Having a child

atticusfinch1973 · 2017-10-29T11:42:11+00:00

Dude, trust me I get it. I have a 2.5 and 4.5 year old and currently they get up at 5:30, you have to entertain them and have activities all day and I fall into bed exhausted when I have them. They won't play with each other for longer than 15 minutes and I don't want them to be welded to a screen (because that's weak and lazy) so I engage constantly. And it's extremely trying at times.

Yes, for a few years life sucks. Then they become able to do cool activities and you get to be the one introducing them to new and amazing things. You will be the one who teaches him to throw a football, punch somebody and do all sorts of really cool things. Imagine taking your son out to help fix your car? Plus, nobody will ever adore you like your kids will. My kids call me King Daddy. Having a child isn't an end. It's a DELAY.

Manage what you can for yourself. Keep women as plates and one nighters and use that strategy. I have three women who also have kids who I can call up pretty much any time and get laid. I have no interest in a relationship because it's too time consuming and costs money. In terms of working out I bought kettlebells and do quick workouts in the basement when they are asleep. Tighten up your diet because you can't lift as much. I've taught my older time that when her sister naps on Sundays it's football time so I can do something I enjoy and she loves watching with me.

And for those of you who don't have kids THINK HARD about the commitment before you are ready. I wouldn't have had two kids looking back but it happened. It's a MASSIVE commitment and you need to be prepared financially, physically and emotionally.

Just trying to write this my two kids are crawling all over me before we go to get groceries at 7:30am. I get it. Right now it sucks horribly. But it will get better. And it makes you a better man in my opinion.

MRPFuckMe1 · 2017-10-29T12:26:23+00:00

Alright man. You basically told my story except mine is a daughter at 8 years-old currently. I got two things to say to you.

First, yeah it's hard. Yeah it can really suck. I'm currently sitting here trying to get over being a little butthurt that my friends didn't invite me out last night because they don't know my custody schedule and generally just sort of default to assuming I have my daughter. But this victim mentality shit isn't getting you anywhere. Nobody cares; work harder. If you're black in America and life is tough being a minority--nobody cares; work harder. If you're a woman in a man's field--nobody cares; work harder. If you're a single parent.. you get the idea.

Second, the gym. I don't know what gym you go to, but I go to the YMCA. They have childcare facilities and lots of programs for kids. The deal I worked out with my daughter is on the weeks I have here, I go lift while she is in childcare and afterwards, we go swimming.

Beyond that, man, just find the joy. Sometimes you really gotta look for it. But it's there somewhere.

AJ_EAVES · 2017-10-29T05:29:12+00:00

Thank you for this. I feel sorry for you with the mess you've got into, and I appreciate the fact that you said this. People who think about having a child in a light-hearted manner are so idiotic, they shouldn't even be allowed to pass on their genes. I get so much crap because I declared that I don't want children. I don't want my life to go down the drain for the sake of a kid.

AshyLarry27 · 2017-10-29T15:44:58+00:00

Thanks this was huge. I am 28 so of course social media and social discussions start going about "who is married and who has kids." I still don't find marriage enticing, but everyone has trouble avoiding that "Keeping up with the Jones'!" mentality.

Bill Burr had a GREAT bit on this: "Doesn't anyone check the stats?? What's it like at least half of all marriages are going down the shitter?! People, if you were going skydiving and they told you half of the parachutes weren't going to open, you'd be like 'Yo fuck that I'm not going! I don't like those odds' But there's something about getting married, people still do it! They're like 'Is this the line to lose half my shit? Awesome! I can't wait to lose my car, my money my . . . oh look the line's moving! This is going to be GREAT'"

DeepRedTomato · 2017-10-29T11:49:35+00:00

I have a vasectomy. Two girls tried telling me they were pregnant. Ya ok, I fucked with them good going through the motions then left last minute haha. Sucks you have to deal with a bitch like that, I was afraid of your situation so I decided to cut my losses early.

underwaterpushups · 2017-10-29T05:37:28+00:00

My opinion is that ONLY redpilled men should have children. We can raise them in the best way.

However, you have to wait for the right moment, which is when you know your mission, your passion, can't be bigger than that, say music, technology ecc.. whatever you like.

For the girl, the same applies: at least 3-4 years of dating, maybe try to live together for 1 and then, if you REALLY feel she's the one even after all (ahah) this time, then go on and put another little redpill soldier in this beta world.

