What started your RP journey

Vermillion-Rx · 2024-02-22T23:01:17+00:00

Automod removed your post, though I think a lot of people would like to share their RP journey and show their progress/appreciation for RP so I've approved the post

Ordinary_Yam1866 · 2024-02-22T23:44:28+00:00

Got tired of my life going nowhere, of dates going nowhere, just spinning my gears in place. Combine it with the extra time at home everyone got in 2020 and 2021, and it was a gift from the heavens.

BecomingABetterMan1 · 2024-02-22T23:43:20+00:00

I was leaving the gym and saw a couple in their 60s arguing. Not like some normal disagreement or whatever, it was a full-on shit throwing fest (think Jerry Springer style).

Then they got in the car together and went on about life like that was normal.

In that moment, I realized I'd rather be fucking dead than put up with that shit for 40+ years. This was the first glitch I saw in the Matrix

Some months went by, and one day my wife was doing her usual nagging harpy routine. Picking fights over nothing and me just dealing with it like a Good Boy with no other options.

Except this time I thought to myself how is this any different than that couple in the parking lot? Fuck. I'm not happy, and I don't want my life to look like this. Another glitch detected

A few weeks pass as I sit and stew on this new revelation, unsure of what to do about it. *A bored harpy appears in my kitchen, pestering me with her raging emotional validation boner*

For years, my go-to response was to get angry and argue with logic because women are highly logical beings. This time, I did no such thing. The harpy hadn't yet realized that I'd grown tired of the games, tired of her bullshit. This time, I didn't care enough to argue with the nagging shrew. She grew more flustered at every failed attempt to get an emotional rise out of me, and yet I wasn't phased in the slightest. Okay, I lied. Beta Bux Good Boy was chubbing hard in the trousers as he finally discovered the ~~secret~~ forbidden weapon: not giving a fuck.

Her angry shrew level was over 9000 by the time she switched tactics to crying. Being the Nice Guy I was, I still felt bad that she was upset, but somewhere deep down - I knew it wasn't my fault. I had unintentionally discovered Fogging in my disengaged content. The shrew backed down from Shrew Saiyan 1 and became the sweet, loving, sexual woman I'd not seen in years of marriage. Matrix on the verge of collapse.

Beta Boy me thought he had uncovered the answers to life, women, and happiness. He told a bitch "no" and discovered she got wet.

Then he fucked it up because he was getting laid more than once a week for the first time in years.

Eventually I made it here and have been Red Pilling on hard mode for some 8 months. I'm not where I want to be yet, but I'm well on my way. Life may not have the rose-colored tint it had before, but I'm finally situated to get what I want out of life.

Thank you, Red Pill.

ShrekthCharge · 2024-02-23T01:23:57+00:00

I came across an interview of Rollo Tomassi. He explained the basics so well in that interview and the whole time I was thinking, “woah I’ve seen that happen” or “that happened with this chick”.

I looked everything up and realized this realization I had has a name and it goes pretty deep.

Ritik_reddit · 2024-02-23T02:49:19+00:00

Broke up with a girl, and being a beta bp guy, I was mourning like a dumb ass. Listening to sad songs and asking questions like why is this happening with a good boy like me? Then I came across a video on YouTube of 9 Iron Rules of Tommasi, I was surprised to know that I was making every mistake the video talked about. After that, I read the whole book, subscribed to some RP YouTubers, researched a bit about this topic, and gained additional knowledge. I still am learning about females and their behavior, but the biggest lesson that the Red Pill has taught me is to focus on your goals and be productive.

CyberXydra11 · 2024-02-23T00:22:53+00:00

Few years ago I was chilling with my older neighbour friend, having discussion about life while smoking weed and drinking. I was having girlfriend at the moment and she treated me like shit. At time we were 6 months together with no sex, arguing three times a day, cheated on me once and all that kinda stuff.

Being beta male at that time I always forgave her and tried to find a way to please her, so she won't be mad and miss me with all that arguing thing.

