Please read through the thread before posting the same point that has been made several times before.

1. Personality decides which boys chase women and which boys simply don't care

Some boys start chasing girls from a young age. You can tell who the ladies men are gonna be. They simply enjoy chatting with and flirting with girls. It's like a hobby for them. They try to make them their gf, they try to kiss them , they try to get head ....usual high school stuff.

Other boys simply couldn't care less . They think girls are boring and much rather chill with their bros. By college these guys might become very interested in girls but our proto-manwhore above would have amassed a several year head start and way way more experience.

2. Personality decides which boys prefer monogamous relationships to whoring around

I have friends who have model tier looks but still have low N counts.....simply because they prefer relationships. Of course all of their girlfriends have been super hot so there's that. On the other hand I have a couple average looking friends with massive N counts ...simply because their goal is to have a high N count. They will bang literally anything because "a hole is a hole". Some men are simply too picky and high disgust to bang low smv girls even to end a dry spell

3. Personality decides which boys figure out what girls want and which ones believe whatever bullshit they are told.

"We were told girls get wet for good boys who washed behind their ears" said the shut-in nerd.....Well if you left the house you'd have realized the opposite. I remember in my high school days boys would copy what the older guys who were successful with girls did. If being on the basketball team get the girls , he's gonna be a basketballer. If girls like guys in a band, he's gonna start a band. If girls like guys dress a certain way, he's gonna copy Justin Beibers swag. If girls like gym rats....you get the picture.

Other boys simply don't have this social awareness and wiliness to seek out answers. And many boys see what type does well girls and still don't care enough about getting girls to change themselves.

3. Personality decides introversion and extroversion. Extroversion helps with meeting new girls and having status.

Being an introvert doesn't make a guy a bad person ....but it's a big hamper to getting laid. Guys who prefer to have a big social circle are simply in a better position to meet girls through acquaintances. A loner ..especial one with a predominately male social circle ..might have to cold approach which rarely works. Also a loner has no social status which is a big negative.

An extension of this is that personality decides which guys prefer the party/drug scene to chess or DnD. The girls who have casual sex aren't playing chess.

5. Personality decides which boys care about their looks

Some teenage boys are very obsessive about their looks. They brush their hair a lot. They use all sorts products. They go to the gym ..or just tons of ab crunches because girls like abs. They care about fashion enough to attempt to dress themselves. These boys tend to do better with girls.

Most teenagers boys don't give a shit and will never grow to give a shit....as can be seen with how most men present themselves currently.

6. Personality decides which boys are timid/shy and which are confident/brave

Nobody teaches 14 year olds confidence. Some just innately have it. They approach girls without fear. And some are just shy. Maybe they'll grow out of it maybe not ...but i've never seen a shy player.

So yeah 6 points. You don't have a refute them all. Just pick the ones you disagree with most / have a good counter point to