My ex cheated on me/monkey branched and no one said anything. She married within less than a year (even less when we were together) the new guy and posted videos online from the wedding and I can see all the people who we used to hang with. From what I know no one scolded her. No one told her to do better. She could just remain the same but changed guys. As for me, I received so much criticism. From her, her friends, my friends, even my mother lol I didn’t do anything „wrong“ but I’m missing things „women look for in a money“ which mostly come to money/possessions.

If you look at dating videos on YouTube, those for men are very focused on getting the men to change themselves. Money is a big factor, but so are social skills, hobbies, the way you dress etc etc (I watched way too many of those).

The female videos are always more about „your ex was a narcissit/avoident“ etc etc „If he really loved you he would have done better“. Red flags to watch out for a in guy and so on.

In short, I’m really thinking of just living my life alone lol relationships feel so one sided.