PokeyTifu99 · 2017-10-29T11:42:17+00:00

Not even close. Have two kids. Life is great. Stick with conservative traditional women and life won't be so shitty. Never once had to worry about working my ass off and having my wife disrespect me like that. You went full Beta with no frame. Buck up and get your shit together.

Wallace44 · 2017-10-29T20:55:28+00:00

You complain about being a dad.. but you admit you fought hard for custody. If its such a miserable life let the mom raise him. Also... get yourself a barbell and lift at home.

panzerbier · 2017-10-29T06:52:53+00:00

Thank you for this post, I'm sure this will help some guys still on the fence.

I had the exact same life path - except for a single lifechanging conversation that made me realize having kids is actually optional. At that time I was cohabitating and planning to marry. That ended that very night. Being childfree is an uncertain life path but ultimately light, free, and rewarding.

t3nchi · 2017-10-29T11:44:18+00:00

Childfree guy here. Got snipped a while ago. Glad that I will never be on the moneyhook and fucked if a future wife or gf decides to bail on me with my kid, and glad said kid won't have to suffer the split.

ButtRobot · 2017-10-29T14:11:25+00:00

I have a baby mama right now because I was an unprepared douchebag, and the bitch saw her moment to siphon me.

Basically everything happened according to this script. Fuck this world for protecting women over men.

Unless you are an absolutely unflinching hate-machine it's pretty tough to give up your kid. And yes it's awful in the beginning. I feel like the Harpy's count on the difficulty wearing on us and making us give up and compromise.

She'll be a grown up one day, and she'll she her parents for what they are. I bet my little girl picks me.

Vintage_Cola · 2017-10-29T16:56:46+00:00

Freedom or procreation. Men, sadly it seems, cannot have both. I want to have a son, whom I will raise to become an RP alpha and get laid a fuckton. But in order to have a son, you must give up your god-given freedoms and devote all resources made not to yourself, but to the child and the mother. In knowing that procreating will immediately result in becoming a beta provider, helplessly generating income for your child and your cheating wife, the impetus to create life becomes increasingly discouraging for me. I'm saddened that this is the world I live in, for despite all our technological advances through the decades, women still use their inherent sexual capabilities to manipulate happy alpha men and extract all humanity and dignity from them at all costs.

waspmaker · 2017-10-29T21:07:19+00:00

I don't get it, some of the comments are like "Stop complaining" "Man the fuck up?"

Dude don't even bother responding to them!

Your kicking ass bro! & this certainly helped me shape my future! thanks for sharing this life experience! I wish well for you & your kid!

Nick24601 · 2017-10-29T04:17:00+00:00

You only lost your ability to walk away from the kid not the woman. I see my exwife frequently to get my kid, but she means nothing to me. If your not at the point where all she is to you is a unionized nanny I dunno what to say.

As for child support killing your ability to date, if you need money to get a girl your doing it wrong.

Kingoffistycuffs · 2017-10-29T05:13:04+00:00

I don't know man. I plan on using a surrogate for my kids. Though that's at least a decade down the line. I'll build up a solid business then invest in property to give me the income I'll need to be a stay at home/work from home dad buying the best tutors and schooling I can for them, get them involved early in learning to run a business and setting them off while still controlling the outcome to make it hard enough to appreciate and easy enough to succeed at.

For the times I'm working they'll be in school/learning about how to get ahead in life. Any daughters I have will learn to be a homemaker and learn about nutrition, sewing, gardening, posture and other skills. If they fuck up to much I'll just disown them and remove the inheritance and kick them out(I hope though that might be tough depending on how much I love them).

If all I'm going to be is disappointed I see no reason to give effort to something that won't pay back and since I don't need to in order to have kids then to me the decision is easy :/.

crush_snort_red_pill · 2017-10-29T16:51:28+00:00

What happened to you really sucks. It happens to too many of us.

Many readers in this sub will, at some point, decide they want a stable home where they can enjoy the blessings of their offspring.

Men if you decide you want kids the ONLY way to do this is a trad life. I mean, one provider, 2.5 kids (or more to keep her busy), two story house, two cars, church on Sunday, little league on Saturday. This is not for you. It’s for your family. To keep them busy, content, and stable. You can believe and do whatever you want in your own time. Being an alpha dad/MRP/whatever means always living a dual life. As others have said, it is TRP on hard mode. I personally love it but to each his own.

