CMV: Hypergamy Causes Men Not to Commit

goatismycopilot · 2015-10-27T00:56:27+00:00

Dating within my range, vaguely average is my strategy. I am relatively fit for my age and active so I do not find overweight inactive men attractive. The person I have been seeing is pretty much average looking but pretty fit, he is seriously into road biking/mountain biking and some weird adventure course thing. I would be suspicious if a super good looking man asked me out, I find them not trustworthy so when it does happen once in a blue moon I assume they are going for the pump and dump and act accordingly.

mcconnelldemasi · 2015-10-27T00:56:04+00:00

How can a man be considered a SMV 6 if he can't pull a SMV 6 woman? Shouldn't your SMV be based on what you can pull?

MissMaude · 2015-10-27T01:17:38+00:00

This is just not how people select mates, in my experience. It's not cold or calculated. Also, you can be wrong about your SMV in a good way. I feel insanely lucky that my husband married me. He feels like he is the lucky one- or so he tells me. We both feel like we married up. One of us is objectively wrong but who cares??

wtknight · 2015-10-27T01:38:39+00:00

I'm still not sure why TRP assumes that every average looking woman is having sex hours after meeting Chad thinking that it will cause him to want to have a relationship with her. Only some insecure women try this tactic, and most of them learn pretty quickly that they are being used and don't want anything to do with Chads again.

colinKaepernicksHat · 2015-10-27T04:51:46+00:00

I've given up on dating. Too ugly and a pr on a bench can't help. I'm a genetic lotto loser and no girl would want me.

wub1234 · 2015-10-27T11:41:18+00:00

You will note that virtually all professional athletes get married and have kids. That's not because they are somehow bowing to female desires. It's because many men want these things too.

twelvemongooses · 2015-10-27T14:30:51+00:00

Hear me out on this one. Now, your average "Chad" aka the gifted athlete, frat star, popular dude can get sex with your average 5,6,7 girl.

So that means that chad is a 5, 6, 7

Despite his self assessed value, Chad is obviously not an 8-9, because who are the 8-9 women dating if not him? Answer: 8-9 dudes.

Same goes for Joe Schmoe, the average 5-6/10 man. he can pull, as long as he doesn't mind fishing on Tinder for a chick who might be overweight, ugly, etc.

So that means that Joe is a 5-6, who dates other 5-6es. I would expect an "average 5/10 man" to also be somewhat overweight, not facially attractive ect. Unless you live in some utopia where even "5/10" dudes are pretty.

Your just sounds suspiciously like a rationalization:

"I may date 4s, but actually I'M a 7. I'm only forced to date 4s because of hypergamy. Women all think they're better than me, but they're not. They just think they are."

Sorry no, if you can only date 4's, you're a 4.

Plugawy_Nedznik · 2015-10-27T07:38:05+00:00

Seems like a lot less women would be complaining about getting pumped and dumped

It takes two to tango. Are the women getting used here, or are the men getting used here?

bonerdude420 · 2015-10-27T00:52:37+00:00

For the record, most girls (not all, but most) will settle with a guy of similar SMV

yo_radical_one · 2015-10-27T18:16:50+00:00

This all implies the average man sits around thinking about Alpha's, Beta's, hypergamy and all the crap normal people don't even consider.

squidracer · 2015-10-27T02:29:40+00:00

Men don't commit because they can get the milk for free..

And when they are dumb enough to commit it bites them in the ass.

innergametrumpsall · 2015-10-27T15:48:14+00:00

You can commit SMV=SMV with proper frame control. Just make sure she makes as much money as you (or more) and you dig deep into your balls to make sure you're a man.

She must agree that you run the relationship, outright, not just implicitly.

Read my last two threads. This is MRP. Spin plates till you find wife material.

redmachines · 2015-10-27T01:19:18+00:00

LOL. Women don't want commitment. Why settle for one Chad when you can sleep with more? It is only when it is time to settle down where women start being vocal about getting pumped and dumped and wondering where are the good men.

Title	CMV: Hypergamy Causes Men Not to Commit
Author	daebow
Upvotes	7
Comments	63
Date	October 27, 2015 12:41 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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