''Aggressiveness'' is a possible way for unattractive/short/ugly men to attract women

prodigy2throw · 2017-11-03T17:41:20+00:00

This is called a Napoleonic complex and no t doesn’t help. What you’re thinking of is status. Status and game gets you sluts

PBRScagsquad · 2017-11-03T17:59:45+00:00

I would argue if you don't have the best looks it's not so much aggressiveness so much as you need to acquire status or have some kind of talent you can utilise in a social setting, high levels of charisma and social skills help here. Also generally speaking all of the most socially adept people I've met aren't the most aggressive people in the room, they're the guys working a room and making friends with everyone and forming alliances. Aggression only works in the ghetto and gang scene, outside of those niches it will not get you far at all unless you channel it into general drive, ambition and dedication.

goatismycopilot · 2017-11-03T18:02:52+00:00

Pablo Escobar was a billionare drug dealer in an impoverished country, Trump is very wealthy. Putin is an authoritarian in an authoritarian country. Money cancels out all other negatives. You can be the ugliest man in the world and if you are wealthy enough you will be able to get with hot women. This is not something new.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2017-11-03T18:23:19+00:00

youre using the wrong word. "aggressiveness" without machismo doesnt work, you have to be able to walk the walk. my h is 5'8" and tough as nails. he walks the walk. his 6'4" brother is petrified of him. napoleon complex talks the talk but when push comes to shove cant walk the walk

Merger-Arbitrage · 2017-11-03T18:00:10+00:00

Attractiveness = looks, smarts/status and personality.

If you're missing looks, you make up for it with the others.

"Dominance" is nothing more than being a capable man "powerful, commanding, authoritative, high in control, masterful, ascendant ; (not aggression or domineering)" based on one of the few research paper I read on the topic which actually evalauted the attractiveness of "dominance."

http://land-of-angels.com/py1/sadalla-etal-1987.pdf

So dominance basically speaks to resourcefulness (basically, access to money - which means a solid career/job), which women find attractive.

This will obviously help make up for looks, unless you're obese/deformed.

So that being said, your title claim of "being aggressive" is actually flat out wrong, based on the research above. Being dominant as per the definition above would be a way to attract women, though.

tempuserthrowaway5 · 2017-11-03T18:04:17+00:00

Kings, bankers and presidents have money that's all it is.

But serial killers are probably a dynamic nobody wants to know about. They get laid and by a lot of people and nobody knows why.

Psychopaths seem to charm people. That's what makes them so dangerous. Their world is as mysterious as it is creepy.

oneprettycoolcat · 2017-11-03T22:55:13+00:00

No, it just gets you called a creep and/or thrown in jail.

theoldnick · 2017-11-03T17:51:57+00:00

Disagree: Trump is tall and attractive, look at pics of him in his 30s and 40s, he was an attractive man.

Putin is far from ugly, he's got the Russian attractive badboy thing, when he was younger was probably attractive

80_20 · 2017-11-03T19:07:01+00:00

Aggression without status gets you sexual harassment.

Aggression with status gets laughed off or a return.

WhiskersNT · 2017-11-03T19:33:13+00:00

Worked for me. There is a particular sort of woman who goes crazy for raw animalistic aggressiveness. It’s not my personality at all, so I trained myself to do it for so long it eventually sorta became second nature in particular contexts. I would imagine it’ll atrophy with disuse

Edit— this is the sort of thing that’s hard to judge over the Internet tho. My idea of being aggressive might be really tame compared to y’alls

haunting-you · 2017-11-04T04:13:11+00:00

i find aggression unattractive in even physically hot men (to me), so it would only serve to make someone i find unattractive even more unattractive (and is not a trait of someone i even want to be friends with). as long as you’re just acting like a fool and not actually hurting anyone, though, go right ahead and identify yourself as someone for me to avoid entirely.

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SlimLovin · 2017-11-03T19:00:15+00:00

I think you're confused. Women are only attracted to yappy little dogs if they fit in their purses.

crackrocksteady7 · 2017-11-03T19:56:12+00:00

Share your views.

Yup, it works https://streamable.com/tirmb

That's a random pickup from last Thursday. Approached me but I have oneitis so I let Brett have her. None of us in the video are ugly but it could've been anyone under those helmets

Entropy-7 · 2017-11-04T04:02:12+00:00

As a straight male, it is uncomfortable to rate the SMV of other guys. Keep in mind that Trump is the oldest guy ever to enter the White House. Back in the day, I would say he was not bad looking, but now as the most powerful man in the free world. . .that makes many pussies wet.

Putin is a bit jacked and he plays it up but he doesn't have the facial qualities to take it all the way. He is - perhaps - the second most powerful man in the not-so-free world and that probably gets pussies wet for him.

Keep in mind that in the USA there are maybe 50 million dating age women and even if 0.01% are attracted to notorious serials killers, that is about 5000 crazy bitches who will go for them.

But it's not about aggression, it is about success and accomplishing something. Perhaps one flows from the other but women like the outcome.

CharlesChrist · 2017-11-04T11:08:59+00:00

Trump was quite handsome when he was younger.

newName543456 · 2017-11-05T13:43:08+00:00

Lol no.

Ugly men getting aggressive are just begging to be rejected harshly/slapped with charges.

I bet Pablo Escobar had no problem getting laid.

Sure.

That's one of things having access to drugs does for you.

DebatesNotBans · 2017-11-03T20:05:47+00:00

I disagree. If an ugly guy is "aggressive", women will think he's "dangerous" or "creepy".

If a hot guy is "aggressive", women will think "he knows what he wants and isnt afraid to get it!"

Title	''Aggressiveness'' is a possible way for unattractive/short/ugly men to attract women
Author	bhucewayne
Upvotes	9
Comments	57
Date	November 3, 2017 5:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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