I told him everything. We were talking about her, even let him text her in my name trying to fix some things. She got mad. In one moment, I was crying thinking she would leave me for good. And that's when his friend came.

I told him everything. He smiled, showed me TRP, talking about how he understands me and that there is a way to save our relationship, to ignore her until she starts treating me like a man and to apologise.

At first, it didn't made any sense. I believed she wasn't capable of that. Then I started noticing the first glitch. After few days she came with her senses and started apologising for her behaviour and going too far that she came uninvited to my house to suck me.

Then I felt that I have power. I started to read more sidebar, to read other people experiences, and slowly to build myself. It was very hard at first, I couldn't keep my frame and few months later we broke up.

Later that year, I came to another city to study, lost my virginity, enjoyed my time "studying" with other girls, started to train, completly stopped drinking, smoking weed etc.

Right now, I'm finishing college, being best student in my class, while working in my field. I'm thinking about going PhD in that field too.

My mom met her last year in my hometown, talking about how she will get married soon (F20) and how she is happy and even asked about me.

pacey130 · 2024-02-23T00:41:04+00:00

My second journey has only recently begun. Swallowing the pill years ago, it originally led me to a life of joy and eventually a relationship, which also happened to be with a feminist. Four years later, that relationship crumbled due to continued disagreements on a monthly, then weekly, then daily basis. After being continually told off, being told she has to be ‘strict’ on me, and being spoken down to, I asked my first love what she had done wrong in this relationship, and her answer was absolutely nothing. At that moment, filled with internal rage, I realized I would not be able to continue. This led to some of my heaviest days.

Entering the relationship as a very independent and fit person, I certainly lost myself during this period of my life. While I was not thinking about the RP at the time, my natural instincts kicked in. All the energy from the emotion and anger was transferred into the gym over the next year, and I now stand here with the best physique I have ever had. During this process, I cut out most distractions and focused entirely on myself. It was liberating, but my game suffered as a result of taking a lonely road for one year, which has led me back to the red pill.

Now two weeks after cutting off a girl with a mild case of oneitis, I am in the process of obtaining the abundance mindset and improving my game again. Whenever I go out, I can pull, but I was continually shooting myself in the foot with blue-pilled behavior. Straight up, I had a 9/10 leave the bar and come back to approach me, and I was still fumbling the bag. It happened again recently, which made me realize I need to improve, so improvement is what I will do.

An ongoing strained relationship with my family, outgrowing some close friends, and being ambitious with my career complicates the process, but I will get to where I want to be one day.

viola_bone · 2024-02-22T23:19:13+00:00

I felt that most online discussion were being dominated by female standards.

It felt like masculinity was going to be extinct so I naturally tried to find a "place" where I could discuss about toxic gender standards without having to accept everything women does.

And then comes the Red Pill.

HereForaRefund · 2024-02-23T20:32:00+00:00

I know someone is going to read this and call me names, but I saw a bunch of women that will never be happy. Men fight like HELL to make a lot of unappreciating women happy. Then it's a BUNCH of women with 3 kids, by three different men, saying that I with no kids, making $60k a year, and living with my parents (I have no kids, I can stay here, save money, and pay my parent's mortgage) am not good enough, call me a broke, short, momma's boy. I'm shamed for doing the very things that other cultures ENCOURAGE and would be absolutely PROUD to have. I was being shamed, SHAMED, for being a good son, a good brother, having friends, hobbies, no criminal record, not being a baby daddy, and not being divorced.

That pattern just made me check out.

meatball31522 · 2024-02-23T16:25:06+00:00

I can’t repeat it all, but basically 17 years of being unhappily married. The more i tried to improve the marriage the worse things got. I posted my story on Talkaboutmarriage.com a few people mentioned a book called No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr Robert Glover.

That book saved my life. And it led to Married Man’s Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay, How to Hold On to Your NUTS, Rollo Thomasi, trp, marriedredpill, The Game, Models, and others

I’ve been doing this since August 2020.

