Summary:

In order to bang girls who are into MMA, kickboxing etc. you need to turn your alpha traits up. Once you do that, they're an easy lay.

Body/Theory:

Among the girls I've dated during the past 6 months, there were 5 girls who all were heavily into MMA and kickboxing. I like to go for these girls because I'm into hardbodied, fit, energetic chicks and the physiques of all of the 5 girls were nothing short of amazing.

The first three girls I dated were all very outgoing and friendly and the dates were a lot of fun. However, all three told me that they didn't really feel any deeper connection (read: 'gina tingles) altough I escalated as I always do.

This left me puzzled because I'm used to banging most girls on the first date and girls usually tell me that I'm a very aggressive guy. After thinking about these dates for a while, last week, I had somewhat of a revelation. If you want to be successful with such girls, you need to be aware of their frame of reference in regard to alpha traits and adjust accordingly:

These girls train in mixed gyms, which means they're heavily exposed to males expressing one of the purest form of aggression.

During training, these girls all do some sort of very physical contact drills, which means they're used to being punched, grabbed, held down, choked etc. by aggressive males.

This alters their frame of reference in regards to a) what an aggressive male is and b) what physical escalation is. In essence, you need to match/exceed the alphaness of the guys she's around and match the physical intensity she experiences during training, but do so in a sexual manner.

Lesson learned/field report:

Three days ago, I took an MMA chick out for a date and decided to test my hypothesis. When I met her, I put my hand on the small of her back, gave her a kiss on each cheek and then immediately took her hand to lead her to the bar.

During the date, I let her do most of the talking, didn't crack much of a smile and did not give her much validation (key: slightly amused mastery). Whenever I made a point, I touched her thighs, shoulders and neck right away (usually, I start with hands/forearms).

When we left the bar for a walk along the shore, I put my hand on her hip/ass and pulled her close in so she cuddled up on me. After a couple of minutes, I stopped at a tree, pinned her against it and went for the kiss. We immediately started making out and I took her to my apartment right away and banged her hard (hair pulling, choking, spanking/slapping etc.). Today I got a text that she wants to come over again next week.

Quintessence: When dating a fighter girl, show your tough, silent side and escalate physically right away.