From r/feminism posts

baarelyalive · 2021-01-06T15:57:34+00:00

Intimidating...... that’s not how you earn respect.

xxTriggerWarningxx · 2021-01-06T15:39:57+00:00

Given special favourable treatment = their version of basic human dignity

tenchineuro · 2021-01-06T16:52:43+00:00

Really?

How does this sound?

MEN CAN BE intimidating, bossy, loud, sweary, sexy, unshaven, tattooed, plus size, queer, transgender and more, without losing their right to be RESPECTED

bufedad · 2021-01-06T16:35:15+00:00

No one has a right to be respected. You earn respect, it is not given freely.

codzombiedan14 · 2021-01-06T17:12:57+00:00

WTF. So basically what they’re saying is women have the right to act like shit and get a free pass and men don’t? NOBODY should have the right to act that way and be respected. (It’s ok to be LGBT just don’t be a bitch about it)

nacho-chonky · 2021-01-07T01:04:43+00:00

Yet if a man is intimidating, or sweary it’s toxic masculinity, if a man is bossy or loud it’s mansplaining, if a man is sexy and slutty he is a fuckboy, if he’s unshaven and tattooed he is a loser, if he’s plus sized he’s a lazy POS, if he’s queer or transgender he’s a Pedo.... men deal with these labels just as hard if not harder than women do yet feminists refuse to acknowledge this

locks_are_paranoid · 2021-01-06T23:45:08+00:00

I used to work at Staples, and the assistant manager was a woman. She would always micromanage everything I did. One time she called me away from the register, then got mad at me for leaving the register unattended. She kept saying that I didn't like her because I have a problem with women, and she refused to consider the fact that I didn't like her because she was a bitch.

AppleJuicePro · 2021-01-06T18:45:58+00:00

They can also be ignored.

Go MGTOW.

SavageLinguist · 2021-01-06T15:45:42+00:00

I wanted to see for myself how bad the sub was after following this sub for a while. I must say, it is just as bad as y’all’ve made it out to be (sorry for very Texan language)

The first screenshot is a post which is obviously disturbing, so I delved into the comments to see if anyone asked the obvious question: “do men also deserve respect if they are any of these things?” The second screenshot of deleted comments I believe was someone asking something along those lines.

The second post is a rant that gained a lot of support in the comments. Notice the title says “my mom won’t talk to me” but at the end of the post she talks about how her moms KEEPS TRYING TO TALK TO HER ABOUT IT but she won’t accept anyone else’s opinion since she “set boundaries” for herself. News flash princess, no one is required to follow boundaries you set for yourself because they are “for yourself”. Her mom is absolutely right about kids being too sensitive.

I also want to mention how the posts on this sub are about murders, suicide, severe jail time for false accusations, torture, rape, and other very serious topics, while the feminist sub posts about petty complaints like these, which just shows who really needs change.

JustJamie- · 2021-01-06T21:35:15+00:00

I thought loud, bossy and intimidating was toxic masculinity.

Eoasap · 2021-01-06T17:13:18+00:00

she gives a free pass to her mom for saying she 'plays like a girl's and only criticizes the guy for his comments. her comment was probably worse than his just affirming 'its true', but she gets a complete pass and the anger is only directed at him. shouldn't she be equally mad at both of them? or is the mom allowed to have her opinion because she's a woman and the guy can't because he's a guy?? what's the logic here??

DarkCrowI · 2021-01-06T19:09:35+00:00

Nobody has a right to be respected, respect is earned.

aint_dead_yeet · 2021-01-06T19:39:31+00:00

the second post is gold. an 18yo feminist claims that her relationship with her mom’s bf is completely ruined because he said that girls can’t play hockey and when she tried talking about it, her mom called her a snowflake. the joke writes itself at this point lmao.

CosmoaicComputer · 2021-01-06T21:01:37+00:00

I like how she just admits to being a selfish cunt, "I won't go out of my way to make anyone happy!" Like, is that suppose to be a good thing?

2021-01-06T23:09:18+00:00

There's a difference between "bossy" and being an asshole. It's like they think they have this invisible shield that protects them from anything. If you act like an asshole, chances are you're not going to be respected, you're going to be knocked on your ass by some other idiot.

Drakenvan01 · 2021-01-07T01:26:29+00:00

Respect is a privilege not a right

mera1066 · 2021-01-07T02:16:49+00:00

What childish hypocritical shite! Considering the comments they have for males in general.

tragedyfish · 2021-01-06T20:05:40+00:00

Unshaven, tattooed, plus size, queer, transgender: I can respect and work along side anyone with some or all of these qualities.

Intimidating, bossy, load, sweary, sexy, slutty: When someone's actions exhibit these qualities I find myself unable to work with them.

Gender isn't part of this.

