This isn’t about you @thetinmen

HPUnicorn · 2021-03-25T13:37:42+00:00

Here in Canada, it has been highly publicized that the military has a problem with sexual assault and other sex related issues, They did a study some years ago and it found that women were approx 4x as likely to be a victim , the problem of course is that there are 7x as many men in the military that means that there were approx 2x as many male victims, I have never seen a news story that brings up that fact.

__Rosso__ · 2021-03-25T13:52:09+00:00

This is really nice, because it highlights that both men and women suffer, in some ways in equal amounts, in others more or less, depending on what it is.

People need to realise, that sooner people stop treating gender inequality as something that affects only one group, sooner everyone will be closer to actual gender equality.

TheTinMenBlog · 2021-03-25T12:53:50+00:00

Credit https://instagram.com/thetinmen

Flat-Awareness3075 · 2021-03-25T15:23:42+00:00

I put this on my story on Instagram. Hopefully I don’t lose friends, because I know there are people who will see this and call it mysogony. I’m 15, so my friends, especially female, are very prone to woke media, and I live in Ireland, so the whole Sarah Everards thing is still being talked about a lot, and I didn’t want to say something like this, for fear I would be called a rapist or something, that’s the 15 year old “feminist” mentality around here

Izzno · 2021-03-25T15:16:19+00:00

Someone has to explain this narraitive to me. We always hear stuff like "Men, do better". And if you raise the point that you don't think it's fair to blanket every men, you get back a classic "well duh, it's not all men, but if you say that you don't get it".

Like, how is it fair to hear about an anecdotal event, and say "come on, all of the guys ever, be better".

AbysmalDescent · 2021-03-25T15:22:02+00:00

I don't see how feminists can make the argument that androphobia and male vilification "isn't about you". It affects all men. Vilifying men creates some very negative and dangerous consequences against men. It affects everyone.

IronJohnMRA · 2021-03-25T13:21:33+00:00

Really nice work.

CasmanianDevil · 2021-03-25T15:13:19+00:00

This post is perfect. It reveals these statistics in an easy to understand, visual format that anyone can reference with ease.

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2021-03-25T16:49:41+00:00

Feminists will lie and say that most male SA victims are victims of other men. You need the stats that say most male victims were victimized by women.

People need to know that not only are men victims, but that women are also just as likely to be abusers.

tinykingori · 2021-03-25T16:12:45+00:00

Just showed someone this,and she said that's not women's fault because it's men doing majority of that🤦‍♂️😭

LateralThinker13 · 2021-03-25T14:09:35+00:00

Beautifully done.

Silver_The_Bard · 2021-03-25T16:20:05+00:00

Very nice presentation. Hits home and hard. 👏

nacho-chonky · 2021-03-25T18:59:05+00:00

Yup all these “gender specific women’s issues” that feminists cry about turn out to be pretty fuckin not gender specific, in fact some of these issue effect men more but feminists use mental gymnastics to make themselves the victims, let’s deal with these issues like adults instead of playing the victim card ok feminists?

hendrixski · 2021-03-25T16:03:24+00:00

Your posts are always excellent.

We-are-Thoth · 2021-03-25T16:57:09+00:00

Elegantly put. one day we will be considered equal as human.

benderXX · 2021-03-25T22:25:32+00:00

Feminism is a training ground for narcissists.

turbulance4 · 2021-03-25T16:16:53+00:00

I really like the message, but from a design perspective I found this hard to read/follow. Maybe if you removed the words "men" and "women" and instead used a symbol of some kind. I kept trying to add those words to the sentence.

I was reading like "But, nor is it just about you Women American Victims of rape and sexual assault"

edit: just realized u/thetinmenblog didn't post this.

DEADMEAT15 · 2021-03-25T20:05:26+00:00

That phrase alone pisses me off something fierce. I'm glad that someone's talking about it.

ITZCHOPPER · 2021-03-25T21:19:08+00:00

Yes thank you I'm getting so tired of splitting everything into gendered stuff when it's a people problem I find it so annoying

TheCowOfDeath · 2021-03-25T19:39:02+00:00

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Big_chonk · 2021-03-26T04:07:03+00:00

You wage war on the tail, where is the head? You think anything will change under the current western systems? Nothing has. Nothing will. Nothing will until we do something more as a collective of masses against the system what ever you deem be fit for it. Al dajjal watches

Atilla942 · 2021-03-25T16:06:34+00:00

Yeah you guys are actually doing it the right way this time. The "it's not about you" comes up so often because y'all usually shoehorn men's problems in specifically women's spaces discussing specifically women's problems.

omidoggo · 2021-03-26T00:29:25+00:00

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LiquidDreamtime · 2021-03-26T04:24:40+00:00

This is a strawman argument. I’ve never encountered any claims that men are not the victims of the issues mentioned. And aside from some insane misandrists, most humans recognize that victims exist across the spectrum.

You’re ignoring the sex of perpetrators of the sexual assault and street assault. Because you’re being disingenuous.

The fact is that committing sexual assault, violent assault, and countless other forms of violence are acts monopolized by men.

mcmur · 2021-03-26T00:56:47+00:00

This is great. Re-post it on Instagram where all the feminist harpies hang out.

AUZZIEJELLYFISH · 2021-03-26T03:13:30+00:00

It's horrible that people treat the mental health of men as a joke.

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porousasshole · 2021-04-08T13:38:08+00:00

Cool

Title	This isn’t about you @thetinmen
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3130
Comments	70
Date	March 25, 2021 12:53 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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