The Stratosphere

2ndal · 2018-09-18T17:37:23+00:00

I would argue that my journey has gotten to the point where I now classify women as air. I do not think about them. If I want to fuck, I fuck. If I need more fucking, well I just go and do that, just like if I need more air to breathe due to exercise or whatever, my Medulla takes care of that for me.

That sounds boring, frankly.

I prescribe the Dieda philosophy of man's relationship to women, where women are not something to be afraid of or to reject or to make yourself immune to or to ignore, but instead a challenging mystery to perhaps never solve but use as a tool grow as a man beyond one's ability to grow alone.

The feminine part of your woman is either opening in loving surrender (easy moments) or closing in what ends up being an emotional test of your capacity to open her (difficult moments). This cycle of the feminine is like all cycles in nature: it never ends. The sooner you learn to embrace and dance with these moods of closure, the sooner both of you will grow beyond the psychodrama and see the humor of the play.

The game of life is to find each situation workable, to transform each occasion through the magnification of love, to give your fullest gift in every moment, and to have no attachments to the outcome, knowing it’s all going to rise and fall and rise again.

But the dark masculine energy has been suppressed so thoroughly these days that the ordinary man would prefer to paste a smile on his bored face, rather than penetrate his woman’s tension with uncompromising love. And he’s just as cautious about disrupting his own well-planned life of comfort and security in order to penetrate his own fear of death.

Her gift, if she is a good woman, is to test you with her darkest moods, over and over and over, until your consciousness is unperturbed by feminine challenge, and you are able to pervade her with your love, just as you are here to pervade the world.

If one of your highest goals is psychological or spiritual freedom, then you will highly value your intimacy. Nobody will press your buttons or reflect your asshole to you better than your woman. She will point out your weaknesses better than a boot camp drill sergeant. She will reflect your ambiguity or clarity better than any workshop teacher. She will do you better than a whore and give you more loving than you can handle. And all the while she will shower your life with radiant blessing, healing, and enlivenment—if she learns to own her true feminine desires and you learn to own your true masculine desires.

-- The Way of the Superior Man

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Taipanshimshon · 2018-09-18T20:52:03+00:00

Dear diary ...

Lol.

The goal of any relationship should be for it to provide the value you seek from it.

Everything else is bullshit.

You burn down your old ideas. That’s it.

And divorce should be expensive in some way. Everything worthwhile should be.

Enjoy the ride brother

Persaeus · 2018-09-18T19:34:10+00:00

Maybe this is Red Pill v3?

i think what you're really describing is MGTOW+plates (i.e. some MGTOW do fuck). no judgement at all, in fact i find the idea enticing and can see that their are clear benefits as you describe.

I would argue that my journey has gotten to the point where I now classify women as air. I do not think about them. If I want to fuck, I fuck.

yep, this is the goal for abundance mentality. i would argue i am there with this one woman; but i would admit that me "being there" is also probably related to my age and having less libido than when i was in my 30's. it's a really interesting thing for something you used to obsess about fade into "i turned on the faucet today". i can't quite separate the multiple factors involved: the pussy is mostly available, my validation from it is near zero, my libido has dropped (in spite of TRT?), and i'm just really busy with important (to me) other shit.

This is how man was designed to operate. Someone to help with child rearing and someone to suck your eyes thru your pee hole. I do not believe for one second that this type of male hypergamy can be fulfilled by a single woman, anymore than female hypergamy can be filled by a single man.

this is where you break new ground i think. honestly, i'm not sure about this. dealing with multiple women was a pain in my ass. however, i'll accept that my bitch management needed some work.

I am no longer willing to accept anything less than 100% of what I want out of life.

i'm not there; but it's mostly related to my job. however the rest of the message i 100% agree with in theory . . . (i.e. fuck you)

CaptJohnLukeDiscard · 2018-09-18T18:46:29+00:00

If I'm hungry, I eat. Sometimes a trip to Chipotle will do but sometimes it won't.

Sometimes, I go to Central Market. Sometimes, I grab a bone-in bison ribeye, organic broccoli, thick-cut bacon, fresh jalapenos, carrots, etc. and go to town. Let the meat marinate for hours and then come to room temperature. Prepare the sauces for the veggies. Spend the time to make sure the grill has the perfect amount of heat before the ribeye even touches it. Slice the jalapenos and bacon for the mac & cheese. It takes time. It takes preparation. It takes some knowledge and skill. But the end result? A freaking feast fit for a king... and me.

