The REAL problem with MEN today...

bestsparkyalive · 2019-03-12T00:08:55+00:00

Tough to watch. Relatable.

PS2Errol · 2019-03-11T21:36:28+00:00

It is amazing that the guy won't even do a simple thing like just introducing himself to the girl. He defeats himself. Totally mentally destroyed.

sanos7 · 2019-03-11T21:48:37+00:00

You say you want it. You’re told how. You’re guided through it. And you don’t do it. Then ultimately you must not really want it at your core. Frustrating to watch.

That ability to pull the trigger, that’s key. It’s like jumping off a cliff. Your fear is telling you no, coming up with all the things that might go wrong. Gotta put all of that out of your mind, ignore it, act despite it and just fucking do it, let the chips fall as they may. Because you know if you don’t you’re a coward and you’ll live and die like one. Small. Insignificant. Disappointed with life and yourself.

Vikingcel · 2019-03-12T00:56:49+00:00

This is such a great advertisement

HumanSockPuppet · 2019-03-12T03:56:15+00:00

What are the REAL risks of approaching a woman? Rejection. Not a big deal.

Now consider this: if you're not willing to take a risk on women, where the risk is non-existent, what does that say about your willingness to take risks (and excel) in other parts of your life?

Bitches are just practice for the real shit.

Truedemocracy4 · 2019-03-12T02:18:52+00:00

It aint easing doing it especially on camera with another guy following you around. The dude is pretty damn good looking though and shouldnt have issues. He is 28 though and needs to dress like it instead of looking like Bart Simpson

RedDeadlift · 2019-03-12T02:17:31+00:00

Interesting YouTube channel. One of his other videos "FACT: Men Are Better Than Women (at Some Things)" is shocking. People are afraid to say that men are better at anything than women. He made a great point at the end.

https://youtu.be/oxpX6IQ3GY4

Our society is insane right now.

warlordchad · 2019-03-11T23:28:49+00:00

What the fuck???!!!

Guys this is why you get off the apps, delete social media if you can, and stay off the phone.

jonpe87 · 2019-03-11T22:34:39+00:00

For fear of failure, they fail for not to try. And this is worst than fail for have tried.

Happyhour5 · 2019-03-12T01:08:35+00:00

Lol I see why he only meets chicks thru friends and apps

redpillschool · 2019-03-12T17:35:15+00:00

While the content isn't bad per se, we don't like drive-by posters looking to for subscriber grabs.

If you want to post here you must also engage the community.

GayLubeOil · 2019-03-12T03:36:23+00:00

Given your posting history I'm going to assume that you are the channel creator and that this is your attempt to formally engage with this community.

There are two lenses that we can view the situation from.

Supply Side Economics: men arnt being laid because they display passive beta male behavior. If the supply of masculine men increased then presumably the amount of sex would increase. From what I can tell this is your argument.

Demand Side Economics: the demand for sex is at an all-time low. This is because of a confluence of factors including: Shit Economy, Anti Male Culture, Higher percentage unfuckable fatties, Shifting demographics and aging population. Yes it still is possible to get laid however the (time) cost benefit ratio has taken a sharp sharp dive. In my model the most cost effective thing to do is move to a market (south American) which has higher demand.

So the argument can be reduced to: do we build a better piano or sell pianos to people who actually want to buy pianos?

flapjacksrbetter · 2019-03-12T01:09:32+00:00

Fuck this is me to a tee. I got the knowledge but I still need to apply it. Cant even approach cute girls at my college of fair of being “awkward.” I know I just have to do it once to get the snowball rolling

prokedude · 2019-03-12T04:24:07+00:00

This guy seems pretty legit. Cool, calm, collective, engaging, challenging, but overall uplifting. I think the #1 most important trait of a TRUE alpha is the ability to lead while empowering others...

TheStumblingWolf · 2019-03-12T09:20:31+00:00

It's not even just with women. What Sasha says applies to men in general. We don't trust our instincts and go for the things we want because we're told by society it's wrong and that it's toxic.

RightHandWolf · 2019-03-12T03:27:25+00:00

Ouch! The aura of betaness was just overpowering. 28 and just out of grad school, according to the video, so maybe he doesn't have enough time in the real world to get a handle on it.

1) Clothing is wrong. He looks like he's heading to the skateboard park. Unless he wants a skater chick or a goth girl, he needs to be dressed at least business casual. No second chance to make a first impression, as the saying goes.

2) He seemed incredibly uncomfortable talking to the host and looked like he felt very out of place - and if he's that awkward with nothing in play, he must really fall apart if there's anything to strive for.

3) If you keep doing what you've always done, you're gonna keep on getting what you always got. That's a saying from AA, but you don't have to have that kind of a problem to benefit from this advice. If you're not happy, either lower your expectations or ramp up your efforts. If you're subscribed to this sub, you've probably gotten tired of lowering your expectations.

4) This wasn't some small town in the Midwest or the Deep South . . . this was New York! The big bad city offers a huge amount of anonymity by virtue of the sheer number of people.

5) This last bit is from General George S. Patton: A good plan, violently executed right now, is better than a perfect plan sometime next week.

redpillschool · 2019-03-14T14:34:59+00:00

Hey man- I take it that since you're not responding to me that you're only doing drive-bys as a subscriber grab.

Correct me if I'm wrong otherwise we're going to take action.

spnger4life · 2019-03-17T21:42:12+00:00

Shortcut: introduce yourself to grandma. If she reacts good, point at her and say is this your daughter? She laughs. You tell grandma "oh shes cute huh?" then go right up to her ignoring friend.

empatheticapathetic · 2019-03-12T01:17:19+00:00

Unless your self confidence, frame, and self belief is solid enough (assuming your looks aren't above average) this could easily end with some sort of 'harassment' situation if the girl gets a incongruent vibe from you.

If it goes well then great! If it doesn't go that well and she can easily attribute it to some unfavourable characteristic of yours, that will be enough for her to justify that it's harassment.

This guy wasn't ready for something like this. He's probably decent looking enough but he wasn't mentally there and considering attempting this in the current climate, something inside of him was telling him it could potentially go very bad.

It's actually easier to do something awkward or retarded on purpose because then if it doesn't go well, you can roll with it, and if any part of it goes well, that's a bonus. Kind of a cowards entry to approaching but who cares. Gives him enough plausible deniability until he at least gets a bit of confidence through some successful approaches.

ratpoison987 · 2019-03-11T22:39:16+00:00

Nobody tries because #metoo

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cupshadow · 2019-03-14T04:42:25+00:00

I don't like the approach of telling random girls you find them cute, you are qualifying yourself to them for free instead of showing value. And in today's culture, it's possible they interpret that as sexual harassment.

LightSkinKen · 2019-03-14T20:13:25+00:00

Your sub communication should speak” hey I was out and about , I saw you , of course I think you’re cute, you know exactly why I’m here and what I’m trying to do , I don’t know you , and you don’t know me , so let’s link and see if we like each other. IF “I” FIND YOU ACCEPTABLE YOULL GET LUCKY. that’s not hard to portray guys

throwlaca · 2019-03-26T01:52:28+00:00

He can't do it because internally he see girls as better than him. The trick is to think of girls like if they are a bag of flour that you need in the supermarket. Hey do you want to come home. No? ok, on to the next bag of flour.

Title	The REAL problem with MEN today...
Author	rynldn
Upvotes	111
Comments	72
Date	March 11, 2019 8:47 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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