Politically incorrect observations on nightlife.

After being out for a long time at bars and higher end clubs in big cities, here are more politically incorrect observations for you guys.

Female bartenders will screw up your drink most of the times because they got their jobs due to looks.

Drinks will not taste right, a lot of times they will be kinda off, and generally lower in quality. All because they are getting tipped anyways by suckers and betas who will tip them for their good looks instead of how good they are as bartenders. Generally only guy bartenders get hired based on how well they can bartend, girls get hired based on looks alone. I am at a point where I only let male bartenders make my drink because female bartenders make shitty drinks.

And these drinks keep getting more and more expensive.

Up to $6 minimum for a drink at some places if you are lucky but most drinks numbering in the double digits on the regular. You better have some serious cash if you want to play around with night life, not in the slightest for a person financially short on money. Bartenders hate that cheap guy that comes to a bar and won't even get drinks, especially if he is there just to approach girls, easiest way to get management pissed at you. I would not recommend doing this.

The younger people playing around with nightlife are rich.

They are either trust fund kids or yuppies working lucrative careers (finance, big 4 accounting, higher end sales, software engineers, etc.). Most struggling and poor younger people play around with Netflix on a Friday night while the rich ones are out partying and it is expensive. The hot girls you see who are younger are either from wealthier families or have sugar daddies funding their lifestyle. Most of the younger guys who are living that life are either rich or from wealthier families in most cases. I would say that the guys I run into the most at these places are usually in the corporate world or finance, occasionally I might meet a software engineer who is well rounded.

The people still frequenting nightlife past the age of 30 are late bloomers that missed out.

For whatever reason, they didn't get to go out and get wasted with their friends in college, some of them didn't have the traditional college experience (commuters), and a lot of them worked hard in their 20s to even have the time to party (high finance and medicine). Plenty of people who are frequenting these establishments past the age of 30 from what I have witnessed talking to them are trying to make up for lost time. The thing about it all is that these people do party hard! Nothing wrong with it imo.

Nightlife workers in general are broken people trying to make up for lost time.

The guy who never got over his frat boy college days, the above average looking girl that desperately needs validation, the guy with unrealistic dreams of being an actor, and the occasional workaholic that needs a fun side gig. Normal healthy people do not want to work in nightlife or bother with that stuff, a lot of them are busy trying to build a stable future and look for LTRs. Most people who had normal lives transition out of the bar and club scene after the age of 25, if they are still in it after 30, they usually have some personal demons.

The ideal body type is slim.

Slim with six pack abs, the swimmer body, is the ideal body type to have at these places. Girls want those washboard abs and that kind of a build instead of the big buff overly bulked body builder. Taller guys with this sort of build clean up in the nightlife scene, especially if they are well dressed. Pretty boy gets the girl over the rugged buff guy from what I am seeing these days.

Yet at the same time, it seems like countless guys that don't fit the ideal good looks are slaying.

I have seen bald guys get hot girls countless times, shorter but muscular guys doing well, and in some cases even pudgy guys getting action with girls out of their league. Most of the guys I have seen doing well in the nightlife scene aren't exactly society's ideal for good looks, they aren't the prototypical 6'3 guy with good looks, they fall outside that range. The kinds of guys I have seen doing well in the nightlife scene really makes me question the importance of looks themselves, on one hand they do help but they aren't the end all be all.

Speaking of appearances....

Women from minority groups are far more approachable while white women are the coldest.

I would say that the approachability scale goes like this from most to least approachable:

• Black women
• Latinas
• Southeast Asian women
• East Asian and Indian women
• Middle Eastern/Persian women
• Redheads
• Brunettes
• Blondes

White women are generally the coldest and rudest of them all but it does vary a bit, the European ones are far more approachable than their American counterparts. In most situations the worst rejections you will see during the night will come from white women themselves, a toss up between blondes and brunettes while redheads seem to be friendlier.

When you see a girl with light blonde hair (likely fake), tan, and a blank expression on her face; expect her to give out some creative rejections that will have a guy hurting for the rest of the night. For entertainment I will just watch a girl like that get approached and give out all sorts of hurtful rejections. Not to say you shouldn't try but take all of this into account.

Despite all that, minorities are starting to get with them more and more these days.

Black guy with white girl is becoming common with nightlife in almost every city I have been to, it isn't a fat ugly girl either, she is usually hot. I would say that black guy with cute blonde is a couple you will find in nightlife in almost every single big city you go to, probably one of the most common interracial pairings in the nightlife scene.

Don't worry, ethnic guys are starting to get in on the action too.

It used to be rare for me to see white girls with anything other than white or black guys, becoming more common now. Just the past weekend I saw a muscular Indian guy out with a hot blonde who was making out with him later on in the night. East Asian guys with white girls is becoming a thing as well, all the way from blue eyed blondes to swarthy brunettes. Ethnic guys with redheads seems to legitimately be a thing, so word of advice for ethnic guys on the hunt for that pink nipple!

I am surprised to find that I don't see that many Latino guys with white girls unless the guy himself looks ethnically white while statistics say this should be a common interracial pairing.

That being said, Arab guys fuck it up for everyone and get it the worst from what I have seen. The second you see a group of Arab guys hit the bar, expect for the bitch shields to go up.

If I had to venture a guess, Arab guys have it the worst with American women. The second you see a group of Arab guys arriving at bars, especially if they look like FOBs, is the second most girls get defensive and in some cases even leave the bar itself. I have not seen or heard girls say as many bad things about any other race than Arab/Muslim guys.

Often had girls walk away from my friends who were Persian the second they told the girl they were Persian as well as flat out turning away the second an Arab looking guy approaches them. A lot of my Hispanic and Indian friends often go "no I am not Arab!" when girls try to guess their background and guess Arab.

The perception of Arab guys is terrible in the USA but the guys aren't doing themselves any favors.

But it can all vary by city.

My experiences are limited to cities in the northwest, midwest, and occasionally trips to the Big Apple. I have not been to Los Angeles recently so cannot say how things are there but generally what I have said applies to American cities in those regions. Things can somewhat vary in that regard so a lot of what I said isn't absolute but from well traveled guys I talk to, they do tend to agree on certain things said in this thread (white girls are stuck up, drinks keep getting more expensive, and Arab guys are generally looked down upon).

So YMMV.