First, you must build yourself up to be the best man you can be. Fit, clear minded (strong frame), and with earning potential.

Second, you must find a woman who wants a trad life. This is challenging because many women are confused about how rewarding a trad life can be for them. The easiest way to think about is: she needs to be someone you’d be happy to wake up next to you in your tepee after birthing 2.5 kids, and she needs to be neurotic enough and submissive enough to manage your camp well when you’re away.

This, as this entire subreddit will attest, is the hard part.

Third, you must always maintain frame and be man of the house while attending to the sometimes emotional needs of your wife and children. MRP can explain this much better than I.

Fourth, you must put your woman and family in a tribe/community that will be a source of support, not detriment. This means finding Christianity, Mormonism (I hear good things about them), something like it, or an area full of trad families with strong social stigma against branch swinging. Without such a tribe or community your family is just a “band” (in the anthropological sense). One lone attacker can wipe out a band, but not a tribe.

Other men surely have done this better than me so let them chime in too.

Anyway, the version of child rearing we often see discussed here is either beta slavery, divorce rape, or something in between. Just know there are some of us that are doing this right and it is as challenging as it is rewarding. Being fit and slaying hoes is fun easy and not very fulfilling. Being MRP is hard, but fills my soul in a way I didn’t know was possible. It’s a personal choice and isn’t right for many men.

Broseidon241 · 2017-10-29T13:22:47+00:00

This really, really strikes me as "I did a vague and common thing, but failed - like other people fail! The problem isn't me, it isn't my choice of wife or all the decisions I made about how to manage my relationship or my life - it's all women! It's The System!"

I'm sorry you're in a bad situation and got taken advantage of, but it sounds to me like you just got run over by adult life and aren't identifying the actual mistakes you made.

Having a child is the end to one type of life, and then you have to set about building another - and, sometimes, you have to set about showing your spouse what it is to build that new type of life. This does truly include some of the more common-sense redpill philosophies - not being afraid to lead, not getting run over by other people's expectations, protecting and managing your own well-being so you can protect and manage the well-being of others - but it doesn't involve belittling your spouse as 'first mate' or whatever it is. You partner with them (because you've chosen a someone who can be that partner) and you go about building the life you want that includes a happy and thriving spouse. Not someone who can come with you or get lost (i.e., leading through mild coercion), but someone who still actively wants to come along with you.

It's a fine distinction, and I hope you can fully understand it.

I have a son myself - as well as a great, highly-educated and lovely wife. She is on maternity leave right now. I build my career by waking up at 4am, working for 3 hours, then coming back home to be there when my son wakes up. I can be successful in both parts of my life, because I make sure that I am.

You can't blame a new mother - or father! - for falling prey to basic psychological effects like the egocentric bias. If anyone - man or woman - is operating on no sleep and high stress, they are more susceptible to your basic biases and mistakes, no matter who they are. Over time, repeatedly falling prey to these can change who they are. Many people do change for the worse because they don't realize this is happening. Many men watch their marriages fail because they don't recognize what is happening or why, and don't understand how to manage it. Instead of giving positive emotions to their wife and child, they accept negative emotions from them, and that gets passed around the family until things are irreparably damaged.

TL;DR You're wrong and this post smells of salt. Understanding and the ability to improve everyone around you so they want to be with you is the key skill you need to be learning. And, maybe, how to choose the right sort of woman to marry.

My wife is upstairs with our son right now, taking care of him and singing 'All by myself' because she wants me to help. And I will help - just not yet. I laughed if off and shouted a joke, will finish writing this to you, then go and be happy. I hope you learn what you need to learn, and find happiness yourself.

Docbear64 · 2017-10-29T08:58:38+00:00

I appreciate your honesty, I know I am still far from being able to reasonably enter the father phase of my own life. There's a level of sacrifice and attention I think your child deserves that I know I wouldn't want to offer up right now so more power to you for not skipping out which is the easy move that all too many men have seemed to be ok with ( or had a heartless bitch of an ex actively try to dissuade / remove their ability to visit) .... sometimes both .

Good luck and while your kid should definitely be one of the higher priorities in your life , remember not to lose yourself . An utterly unhappy and miserable version of you will not make for a great childhood no matter how much money you make to support the kid. I think it's all about balance.