We are ADDICTS. We can be “recovering” but never “recovered”. The Blue Pill indoctrination goes too deep to ever completely eliminate from your soul. I’ve been through the Anger Phase probably a dozen times.

Welcome to the struggle Brother

Fire_Stoic14 · 2024-02-23T01:40:22+00:00

I’ve always felt something was wrong. Like really really wrong. With my surroundings, how the media portrayed men, how it’s acceptable to exploit men but not the other way around, etc etc. I wanted to know more and more, search online and eventually found this subreddit and follow other RP content creators. It’s like that missing void was solved in my life.

_do_not_read_this_ · 2024-02-24T14:28:20+00:00

Got out of an 8 year LTR., after an 18 year marriage, that's 26 years with only two people. Hadn't "dated" since college when I could just fall into relationshps without trying. Decided I knew nothing about dating and getting laid.

literally just an internet search for "how to be a better man"

Now I've set my priorities straight and am much more satisfied with the life I've built

fitness/health
mission
my dog
earning
relationships

in that order

mrone667 · 2024-02-22T23:48:50+00:00

I'm 18 so I'm only in the beginning of my journey. It all started with me questioning the reality of things especially religion, ideologies and social relations dynamics that I grew up in. Imagine that I even had an existential crisis at age 15 hilarious isn't it ? But for me that shit was a pain in the ass. I'm from a shit hole 3rd world Muslim country (I'm currently agnostic btw). So despite that wokism/feminism did a great job brainwashing people here Islam (which is a pretty redpilled doctrine) has succeeded to transmute some of the somewhat redpill ideas to me. Media in my country is overly filled with blue pill propaganda shit, and that always disgusted me. In addition l lacked man only spaces since I was a kid lol. After heavy internet usage XD, I found out about The red pill from a local man only Facebook group. And finally I found somewhere to belong to. Since then everything made sense all the interactions I had with females finally made sense. I loved redpill cause it's mainly based on evolutionary psychology also that coincide with my love of biology and my curiosity for knowing how things work in this world . (Broken English it's my fourth language)

b2daoni · 2024-02-24T00:50:26+00:00

Thought my ex was cheating, so literally googled 'how to know your gf is cheating'. Maybe 5 or 6 results down the page, was u/trp. Interested I clicked the post, saw the sidebar, started reading and realizing holy shit, this trp is like 99% true when I line up theory and and real world examples. Realized my ex was an alpha widow too. Broke up with her few months later and I've been chasing purpose ever since. I stay checking the subreddit bc it has actually shown me real world examples about guys trying to improve their lives. I feel less anxious about women now in general and truly try to live with the abundance mentality and outcome independence. Shit is real. Thank you TRP!

Real shit I'd be in a much worse place than where I am now.

Hungry-Current-2807 · 2024-02-23T08:18:53+00:00

IRL high school, not getting all the girls i wanted. The guys with more status/personality getting the 10/10s. College multiplied it.

People will say it's "just high school," but it really is a somewhat accurate microcosm for adulthood. And i think it shapes most peoples worldview.

TD5991 · 2024-02-23T21:24:00+00:00

Howdy!

I am from Mexico, 28M, MD recently graduated. What started my journey: Since 2012 I had been following Alex Jones of Infowars, and in between the wacky shit that he kept saying I heard that there was a war on men; so I dug deeper on the web and I found out about TRP documentary; and that thing led to another and I ended up being an active member of the community ever since 2017 I presume. Initial stages: Not that hard, I saw first hand during my studies just how cruel the dating market really is. How has my life improved: Perhaps a lot; I have not focused on daitng as much as I should have because I was abosrbed by my studies/other hobbies/bettering myself; I enjoy my solitude, but I have learned enough to tame down my autism(I do have Asperger's) and have normal conversations.

