I was recently told by a close friend of mine who's staunchly "feminist" that I was holding women back by being so open and following of "lady redpil ideas".

I had no idea what this meant. I had heard of redpill, but not 'lady redpill'. I had to use google only to discover this subreddit. I thought I'd ask you what you thought on the subject and to judge for yourselves. If I am "redpill", it will change how I see repill and the ideas they claim.

  • I, as a stay at home mom, make sure the house is clean and laundry is done and food is waiting for Hubby when he gets home. This is my job and I take pride in my work.

  • I make sure that I always look good and take into consideration his tastes. I still have and wear some things he things are tacky, but few and far between. I get dressed in the morning and make sure I don't spend my days in pajamas. That would make like depressing as hell.

  • I buy food he likes and make things he likes because I like seeing him happy. That makes me happy.

  • If he asks me to do something, I do it. I know that he's not going to ask me to do anything crazy or outlandish so i just trust him. Why do I need to argue when I know he's asking me for a good reason?

  • I at least try every video game he likes, and I don't bug him about his video game usage. if he feels like he needs to play for 18+ hours, he must be stressed out and need an escape. I let him have it.

  • I make sure at functions that I always get him his food and drink first.

  • I visit him at work when I can and bring him lunches sometimes. I don't pack his lunch, as he likes to go out to eat with coworkers.

Now, I have ALWAYS been this way. I like putting him first because it makes ME happy. I get joy from him having joy. I

find it funny that she complains to me about her husband not helping her with the house, the kids, or when she's ill but when I offer her suggestions she gets crazy on me about how I'm killing women by being a stereotype.

Well, my husband without me asking:

  • insists on getting up with the baby. He says for me to be a mom during the day I need a good nights sleep

  • brings me flowers, gifts, and grabs my butt daily after 7 years of marriage

  • will take care of me if I'm sick and never complain if I ask for extra help now and again. He knows if I'm not making dinner or the house is messy, I must feel like hell.

  • encourages me to try new things and talks to me about my hobbies

  • will regulate his video game usage on his own and go days without playing some times just because he loves family time too.

  • brag about his hot wife that plays video games to his friends. Our house is even the hangout.

    I believe that every women has a right to choose what the want from life and no one should be told they are "wrong". Why is it so hard for her to understand that maybe some ladies LIKE making their partner happy?

If I am living a redpill lifestyle-I'll be blown away. I just figured I was treating my husband with love and respect. Isn't that what we all are supposed to do?