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Why do many women hate accountability so much?

hey-its-my-account

April 17, 2020
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Title Why do many women hate accountability so much?
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hey-its-my-account

Upvotes 555
Comments 81
Date April 17, 2020 3:35 PM UTC
(6 years ago)
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[–]youremomgay420 164 points165 points166 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

“Accidentally have sex with them” “I accidentally took off all my clothes and accidentally started kissing him, then I accidentally had sex with him for hours and am now regretting it.” There’s no excuse for cheating, people who make up excuses for it are gross

[–]TonDonberry 65 points66 points67 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It goes both ways. I hate when I accidentally put my penis in the vagina of a woman I have been courting outside of my monogamous relationship

/s - obviously. I don't do this garbage

[–]tdabc123 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sometimes you trip.

[–]spygrufunkopop11 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

🏅

[–]Rose_Scythe 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

IKR, and yet when I accidentally have sex with a female I'm labelled a rapist.

[–]RingosTurdFace 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And remember, if it’s “accidental”, they can claim it wasn’t consensual. False rape accusation coming right up!

[–]NH_Lion12 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And it accidentally happened several times.

[–]Egalitarianwhistle 44 points45 points46 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Those percentages look totally legit. I'm sure they weren't just made up on the spot.

[–]berpaderpderp[🍰] 37 points38 points39 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Well, 87% of statistics on the internet ARE made up.

[–]Egalitarianwhistle 23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Not on mensright sub. We demand sources. We aren't feminists.

[–]Arthuyo 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well at least 82.97% of the time were do.

[–]poopoofoopoo 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

well this is a statistic on the internet...no?

[–]Arthuyo 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes ;-)

[–]lasciate 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's a picture of a repost of a months (or years) old copypasta. You know, frontpage material for this subreddit.

[–]mgtowolf 79 points80 points81 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Spotted the cheating whore.

[–]frustr8tion 57 points58 points59 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Accidentally"

[–]mrkeifer86 49 points50 points51 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Can we discuss the women who cheat and say that the man they cheated with raped them? I.e false accusations or buyer's remorse? They will do anything to not take responsibility for their actions and it's sick

[–]Auntie_Hero 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"Hofstra Three"

[–]notacrackheadofficer 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Anytown, USA thirty million"

[–]Ody_ssey 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A long period of relationship is called doing a job outside to bring food to the table.

[–]LegendaryEmu1 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wouldn't say its a woman thing, its more a terrible person thing.

I will say it does seem to be women who are more common to do this gaslighting, deflecting blame crap.

At the end of the day, when you cheat on a relationship, that is your conscious decision, nobody else's, even if your significant other is terrible, leave the relationship, then you can 'accidentally' do whom you like.

[–][deleted] 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]Retr0G72 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd say about 50 percent of those guys do believe it because they're idiots. The rest agree because they spotted someone dumb enough to fall for it and think they can get an easy lay.

[–]rahsoft 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

if you think that these women accidentally have sex with other men whilst in a relationship, then you are seriously deluded. You chose to have sex with them, You're not incapable of making a decision since you Choose to cheat and you Choose to file for divorce.

the "Accidental" is as about as credible as amber heard "Accidentally" hitting Johnny Depp

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LS37SNYjg8w

[–]MarsNirgal 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

How do you "accidentally" have sex with someone? Did they both trip, grabbed each other's clothes off, and he fell inside her?

[–]carefulthistime 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It DID use to happen to me when i was younger and did not realize the fire I was playing with, simple affection -> snuggling -> uh oh.

[–]killcat 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup, the "We were just kissing and then......"

[–]YuukoKagami 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Happens in porn alllll the time. /s

[–]gussy1z 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's some quality victim blaming

[–]wawwawawawawaw 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Accidentally mmhhhmmm

[–]Arthuyo 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm hoping this is humor.

[–]bak2redit 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I accidentally laughed. ;)

[–]iMnotHiigh 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This has got to be a troll post

[–]zombiemess872 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“Accidentally”

[–]PhilosophorumX 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How do you accidentally have sex with someone?

[–]B4K3R245 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A c c i d e n t a l l y

[–]RedPillCafe 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate when I accidentally haves sex with people

[–]ironphreak 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Tl;dr at the bottom.

When me and my ex wife filled for divorce, it was a tough moment in my life but it wasn't all bad. We admitted to each other that we feel out of love. We were still young, had no kids so it all went smooth.

The only hiccup was that we needed a legal reason for divorce, apparently "falling out of love" couldn't be used.

So, she decided to use the adultery claim, but against me. I just wanted a divorce ASAP but I didn't commit adultery, neither of us did, though I had my suspicions over the years. I guess we ended up going slow with the process as it was a tough thing to go through but before we submitted the paper work, she ended up getting with another man, it wasn't a surprise to me, I've been watching that relationship develop before she realised. She let slip that they sleep together at some point. Due to this, I told her that she would be taking the blame for the divorce, at least legally speaking. I didn't care that she found someone, I was happy, but I didn't get with anyone till the paper work was submitted.

Funny thing is, by the time I left that house and got with someone, she was already on her second relationship which ended a few months later.

When I got with someone, she chastised me for bringing her home on the 2nd date because now she knows where I live and I barely know her (ex wife was meant to be staying over at a friends but decided not to... Because reasons, ended up embarrassing me so we left to go to my gf place) and she also chastised me for sleeping with my gf on the 3rd date, less than a week later my ex wife let slip she met a guy, brought him to our place and slept with him on the first date, I don't dislike her for sleeping with the guy, just that she's a hypocrite...

