Dating Deal Breakers compare and contrast.

azngirl7689 · 2018-12-29T20:19:47+00:00

Blueish purple pill

25 F

Lives at home

Too close to Mum

No job

Doesn’t read books

Didn’t attend college

Over 35

Doesn’t clean

Doesn’t cook

Fat

Too into video games

Doesn’t believe in marriage

Can’t save money to save his life

Playboy type/fuckboy

Civil_Seaworthiness · 2018-12-29T20:22:36+00:00

No pill, blue leaning by this sub's standards, 21, white woman

-unkind

-doesn't like me

-lives more than 15 minutes away

-done growing as a person

red__aaron · 2018-12-29T22:21:56+00:00

21 F, white, blue pill

no ambition
racist, sexist, classist
overweight
boring

-rude/disrespectful

MoodyBrizo · 2018-12-29T21:57:05+00:00

Introvert

Every introverted woman I have ever met has been an extrovert with insecurities and just needs drugs, parties, and Chad cock to break her out.

trettles · 2018-12-29T22:28:21+00:00

32/F/white

Smokes
Conservative
Wants kids
Religious (slightly is ok)
Younger than 25 or older than 45
Unemployed
Been imprisoned
Doesn't believe in equality
Overbearing family
Expects me to do all housework

hepaticfeedback · 2018-12-30T00:11:25+00:00

Exasperatedpill 21yo bisexual woman:

NEET
bad hygiene
into pop/nerd culture
low sex drive
lies
doesn't read
conflict avoidant
immature
cookie-cutter belief system
doesn't adore me

LeJacquelope · 2018-12-30T02:09:06+00:00

M 40something black purple pill

My hard-no's if I were single today?

Hypergamous

SAHM with no plans for a home business (we are both stay at home parents but we co-run a home business)

Not independent-minded

Any woman who sneers at Consistent Life Ethic - that's you, pro-choicers and pro-birthers who only care until the baby is born.

Anti-contraception / anti-Planned Parenthood - PP does far more than just abortions so way too many women still really need PP even without abortions. Any woman who hates PP with no nuance is a hard no for me

Politically Conservative or radical feminist / misandrist, and Trumpanzee'ism / pro-Patriarchy is a hard noep (well, I have talked down one or two radical feminists)

Extreme tomboy or too dainty

Expects me to play the Hunger Games in courtship

Doesn't date Dutch early on

Bad in bed

Non-monogamous

Drug use

Wants to be childfree

Atheist or overly religious

Anti-egalitarian

Probable no's but can be negated by other good traits:

No curves

Small boobs

Jesus Christ, all my hard-no's are based on character and personality, and negotiables are based on looks...

TheMarbleSlab · 2018-12-30T06:41:26+00:00

Pink pill

24

F

Being mean

Being a mooch

Being lazy

Having an n count over like 5-6

Being more than 12 years older than me

Drinking alcohol

Smoking weed

Smoking anything or doing drugs

Not being willing to wait for marriage for sex

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super_inhuman · 2018-12-29T22:31:37+00:00

23M Purple

Lacks the capacity for self-reflection and direction

More attuned to group/majority desires than independent thought, “trendy” in a bad way

Prominent tattoos are generally a red-flag for me. Not a disqualifier, but a big indicator of deal-breaker #2 violation

Moralistic without the requisite morality

Instagram/social media as a tool for self-fulfillment

High n-count and a history of non-monogamous casual sex

& given that I’d also prefer to date within the same or a similar social “scene” with basic cultural shit in common, my dating pool is pretty small

edit: forgot I’m coming to see heavy tinder/online dating usage as a dealbreaker, on-demand dick and the like

Workaholico · 2018-12-29T22:42:58+00:00

No pill, leaning red (M) late 20's

Deal breakers:

Being a danger to me, those I care, or our resources;

Being unable to talk like an rational adult (everyday feminists enter here);

If she impede or hinders my sexual satisfaction;

Being a mother;

Being in a serious relationship (I do not want to deal with another man's woman).

slavicgypsygirl · 2018-12-29T22:50:43+00:00

I am 26 & my only dating deal breaker is possessiveness

LewisCross · 2018-12-30T00:32:27+00:00

That’s a lot of deal breakers.

hammerhaunts · 2018-12-30T00:49:20+00:00

22 white M

needs confident men
outstanding debts

3vilg0d · 2018-12-30T00:54:17+00:00

20M Red Pill

Deal Breakers

Models

Psychiatrist

Journalist

Writers

High Empathy

Former Sugar daddy types

Fat

Small(<5.5)

Clingy

Talkative

Low Sex Drive

DemonConsulting · 2018-12-30T00:56:54+00:00

Red/F/22/white (German)

Doesn't want marriage

Doesn't want children

Smokes/ does drugs/ drinks a lot

No job or career prospects/ ambitions

Debt

Younger or more than 5 years older than me

welcometothejl · 2018-12-30T01:20:03+00:00

35 M Red Pill -Fat or poor eating habits -Messy -Debt -Likes being asked questions but doesn't reciprocate -Tells stories with 80 tangents -Never offers to pay -Antidepressants -Smokes, or excessive drinking -Too many kids or animals -Wants more kids -Doesn't initiate

Jebediah_Goodplow · 2018-12-30T01:45:06+00:00

Purple, 38M, white

Vegan/vegetarian

Cigarette smoker

Doesn't consume cannabis in some way

Has ever been a recreational user of amphetamines, opiates, xanax, etc.

