Look I feel it strange that this needs repeating but I get inboxes from guys all the time asking the most basic fucking oneitus questions in the world. "So theres this chick I used to like in HS and now shes doing this and I want to sleep with her so that I can get over her and show that I'm not that same chode from HS anymore."

FIRST: SHUT THE FUCK UP. You have nothing to prove. Thinking like this is making you go back into chode mode. Youve probably spent a year or even several reading TRP posts SPECIFICALLY DESIGNED to get you out of this chodedom, now why in the fucking fuck are you falling back into it? Ultimately why you're doing it is irrelevant but I'm going to give you a simple rule to follow ok? This rule will never let you down. It will simultaneously keep your frame rock solid, make girls CHASE YOU, and cut out all this chodey bullshit you're doing.

RULE: NO FEELINGS FOR HOES UNTIL 6 MONTHS OF STEADY SEX

Thats right, thats your new rule. Just like women will have certain rules: I wont fuck him until x y or z. And the fact that they stick to those rules puts them in the power position. Now were flipping the script. I think the biggest problem with why dudes get back into chodey behavior is because women hypnotize them into it. Just as much as were trying to hypnotize women for sex with no commitment, women are trying to hypnotize you for attention and vali