Tl;dr ex wife wanted me to take the blame for committing adultery during a civil divorce, she slept with another guy before we submitted the paper work, she finally took the blame. She ended up in unstable relationships while I'm still with the girl I took time to meet after and get to know.

[–]wokeless_bastard 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“Accidentally fell tonsil first on his dick”

[–]Henry95- 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wait! What if there's an explanation for this shit? (What? She tripped? Fell? Landed on his dick?) Alright Shady, maybe he's right Grady

[–]Thread_water 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Was looking for this!

[–]primo_pastafarian3 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I generally agree with the text, but where on earth did you pull those numbers out of?

[–]shrek1234567810 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, how does one get 60%? First of all, assuming it was true, what about relationships that are still hidden? Did the person who wrote this even try with those statistics? And how does the 85% work? It varies between people, but does that mean 85% of people believe that? Cheating is generally frowned upon, even by many feminists. This is just bad logic.

[–]Kritanur 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If ur gonna cheat cuz ur man doesnt give proper love,LEAVE HIM AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE. I dont understand why you would resort to cheating if you could just leave...

[–]Sr_Nunes 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

When you don't have values, it's always "other people's fault".

[–]peterman86 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Your statement is beyond accurate.

[–]v573v 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s also why men cheat but because they are men they have no one to blame but themselves whereas women are permitted to blame men.

[–]SsoulBlade 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Like a boyfriends accidently falling on women with dick in her vagina. That kinda accidents?

[–]DoubleDollars69 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Made a meme out of it.

Oogway on accidental cheating. https://imgur.com/gallery/PQTKgoO

[–]Legobloz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Sir where did this source come from?

[–]hey-its-my-account 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It was from Twitter

[–]Legobloz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah but who was the source. I don't want to seem like I don't believe this I just want to know if it's credible.

[–][deleted] 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]iainmf 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I removed your comment because I am being cautious about preventing harassment of individuals on twitter.

[–]DuckyCucky47 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck who ever made this tweet

[–]konous 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women have never been expected to take responsibility because people, and even themselves, don't want to believe they can properly use reason just like a man can since it does make life easier for them.

[–]PlatinumBeetle 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I have no problem with people making life easier on women, as long as they don't do it by making life harder on men or children.

[–]Devis613 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"ACCIDENTALLY"

[–]tandalgan 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

'Accidently have sex with them'

Oh no I have done it again

[–]YeetusTheFifth 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oops uh oh his dick fell into my pussy haha what a wacky accident

[–]peterman86 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's like the old banana peel on the floor accident.

[–]tobias_loves_guars 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ha! I'm gay, I've yet to "accidently have sex"

[–]Kronkickfatigue 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

The fuck is that 60% statistic tho. It’s definitely like 13% for women. That post is just wack to me 😂

[–]SuperLutin 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

100% of women cheat.

[–]Kronkickfatigue 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

:/ ... u alright bro?

[–]5times20is100 -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol, y’all are so weird. Do you really have to invent fake shit to help you sleep at night? Either that or you’re trolling.

[–]romulusnr 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

'Whoops, my pussy ended up on your dick again, damn how does that keep happening'

[–]hereforsolidarity 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"How do you accidentally have sex with someone?"

"Well your honor, I was choking. He tried to dislodge it with his penis."

"His DNA was found in your rectum."

"When it didn't work, he tried to get it from the other side."

"... and your vagina."

"Well duh. Your mouth is on your front, your asshole is at the back. The vagina's closer to the front than the back your honor! We didn't realise it was sex until afterwards. Oops!"

[–]PlatinumBeetle 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Safety reminder: Do not have vaginal sex after anal sex.

[–]hereforsolidarity -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

(((Unless you're a husband who found our your wife is cheating and want to teach her a lesson.)))

[–]remembadaname 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Man it must be hard having like 10 guy friends and each of their dicks accidentally fall inside you...

[–]chomponthebit -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Opps! She just accidentally fell on Chad’s dick

[–]streetbrown -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Say it with me "THESE FEMALES BELONG TO THE STREETS"

[–]rahsoft 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Say it with me "THESE FEMALES BELONG TO THE STREETS"

nah.. the gutter..

[–]PlatinumBeetle 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Aren't gutters part of streets?

[–]rahsoft 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

gutters are a special part of the street that collects sewerage.

there are also gutters that go on roofs

[–]PlatinumBeetle 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I forgot those are called gutters too.

[–]peterman86 -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pathetic. Stepping on dog crap is accidental. Sneezing and losing control of your car is accidental. Falling on a penis is not. There are many steps that need to be taken before penetration occurs. Everyone is well aware of every part of the ceremony unless they are, like many here have said, raped. Gtfoh with that.

[–]SeaOwl4 -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

If a person cheats, then the person theyre cheating on simply isnt providing them with what they need. But this applies for either gender. Not just women.

Cheating is the final symptom. There may have been signs, but once a person cheats its a clear sign the relationship is over.

The assholery is when the person cheating is not willing to tell the person theyve cheated on. It shows a complete lack of self awareness, particularly a lack of emotional awareness. If you cheat on your partner, tell them straight away. Break the relationship the next day because its clearly not working, and you're clearly not getting what you need from it, and life is too short.

[–]PlatinumBeetle 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If you're okay with breaking up like that anyway then just break up before cheating.

Then it's not cheating.

[–]SeaOwl4 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I dont think its common to think to yourself, "I'm unhappy with this relationship, so I'm going out tonight and I'm going to cheat on my girldfriend/boyfriend". I think it often happens when someone is unhappy, and the situation happens unexpectedly.

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