Has more than 2 kids

Wants more kids

Abrahamic religious

Weighs more than about 170lbs

Much younger than 30

Virgin or less than 3 partners, other women and oral only don't count.

reluctantly_red · 2018-12-30T05:24:12+00:00

Me mostly Red 54 year old Hispanic male. My deal breakers:

No education

No career

No ambition

Religious

Conservative

Bad skin

Bad teeth

Harsh or ugly face

Too many tattoos

Doesn't like kids

Doesn't like animals

Too materialistic

Boring

RandomAttackHelpMe · 2018-12-30T06:28:36+00:00

My only real definite dealbreakers are hard drug use, out of control alcohol use, control freaks, can't stand that shit in any one, finds or makes problems or issues where there are none, makes politics an issue where it doesn't need to be like expects you to believe and be into everything she is, this is for even general social relationships as well, doesn't appreciate anything, very very very materialistic, again, that applies to social relationships as well, can accept fights/arguments happen but knows when to let go, yeah.

MissNietzsche · 2018-12-30T19:01:32+00:00

20F, mostly red

Deal-breakers are:

-stupid (pretty much 100 IQ or below)

-has a mental disability

-over 27ish years old or younger than me

-5'6 or under

-Uses hard drugs

-submissive in the bedroom at all

-non-monogamous under any circumstances (this includes kinks like exhibitionism)

-rates anything other than 0 on the Kinsey scale

-male feminist

-hyper-liberal

-doesn't believe in marriage

-a BMI that resembles the people of "My 600 lb Life"

-doesn't actually love me (I've been here, it sucks)

NoGodsNoLabels · 2018-12-31T04:00:36+00:00

25 M. No pill.

Overweight

Extremely feminist

Extremely slutty past. A little is okay.

Low sex drive

Doesn't give me oral sex until I orgasm

No ambition or life goals

Heavy drug abuser. A little use is okay.

Has nude photos floating around

Radically religious

Notoriously unintelligent

deGeso88 · 2018-12-29T22:02:29+00:00

Me, red-pilled man of culture, hate if she:
Not cute
Curly hair
Not virgin
25+
Asexual
To normie and basic
To artsy
To fat and is "body positive" (could give chance to unfatten)
To serious
To tall
Doesnt like cats
Doesnt like anime
Doesnt like fantasy and sci-fi
Doesnt like video games
Doesnt like edgy black humour (could tolerate only if she's autist or is really good at other things)
Likes dogs too much
Likes shitty music, like k-pop and mumble rap
Not self-critical and not anti-zionist jew
SJW
Materialistic
Capitalist
Feminist
Antifa
Atheist
Follower of abrahamic religions
Has overprotective daddy

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2018-12-29T22:06:51+00:00

24 M Black

Republican

Clingy

Promiscuous

Stupid

Entitled

Toxic

Boring

Obese

History of bad decisions

Debt

Controlling

Wants marriage

Has kids

No plans for the future

verticordia · 2018-12-30T04:05:20+00:00

purple 18 f

No car No job Under 18 Over 28 Says the word "thot" or "e girl" Immaturity No emotional intelligence Goody two shoes Straight edge Cares too much about what family/friends say Fat Under 5'5 Prudish Overly skeptical/atheistic/science bro Watches rick and morty Virgin Overly political Too effeminate No sense of humor Listens to russ Beards Stingy Emotionally unavailable Cheater/playboy type Doesn't believe in marriage Clingy

exit_sandman · 2018-12-30T08:58:38+00:00

We already had this topic about a month ago.

Here's mine (also from that thread):

That's a long list, I define my ideal partner more along the lines of dealbreakers than having a laundry list of "must haves"

has kids
doesn't want kids, is the opposite of family-oriented
current or former slut or sex worker
history of cheating and/or STD (mentioning both separately because even though they correlate with sluttiness, you can still check that box without being one)
criminal record
doesn't like sex (or doesn't like sex with me) and everything that comes with it: never initiates, isn't visibly enjoying herself, isn't adventurous and prefers to stick to vanilla sex, is content with having rather little sex etc.
SJW or SJW leanings, or other extreme opinions (that can cover basically everything regarding religion and politics)
mental illness, addiction, psychological disorders or trauma
legitimately alpha-widowed
has an extremely unpleasant personality (rude, bitchy, entitled, overly demanding, extremely clingy, notorious liar, looks down on people socially below her etc.)
stupid, ignorant, no sense of humor; mostly or completely incompatible regarding likes, dislikes or interests (this is one bullet point because they tend to go hand in hand)
above or below a certain age
oh, and I should find her physically attractive (this includes not having a questionable hygiene)

Title	Dating Deal Breakers compare and contrast.
Author	Zero_The-Hero
Upvotes	2
Comments	85
Date	December 29, 2018 8:09 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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