The funny thing about meals like that is I could also go to Walmart, get their shitty thin sliced sirloin, some Kraft Mac & Cheese, canned jalapenos, and frozen broccoli stems. I could do that. I could have 'basically the same thing.' Hell, it would be quicker and cost less. But it's not the same thing. Quality of ingredients matters.

Sometimes, when I've prepared such a feast, after I eat it and I sip on the glass of whisky my wife poured for me and just settle in, I realize 'a man has nothing better under the sun but to eat and drink and be joyful.' Sometimes, the simple things in life are the purest.

I think, with the right high-quality ingredients (or woman), you can have what you want. You can experience that quiet enjoyment that leads to real satisfaction. Unfortunately though, you can't overcome low quality ingredients. A master chef can't do much with Walmart steak. I think guys here would be wise to remember that.

PurpleVeteran · 2018-09-19T02:10:19+00:00

There are days when the value I bring to my marriage greatly outweighs that of my wife's contributions. There have also been many where the balance has tipped the other way. And there have been plenty where I sulked because I still wasn't getting everything I thought I deserved (she wasn't sucking my pee-pee as much as I wanted).

The biggest thing that MRP taught me was that I need to stop focusing on the scoreboard and get my head back in the game. Killing the covert contracts I'd built up around marriage and equality, and just adding value to my own life for my own sake. I excel and own my shit because that's the kind of man I am, not because other people expect it of me.

But at the same time, I no longer begrudge those around me who "ride my coat tails." I chose to share my time and successes with those who add value to my life, whether they be my wife, my kids, or anyone else.

Now, I can't speak for your needs or what value others bring to you life, but I have a feeling that this is just basic RP Rambo / MGTOW shit, and not some transcendent MRP v3 insight. You are welcome to couch it as such, and enjoy your freedom, but few here ever manage to find long term happiness and balance in going it alone (and I wager many who say they have are lying).

SteelSharpensSteel · 2018-09-19T01:49:10+00:00

Are you still thinking in term of sex, or are you transcending past that?

MRP has a covert contract with itself that it's all about the sex. "If I can just MRP more, just a little more, I'll get laid!"

But it's not about the sex. Not really.

40mullet · 2018-09-19T10:40:37+00:00

So you are taking steroids and injecting testosterone and giving advise here to normal people?

This will happen: You eventually fell in love with somebody (this is nature, you cannot deny it) and because you are on steroids you will be 10 times more emotional than others, even most blue pill guys. Then you will do something stupid, probably self destructive, lose your kids or work or life. Have seen this happened several times.

ReddJive · 2018-09-18T19:12:41+00:00

Well said.

Finalizing Divorce on the horizon and coming fast

Full power lift meet in January.

Book moving along ahead of schedule.

3 plates.

Life is alright.

matrixtospartanatLV · 2018-09-19T02:30:32+00:00

First, you stole me closing line.

Second, afraid to do the work...

That right there is 95% of what holds the boys back around here...

The fucking work.

All of their whining, bitching, moaning, DEERing, ALL OF IT, is about hamstering a reason to NOT do the fucking work.

I know, because I’ve done it, too.

What we are watching, in real time I believe, is NEO going from dodging bullets to simply stopping them in midair.

You are one badass motherfucker. No homo.

Congratulations on your nomination to MRP poster boy of the year!

Ta11no · 2018-09-18T18:50:04+00:00

Wonderful post. I recently stumbled upon this myself I just couldn’t articulate it as well as you. But here’s my question: what is the point of burning things in ritual sacrifice in an attempt to get better? Surely I’m not the only one who seeks to build an anti fragile refuge from the ongoing war that is life

cornerofficemouth · 2018-09-18T23:10:30+00:00

I"m starting to notice a few approved accounts starting to talk more about the self-actualization phase of this whole thing, this post included.

Thanks. This was good to read.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-09-19T15:13:29+00:00

And His name was Robert Paulson.

Give me a fuckig match!

JudgeDoom69 · 2018-09-19T16:40:31+00:00

You are building a new you. Get to fucking work.

Great post.

Question:

My girlfriend is an excellent girlfriend

Have you gone from one LTR directly into another LTR before the divorce is even final, instead of spinning plates? It reads like you've displaced your old Oneitis only to transfer it to a new Oneitis.

Title	The Stratosphere
Author	red-sfpplus
Upvotes	35
Comments	101
Date	September 18, 2018 4:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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