CableConscious5982 · 2021-01-06T22:30:32+00:00

"Men can be all those things without judgement"

If a man is bossy or intimidating he's got toxic masculinity and is shamed

pacsatonifil · 2021-01-07T04:02:41+00:00

You want me to respect a “bossy, loud, sweary, slutty,” woman? Would you respect me if I’ve was all of that? No. What the fuck is wrong with people. You respect decent people not assholes.

ReddditmodsRtrash · 2021-01-07T00:14:42+00:00

"sexy"

unless its a video game character, right?

then they don't deserve to be respected at all 🙄

Motherfly · 2021-01-07T02:31:57+00:00

Honestly, reading things like this just makes me cringe now. Like how old are these people, 14?

Ratet_LoS · 2021-01-07T04:25:13+00:00

I notice she said that she won't change to make others happy. Yet she expects others to change to make her happy.

StudentOfTheTruth0 · 2021-01-07T05:57:44+00:00

Can men be all the above and be respected?

Imagine ... a man being "intimidating" or "bossy" ...

He will be finished in 5 seconds by an instant feminist mob attack ... his lot won't be "respect" but something entirely different.

So ... yet again ... "respect" is something only women can have. Thank you, feminism.

M_E_G_A_M_A_N-X · 2021-01-06T17:55:24+00:00

The lion, the witch, and the audacity of this bitch

lesser_than_three · 2021-01-06T18:05:40+00:00

based mom.

manicmonkeys · 2021-01-06T23:22:06+00:00

Since when the fuck is being respected a right? How would that even hypothetically work?

Tallguystrongman · 2021-01-07T01:24:02+00:00

No...

Ok_Tea_439 · 2021-01-06T16:06:23+00:00

Feminists are evil cunts, its frustrating that they control the narrative

NoMoreMisterMaybe · 2021-01-06T18:43:01+00:00

intimidating, bossy, loud, sweary

be respected

Ma'am, this is real life, not anime. There is nothing to be respected about this behavior, man or woman.

Dinoderp889 · 2021-01-06T19:23:50+00:00

Bunch of snowflakes

ImBuddyUrRetard · 2021-01-06T21:01:27+00:00

r/bitchinism

v573v · 2021-01-06T22:10:13+00:00

This phenomenon of demanding behaviours from others without exhibiting the behaviours yourself was tried with tolerance and gave a spotlight to Jordan Peterson, who, is only known today because he exposed the horrible intolerance of the same people who were demanding tolerance from others.

They’re trying it with respect without considering that only when the behaviour is given will it be returned. Intimidating? Loud? Sweary? These are not the behaviours of a person who respects others.

higgs456 · 2021-01-06T18:05:46+00:00

I imagine her boundary goes something like "If anyone says women are less capable than men in anything, including things that men are objectively more capable in due to strength and size, that is sexist misogynistic bigotry" - basically if you accept reality you're crossing a boundary

2021-01-06T21:54:26+00:00

That means there will be a lot of angry, stinky, obese, unhygienic 'women' in nursing homes.

Mrbipartite · 2021-01-06T17:42:56+00:00

Yes, anyone can be that. But that doesn't mean you will get respect from me. Respect has to be earned. I don't respect you because you exist. I respect you only when you respect me back. Only when your deeds are greater than your mouth :)

Luxara-VI · 2021-01-06T19:09:06+00:00

Sometimes I don’t know what they want anymore

2021-01-06T20:12:17+00:00

And they still don't understand that no one has a right to be respected. Respect has to be earned.

VinnyBoy45 · 2021-01-06T22:16:22+00:00

Respect is not a right, dignity is.

Respect is earned.

nelsonbt · 2021-01-06T22:32:50+00:00

I agree these conditions should not invite disrespect, but this is catastrophically poor advice to any woman who strives to fit in and succeed in society.

Ensifror · 2021-01-06T22:43:03+00:00

Since when are we treating respect as a default state? Or something anyone has a born right to?

Last i checked, respect was something your earned for being positively exceptional in some way. Not for being alive.

2021-01-06T22:56:57+00:00

There's nothing wrong with the first picture

iainmf · 2021-01-07T07:09:37+00:00

right

2: something to which one has a just claim: such as

a: the power or privilege to which one is justly entitled

voting rights
his right to decide

TAPriceCTR · 2021-01-07T11:43:44+00:00

But men can't even have preferences.

IntroChem20 · 2021-01-07T12:04:31+00:00

Just questioned this in their subreddit and got banned within 2 mins.

user_miki · 2021-01-07T13:28:11+00:00

I wonder if somebody a man, his sexual preference is considered a right ,his right ,for this type of women.We interact with each other so I have the right that my sexual preference to be respected too.

So I don't like the women described there or want to interact with.

Propaganda to change culture.

343-guilty-mendicant · 2021-01-07T13:43:30+00:00

That subs cancer don’t even argue with them, they’re counter argument will boil down to a perm ban

Title	From r/feminism posts
Author	SavageLinguist
Upvotes	156
Comments	99
Date	January 6, 2021 3:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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