PlantNutrient · 2024-02-25T08:47:35+00:00

I dated a very attractive and popular girl for two years and didn't get laid from 16-18. We... tried to fool around but it was extremely awkward and uncomfortable, I tried fingering her once and she stopped me and I was so stressed I cried right there. It was humiliating and I spent time looking on reddit for what I was doing wrong. I ended up finding seduction reddits and videos, which quickly led to this subreddit. I broke up with her because I decided sex was important to me, and that a combination of me fucking it up with her, and not believing she was onboard led to me breaking up with her stating that we were sexually incompatible, she got mad at me for only wanting sex, I retorted that "If that were the case, why did I stay with you for two years without it?". She ended up fucking two different guys from her workplace months later. So I'm sure you can see why I got angry, and privately full committed to TRP for the next five years, to great success.

Sure this is a contentious space, but man did it give me the kickstart to a successful life doing everything I really set out to accomplish so far. Plus, even though it wasn't the "sole" motivation as time went on, I had sex with 23 different women, and hooked up with a dozen more, within 2.5 years at a big college with only *some* of those beingone night stands. There was a point where I fucked three women in one weekend, with two dates on the same day. This was before settling down with a younger women who is exactly my type, exotic, sexually compatible and endlessly helps me improve myself further, while joining me side by side. It's taken way more than just TRP, but it was the fuse that lit an extremely ANGER fueled manic phase for years that skyrocketed me to great heights. God how I wish I could have that unending raw motivation again, but you learn to adapt in other ways as you get older.

Ragnardanneskjunior · 2024-02-25T21:27:29+00:00

Watching my mom destroy my father's mental health and give zero fucks. Mom attempting to turn me into a momma's boy and the poison did not take, thankfully. Growing up in a church where women were allowed into leadership and watching the destruction that it wreaked on the families. Being emasculated by me ex wife and lied to constantly only to later find out how she was just trying to break me and limit my progress out of her own insecurities and rebellion against our shared faith. In particular my ex waited until she was pregnant with my son to tell me she cheated on me while we were only dating and she had lied about the entire thing to make herself seem more loyal at the time. I was a blue pill alpha and I got plenty of female attention but I was passive when it came to going for what I wanted with women.

Now my life is the inverse. I am pretty average financially but I am physically elite, well read, and have serious game. I have flipped the script entirely. I save my money for my hobbies and investments and have women to pay my bills, including child support. I have basically adopted a woman's opportunism strategy but I have been completely honest about it is the kicker. From the get go I tell them it is my way or the highway and then I show them that I mean it because they will inevitably witness me kicking another woman to the curb for one thing or another. The good thing is that the goal post for satisfaction does indeed move further and further away and I now care less about women or really even sex because it is available whenever I want it. I have taken on a higher mission while also preserving my shot at financial freedom. I am grateful to TRP and MRP for providing me with tools to decide my own fate and take the power away from the women in my life and from the matrix at large. Becoming the man that a woman will warn her friends about only to have them hitting you up is a look behind the curtain. I recommend any young man that reads this does not try to emulate what I have done because being dark triad is not all it is cracked up to be and you can really break people. Do it right from the time you are young and before you commit to or even really engage in sex with any woman you make damn sure they are going to be downright obedient by testing them relentlessly and making them serve your interests at their own expense.

BonjourComeBack · 2024-02-23T02:38:18+00:00

I stumble upon it by accident. Dig a lot, ready the sidebare but not Really doing. Because excuses and overthinking (which IS steroids for finding excuses).

Start implementing FSS this year : FSS= Fucking stupid simple.

My workout are simple : squat, and deadlift. 5*5.

My action for jobs : find 2-3 task to do for m'y job AT the day

Seduction : going to bar and simply chating with everyone. When finding a girl cute, taking to her, teasing and Always pressure flip the accusation (or agréé and amplify) and Kino...no more complicated.

AT first i was puzzled. I am probably on the spectrum so knowing ppl have a challenge. Theorical lenght helped me. Same for the mindset of taking accountabilty for one's action. Hard when you are Always told your choice are Bad and are excluded from group of ppl....But work in progress.

