Thinking back to one of my very first relationships it involved cheating. I was complete blue pill Captain Save-A-Ho complete with dating a welfare chick who was a complete train wreck just because she would actually have sex with me. She ended up sleeping with her ex-boyfriend who had just gotten out of jail. Like a typical blue pill guy I begged to get her back, received an STD for my troubles (she got crabs from him and gave it to me) and was gutted by the time I finally got up enough balls to end it.

Fast forward 20 years. Just recently I've taken up with a girl in an LTR who confessed to me after I fucked her for the first time that her long term boyfriend was a typical video game playing loser who never fucked her. This girl just lost 60 pounds and her body is now banging (turned from a 5 to an 8) and sexually she is off the charts good because she's been repressed for so long. I knew she had a boyfriend but wasn't about to turn her down when she offered because I knew if it wasn't me, it would be someone else.

The boyfriend found out two days ago that she had been having sex with another guy because of a text her sister sent her while she was in the shower. She left voluntarily but disclosed to him a bunch of things that when she told me almost sounded cruel. Details about things we had done that were really dirty. Think every repressed woman you've ever been with dirty. Think about a fairly hardcore anal porn movie you've seen and that would be a good start. If I had been the guy I would have been disgusted that this supposed "good girl" would even allow things like she wanted me to do to her.

So I just got a text message from her that he's begging her to come back tomorrow and wants to work things out with counselling. She's told him she will think about it but meanwhile is coming over to my place tonight and I'm going to do all sorts of dirty things to her again, then likely she will go home tomorrow and he will take her back. I almost feel bad for him.

For those of you in LTRs, realize that no matter how good you think your girl is, she's capable of this if you don't take care of business. This girl does volunteer work, has a great job, is really smart and comes off as quite shy and reserved. I'm supposedly only the fourth guy she's been with and she's 28. And she wants things done to her that are actually out of my wheelhouse in bed.

I'm also wondering what motivates a guy to take a girl back who he knows has been fucking another guy like an animal. Then I think back to how I was before and shake my head. Looking in the mirror sometimes is a sobering experience.

Don't ever take a girl back who you even think cheated, because likely she did a lot more than you know.

AWALT.