TheFamilyAlpha · 2017-10-29T14:23:29+00:00

Your kid can become fuel for growth or an anchor to future performance, it's entirely up to your perspective.

There is definitely a point to be made on The Burden of Family

datsikboy92 · 2017-10-29T21:49:40+00:00

I appreciate this post and hope things do get better. It’s hard and I’m sure you didn’t have any RP awareness when all this happened so there isn’t much you can do. Sure opened my eyes a little more so thank you.

banjew · 2017-10-30T08:04:22+00:00

Men, all this is to say that it is a miserable existence to become a father.

No it's not.

I have a 7 yo kid. I fucked more girls since he was born that all years before. Hell some girls prefer men with kids. If you have >40 yo and don't have a kid, some girls assume there's something missing in your life or wrong with you. I have never met a woman that didn't want to fuck me because I have a kid.

enkae7317 · 2017-10-29T09:08:56+00:00

I really don't understand why guys from this sub like the idea of keeping the children. If the bitch wants to keep the kids, let her. More freedom for me.

Spreading the seed and fucking as many girls as possible and having free reign to do it over and over again with little (to none) consequences is great. Wouldn't you say so?

Fr3akShow · 2017-10-29T15:23:49+00:00

Interesting. I love being a father. My daughter is 9 and is one the funniest, coolest people I know. The marriage and the wife was a ridiculous social trap. Marriage is a cage, and I'm so glad I'm free. I have 50% custody where my daughter is with me every other week. So, every other week I live the bachelor lifestyle, and then the next week, I get to hang out with my kid. Being a father is great, in my opinion, but it does take money. I happen to be in position where I can pay alimony and child support, and still have a comfortable life. My gym has daycare, so when I go lift, I just take her with me. It's all about how you set your life up. Anyway, just another perspective here.

TheLegionnaire00 · 2017-10-29T05:01:50+00:00

I don't understand how somebody would marry without a prenup

crabyjoe · 2017-10-29T18:07:34+00:00

Don't let this anger consume you to the point you have to rage about it. I was married young (21) and had 4 kids with the same chick. A decade later she had to see what else was out there for her and I never put up a fight. The difference is that I realized that I can always do better than her and that my kids will always be alright because I adopted a positive attitude from the start. I even moved to another state for a few years just to experience life on my own without the chaos of family. After 3 years on my own, I talked her into moving them to where I was. Posting pics of me hanging out with hot chics and her being jealous because her life was shit helped a lot ;). Anyways, my point is once you get past the anger stage, you'll start to think more clearly about your future and what you, as a man, are capable of. My kids now see me whenever they want, she remarried to a cool guy, and I spin plates. Life is better now for sure.

mytrpname · 2017-10-29T20:49:17+00:00

Having kids has never been about your own happiness. There are such bigger things in this life than ones own dopamine flow. Thank God.

How about the experiences that you cannot have with out being a father? How about building a part of the future society etc?

dandar4600 · 2017-10-29T17:48:05+00:00

So much anger at your own mistakes man.

My wife works, kids with grandparents or daycare.

There are no GNOs. That was in fact one of the things I looked for when dating. Maybe casino night with her lil sis or baby shower. These things happen less than once a year and we've been together for 20.

The hours that I work are ones that I set based on a need that I see. My wife can can disagree but at the end it's my decision and I never let them interfere with my home life. I work to live, not the other way around.

Finally, being a father is an extremely rewarding experience. Seeing your kids grow, take their first steps, run toward you to give your a hug as you walk in the door. There are so many firsts, so many priceless memories.

So many sleepless nights (lol) though my wife had way more of those than I did. She's a trooper. She supported me while I was finishing college when our first was born. She can bitch with the best of them, but she's loyal and a solid first mate. Oh and she makes as much as I do.

So bitch, moan and live scared of life. Oooh, the boogie woman will take my kids and divorce rape me. Or you can properly vet your ltr and have your own slice of American dream.

MattyAnon · 2017-10-29T13:16:50+00:00

child support bills dry up the funds pretty quick

Why are you paying child support if you have 50/50 custody??

Frenchy100 · 2017-10-29T14:36:06+00:00

That's not being a father that sucked, it's the fact that she walked away! Had you had a private marriage and a prenup you would've been fine.

Frenchy100 · 2017-10-29T14:37:03+00:00

Also make sure the kid is yours

Bear-With-Bit · 2017-10-29T18:34:50+00:00

For those on the fence about having kids, check out the childfree sub.