I Can see when a shit test IS thown AT and decide if i want to pass or not (Friend or not yes WE Can be Friend if there IS no attraction)

flexingtonsteele · 2024-02-23T04:14:24+00:00

My first breakup and began reading Return of king articles

Librathrow · 2024-02-23T16:13:35+00:00

Was on vacation and got rejected quite a few times due to being out of shape. So started getting in the gym and much later noticed that for 9 out of 10 girls that were interested, they had boyfriends or husbands which was very triggering until I learned that's just how it is. Came to conclusion that women only value muscle or money.

Was looking for a book that supported my thoughts on that and found The Rationale Male, which said holy trifecta was money, muscle and game. So been improving my game since.

Still a long way to go, and I'm trying to get my life together but what I've learned so far and used, I have had the taste of success from the red pill.

But now, woman are only a complement to the awesome life I'm building. Not my main focus.

Tombert_Williams · 2024-02-23T20:55:25+00:00

Even though he has never identified as such to my knowledge, I feel like my introduction to the Red Pill was Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power. It was the first example that I was aware of where someone just cut the bullshit and tried to tell it like it was. In the years after, I consumed various Manosphere content that somehow led me to Rollo's blog.

MandingoMaasai · 2024-02-25T05:03:08+00:00

My bestfriend led me here back in 2017. He was fat and dressed like shit. Women, as a result, treated him like shit. His brother is a Tyrone and so am I. We're both naturals and chaotic types but we got the girls. And when we'd tag him along, everyone would get a girl but him. He never could understand why he, the nice guy, got rejected and often times, disparragingly so. So he decided to Google why it was he never got any action. That led him to illimitablemen's "50 shades of red" and "50 shades redder". Sent it to his brother and I. His brother rejected it because he was already living the dream. I read it because I like and respect the guy (he's actually pretty intelligent). That led me down a rabbit hole and led me to understand why, though I could sleep with women (especially those in relationships), I never could get girls to stay and take me seriously for a relationship. And when they did, why they always seemed to get bored after "domesticating" me. Started lifting. Stopped worshipping sex and general degeneracy. Made myself the central focus: less in an chaotic, pleasure seeking sense and more in an "enlightened selfishness" way. Stopped focusing on immediate gratification basically. My friend eventually went the religious, tradcon route. We're still bestfriends to this day even as I continue on my RP path.

ihih_reddit · 2024-02-23T07:07:43+00:00

Self improvement and life being (objectively) meaningless really

bakedrasta · 2024-02-23T21:29:54+00:00

Aproach anxiety

BlocknGhost · 2024-02-23T02:37:49+00:00

Making observations on the world around me and looking for answers/consensus.

swimmingatlakecresva · 2024-02-23T12:05:59+00:00

Broke up with a first gf and was devastated

bloodstone99 · 2024-02-23T13:36:32+00:00

In 2016 I was desperately trying to find content on Interviews and I landed on Corporate Land threads. Read for 24/7 content on Corporate Rat and I've been killing it since. Im talking about double pay, rise here and there and my persona had greatly improved in the professional world.

MrNotSoSerious · 2024-02-23T13:57:14+00:00

If anyone is looking at this, I need a mentor. At least someone with experience to talk to. Because besides all the misleading posts in this sub of recent times and the classic side-bar, I have a lot of specific issues that I face for my country and culture. These things are stifling my progress and making me get stuck on plateaus.

Responsible_Onion_21 · 2024-02-23T18:26:57+00:00

I had a girlfriend who was really into RP in middle school. Been roleplaying ever since.

ZayaFTW · 2024-02-28T22:08:44+00:00

TL;DR got cucked super hard at 17-18 and I just remember thinking over and over: Never again. That will never happen to me again.

From there I sought out dating books, found "Coach Corey Wayne" and then the Red Pill community after him, which got me in to self improvement, and self education.

Paid the price with my soul and sanity if there were any there left after getting cucked.

Title	What started your RP journey
Author	pacey130
Upvotes	43
Comments	52
Date	February 22, 2024 10:17 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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