Summary: Most people don't put in effort to look good. With a little bit of work you can stand out

If you wear glasses get contacts or lasik. Some guys can pull it off but for most guys especially ethnics it makes them look nerdy.

Hairstyle and facial hair grooming: you need a trendy haircut to suit your face. Beards and stubble work well but not everyone can pull it off. If you have a patchy beard just shave it off.

Lift and lift a lot but remember that you also need to be lean. No dirty bulk or any of that nonsense. A sskinny ripped guy beats out a bloated power lifter but physiques like Jeff Seid and Zyzz are king. Remember that bodyfat influences how your face looks so it's important to keep it low even if you don't lift.

Dress to impress. No over the top shit but you need to look like you put in effort.

Maintain a sociable disposition. Speak slowly, make eye contact and listen to what others have to say. Don't reveal your insecurities and maintain frame.

Lessons learned: Although these ideas might seem trivial, many people aren't aware of them and just don't want to put in the effort.