Ketogainsmongoose · 2017-10-29T20:39:34+00:00

You have failed life's ultimate shit test and now your frame is in pieces.

Don't get too broken up about it, life is tough. Just know that you aren't a victim in this.

What separates the strong from the weak is this: tenacity.

Quit being a bitch and handle your shit.

Bodyfatfuckone · 2017-10-29T21:04:24+00:00

Yep, I have a little sister and it's given me a good taste on what being a dad is like. I'm 10 years older than her.

By the time she turned 6, I knew by that point that having kids is not for me. Too much stress, zero free time for your hobbies, financially draining... Need I go on?

I'm 20 now, still want to be childless.

magnificent18 · 2017-10-29T23:40:54+00:00

Wow! It’s crazy because I’ve thought about this and this could happen to me if I were to down this road. And I’m not even married. Logically I know better but then sometimes I’m like “should I try?”

archerinwood2 · 2017-10-30T02:31:57+00:00

but think about the societal impact. don't you want more people like you in the world? have lots of kids, instead of all the less economically producing folks of the world having 100 kids and the smarter people only having 1-3 it should be the other way around

Nitsujsith · 2017-10-30T18:21:36+00:00

Im considering just donating to a sperm bank

Mapispema-ta · 2017-10-30T19:54:28+00:00

You have a kid brah? Not very Alpha brah, not Alpha at all brah.

williamwilliam2 · 2017-10-31T03:49:21+00:00

This can't be repeated enough. Young men need to grasp it is all women.

Surrogate mother are allowed in a few states, like NY, and a few countries.

ThickDickWarrior89 · 2017-10-31T11:00:10+00:00

This sounds like you’re just crying. I suggest you seek counseling.

SwoleyMoleyFrijoley · 2017-10-31T12:22:30+00:00

Kids are awesome if you're a good dad. It's our fucking life's purpose. Just don't knock up a dumb cunt. Knock up an LTR with family values if you plan on being a father. Don't marry them. But it's something I would never take back, being a dad.

stompie5 · 2017-10-29T11:12:29+00:00

The only thing to learn from this post is an example of how pathetic you look when you lose frame. If OP complained this much to his ex, no wonder she left.

Mysonking · 2017-10-29T05:36:59+00:00

What a pile of garbage. I am sure there a lot of divorced dad here who see their fatherhood being in no way an obstacle to being able to lead a healthy , fulfilling and happy life

futmut · 2017-10-29T11:20:53+00:00

The kid makes you lose the ability to do what exactly? I dont see you having projects except being butthurt over a girl which dumped you and giving random excuses on why that happened "she had more time to go out" lol what a dumbass...

Your life is miserable because you are miserable and would be the same even without a kid..

Arabian_Wolf · 2017-10-29T09:23:44+00:00

How old are you?

What do you think of marriage in more traditional cultures? (No 50/50, pay big ass dowry to put a ring on mine and her fingers, plus expense, lots of expense and big consumerist culture).

uebermacht · 2017-10-29T13:56:26+00:00

Saved!
http://archive.is/SCWKk

TRPAndNofapGotMeLaid · 2017-10-29T18:25:09+00:00

This was more an argument against marriage than having a kid. I want to have a kid, but then it would have to be when I am 40+

Poof_Wonder · 2017-10-29T20:55:04+00:00

"it is a miserable existence to become a father. It truly is. And i don't give a fuck about what any of you have to say. This is the way it is."

You are no fucking "alpha." You're a fucking pussy and a piece of shit.

Do not say that is the way it is. You are just going to be okay with that? You fucking cuck.

Don't blame your kid for YOUR fucking problems.

