We've been witnessing a bluepill trend in this sub recently which translates into low-quality posts. The main reason for this is that the veterans of this sub are busy with their alpha lifestyle and post occasionally, which leaves only gen z TikTok normies posting about their shitty life. Rarely, you have one or two good quality posts from hard-working dudes that are really experimenting with the material here and have results to show.
On top of that, this is the internet where larping is king. So how can you distinguish between shitty and based advice? Easy: how the person deals with life in general.
The typical blooper is characterized by bluepill escapism. That's the most salient quality when you deal with him. Some examples:
- Fear: the blooper hates rejection, it destroys him at his sensitive core, he'll never approach a woman in the street. His main avenues are looks and OLD. He prefers to swipe on Tinder not because it's convenient but because it protects him from rejection. If he's outside, he'll try to look as Chadish as possible to fish for warm approaches. Approaching a woman he likes or challenging himself? Never, too risky. Nothing wrong with making things easier for you, but not at the expense of masculinity.
- Rigid beliefs system: challenging his beliefs is foreign to him. I remember the post of that black dude complaining about how he's playing in hard mode in the USA because he's black. Saw a simple comment of Gayluboil where he told him to leave the USA for a better place. The dude was shocked. All his mental model was based around the USA it's like there are no other countries in this world. Other black dudes told him that they were slaying, but he's not here to find a solution, he's here to confirm his beliefs and soothe himself.
- Gynocentrism: his whole life revolves around women. He's butthurt because Chad is better looking than him and has it easier with women. He wasn't butthurt in school when some of his peers were smarter than him. No will to improve/compete and the world is unfair only when it comes to fucking women. His sexual value is his personal value and his language reflects that: cannot get women = it's over.
- Theory: theory and only theory. Give him a blackpill theory and you'll lose him forever. This is the real world: we have a 5'5 dude who's average in everything else, he has a slight disadvantage but gets girlfriends just from living a normal social life. Another dude is ugly or 5'5 and bald or whatever, harder for him, still, he knows the deal, works hard and compensates in the metrics we all know. Finally, a hard case, I don't know, ugly and short and fat with an indian accent or disfigured or whatever. Casual sex is not gonna happen for him ok? It's not fair it's life. He can find meaning in other things, leverage prostitution and/or betabux in a poor country to get a family, and find purpose and happiness in his children for example. Now, how does a blooper interprets reality with his distorted lens? 5'5 = it's over because a study said so and if you bring game to him he'll accuse you of coping. 5'5 and bald dude with a beautiful girlfriend? Betabux obviously, she's with him because she hit the wall or to use him. His theory is bulletproof and even if you prove him wrong he'll tell you that it's an outlier. Meanwhile, when he's at home he spends hours measuring his mandible gonial angle with a protractor to confirm his Chadiness, and when he goes out, he wears shoe lifts, his calves are on fire, but he still has the charisma of a loaf of bread and cannot cold approach a woman to save his life. Experimenting with something? No way, he doesn't want to incur the cost of that.
I'll stop here, I was gonna add more points and draw a redpiller parallel situation but my writing is shitty today. Structure and ideas didn't come out well but the general idea is there.
I hope it helps your judgment when you read posts here.
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It's very difficult to grasp, especially when you're going out with a goal in mind.
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I don't know why people are downvoting you. What you say is the truth.
You can act like you have high SMV and do a bunch of tricks to try to project that image = Game
Or you can actually have high SMV and not need to do lame PUA tricks
You actually built your SMV. People on here tend to think that phrases and mindset are all that matters, but really that is probably about 10% of getting and holding a woman. Having an alpha mindset and projecting big dick energy when you actually have a small dick and small bank account, is sadly not going to work long-term.
Social proof and the other tricks, those again are temporary. After the first lay the women are going to start to figure out you're full of shit.
So game/seduction/PUA tactics really are not the end all, be all. So many people seem to be missing what you're saying but what you're saying is the truth
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I consider persuasion as a must-have skill and admire charismatic people. I don't feel like it cheapens me but I agree that PUA went waaaaaaaay overboard to clown world instead of focusing on becoming and having strong values.
But I won't shit on them because it was a step and now we are here with TRP.
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Very few people on TRP have impressive physiques (I think like 3 or 4) and none of them had problems with women before developing their physiques.
I've seen your photos and you don't look like you lift.
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The one with the yellow shirt. I can promise you no woman was ever attracted to you because of your muscles, so maybe don't be sending other guys to the gym like you know what you're talking about. You're doing them a disservice by making implicit promises the gym can't keep. Get some firsthand experience as a jacked dude and then feel free to dispense advice.
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My mistake then, I must have mixed you up with someone else.
In any case, at 80kg press you don't have experience as a jacked guy but when non-lifters see your post they think gym is the answer because you said so.
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I'm not knocking your achievement in the gym but your lack of experience as a jacked guy and lack of qualifications to give advice.
I'm a bit younger than you but I've been lifting for more than 15 years and I know hundreds of gym rats. I know absolute losers with no direction in life who have great physiques, I know type 1 successful and driven guys who have quit after a month, and every other combination of traits in between.
And I know that women don't care about muscles nearly as much as this sub believes they do. This comes from real world experience, both first hand and from what I could observe knowing hundreds of guys at every level of fitness.
So when you're telling guys to just go to the gym and not bother with game, that is contrary to my real life experience. And given that you're basically a beginner, I don't know where are you getting your ideas that going to the gym is so effective and how you have confidence to give advice as a beginner.
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My comment to you in that post was that it's not something you can change and to build your own community.
And I don't think women in the west consider black men less attractive just because some countries in Africa have a monkey-level society (which is also not entirely their fault).
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Shit like this
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