I agree with others, that it's innate, they can't stop themselves. It's really sad, though, isn't it? It would be so nice if men and women were compatible, but we just aren't. We're like all other animals in this regard.... you only get together when the female is in heat. Once the fucking is done, go your separate ways. There's a reason most male animals don't hang out with the females.

Jarin01 · 2019-03-06T01:05:42+00:00

I can personally attest that this is true. I opened up about the abuse I suffered as a child and about the ways that abuse still makes certain areas of my life difficult as an adult to my wife only to have her use it as ammunition against me in arguments later. Women are sociopaths, don't ever give them anything they can use against you because as soon as the opportunity to be petty arrives they will do so gleefully.

nepomuk167 · 2019-03-06T15:07:33+00:00

My last serious gf always complained that I never told her stuff about me and my past etc. So one day I told her the reason for my negative outlook in life is my fathers mental illness and that 3 yrs ago he tried to kill himself and I was the one who sat beside his bed in the hospital while he recovered.

One week later she told me she isn't sure about "us" anymore. Broke up with her the next day. That was the last time I'll ever open up to a woman.

-NavyBluePaint- · 2019-03-27T17:14:06+00:00

Damn dude been seeing a lot of brothas waking up. It's nice af to see. They are usually the most simp "she's my queen" blah blah complete faggotry shit, etc.

TheRabbitTunnel · 2019-03-05T05:06:36+00:00

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marlinsgo · 2019-03-05T15:55:14+00:00

If a woman asked me what time it was, I would lie!!!

tchower · 2019-03-05T16:20:20+00:00

This can happen with anyone. Including family members you open up to that use it against you like Brothers, Sisters or step relatives. But it’s especially true with woman also. Be careful out there!

no_ur_mom_lol · 2019-03-05T08:29:26+00:00

It can be applied to both Men and Women

xmx900 · 2019-03-05T02:17:32+00:00

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Ace_Masters · 2019-03-05T07:23:14+00:00

Did this sub ever have anything to do with being a man, or has it always been a bunch of resentful shrubs whining about "the unfathomable woman"?

Title	This
Author	HltvFanBoy
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Comments	163
Date	March 4, 2019 8:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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