benisohfug · 2017-10-29T20:21:07+00:00

All my life I was always told, and/or shown that a man should graduate college, start a career, get married and have children--in that order. I did exactly that, lemme tell you how it realistically plays out! You are starting that career, working your ass off, and you meet that girl who makes you feel all warm inside. She is the one(itis). You date for a few years, then decide to make it a legal contract to put up with her bullshit--lest she leave you and take all of your shit. Things go well for a while, then comes the big announcement: "I am pregnant!!!" Oh how the excitement begins! Friends, family, co-workers; everyone is so happy for you! It feels good! But, you are still pretty fresh into your career, so busting ass is the only thing you can do! Gotta rise through them ranks and get those dollars to support the two of them right? That is YOUR duty as a man right? Well, kinda! Because then the bitch starts complaining about how little time you spend with her and the new baby (you know, while she was off for 3 months of unpaid maternity leave and the bills still kept rolling in). So, you start to think, mayhaps she is right. I don't spend much time with the family, ill have to cut back on work a bit. Then everything will be much better! And it is better for at least one person--but not you my man! It frees her up to go out with her friends while you stay home and take care of the little angel YOU forced inside the cum dumpster. We should all be well aware of where this goes (reguardless of whether or not you chose to take more time from work for the family or not--ponder that if you don't see the unwinnable shit-test due to that legal contract you signed!!!) So, the bitch realizes that you are now beta bucks, without the bucks cuz, ya know, family time- and fucks the fun dude! This is the new civilized world man! Women should be free to do as they please!!! So, in no time flat, you are running through a year+ and thousands of dollars in getting that divorce. And you face yet another obstacle and seriouse life choice--do you want to raise this kid 50/50?

Think about what you would do for a moment. Go ahead, close them eyes and think about whether or not you would willingly give up your own kid, or fight to be in their lives (and fight you will!!)

Got your answer? Good, heres what I chose!

Ill fight for my son. Nobody can raise that child better than me. The asshat betas his mom brings around (cuz who the fuck else is going to want to take care of another man's kid?) will only rub off on him, and fuck him up for a long time to come.

Now, what does this mean for me? Ahhhh, sexual strategy? Alpha? Right. Women and children are essentially the same. Women just know how to wipe their own asses. What happens when you go full alpha on a girl? You fuck her...and it is fun! But will you ever see her again? Probably not. YOU DON'T REALLY GIVE A FUCK ABOUT HER!!! You cannot do this with a child, especially as a single dad. You have to be able to be the emotional and financial provider for that kid. You set boundaries, you remain in control, but (and this may be admittedly nieve due to the age of my own kid) you must be able to care for that kid.

Now, lets think about dateing! You are on a 50/50 scedule. So for 1/2 of your days, you are beta provider. And must be. The other half, you are trying to break free from the provider role you just worked to get in your head, and be the alpha badass who gives no shits about the women you are approaching and fucking. You lead two distinctly seperate lives. And it is all fucking insane. (Oh, and by the way--taking new bitch out on a date if she earns one is fun--cuz child support bills dry up the funds pretty quick; best to just get used to the ONS and plate AT BEST)

Hows about that job? Well, work a 9-5. Thats all you really get. Personally, I am working towards a life goal on top of it all, but how much work do you think I get to put towards it when I am with my kid? Hahaha, that kid don't give two fucks about your life or its goals! Expect SLOW AS FUCK gains!

Lifting, I make time for the gym. This is the one thing I will always find time for. But, you are a single dad working all day. Aint nobody at home to watch the kiddo while they sleep so you can get at the very least a half hour of lifting heavy shit. (Start gaming that annoying as fuck feminist next door neighbor to watch a baby monitor while the kid sleeps is what I did.)

Men, all this is to say that it is a miserable existence to become a father. It truly is. I don't give a fuck what anybody else will say. This is the way it is. Sure, I love my son. I will do everything in my power to raise him into being a solid RP man. And there are moments of pure joy. But having a child is an END to your own life. You now live with the hope that one day, your kid will be able to live his own life in the way that he sees fit.

Have a kid, LOOSE YOUR ABILITY TO WALK AWAY. And that is the only power a man has in this world. That, or get your nuts clipped. All of this could be avoided in about 20 minutes and 400 bucks! ;).

Enjoy!

SaintHolland · 2017-10-30T02:15:49+00:00

This is sad. The west can't survive if it won't have children. Feminism is the cause. It dragged women out of the home. So long as women aren't confined to a certain extent, marriage just doesn't work like it should. The current hook up culture will die off because it can't sustain itself. In order for a culture to thrive, men need to be able to pass their values on to their children.

Matacks607 · 2017-10-29T08:16:10+00:00

Breeding is the most successful thing you can do really.. that is the whole point of a man's exstance.

you can be successful in other ways sure. You can be famous or a historical figure but, to be successful is always a service to other people.

Having a child the best way to serve yourself. Plus, having kids has a huge payoff when youre retired. You might get grandkids. That's could make being old a decrepid a whole lot nicer.

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