I reached a really calm state of mind. I think that a lot of the anxiousness for sex is purely psicological, and that can't be faked by porn or imagination: your brain know perfectly when you have fucked or masturbated.

I always have wondered why most of my natural friends are the way the are with women, and all of them have something in common: early contact with sex in their younger days, most of them with prostitutes. I think that they gained that outcome independence / IDGAF attitude knowing that they can fuck anytime they want. This subconscious knowledge is really powerful. But your subconscius have to know it. This is some solid abundance mentality.

Regarding porn and fap, I think we know how detrimental is for men psyque. This make a huge step, but now I feel truly free.