Discontented dame discovers dissatisfactory dalliance doesn't do decently - divorce doomed duo, debauchery destined damsel

Impressive-Cricket-8 · 2022-01-16T19:09:28+00:00

If she doesn't find you attractive, if she doesn't yearn for you, if she's too prudish, if she's just "not sexual", if she refuses to do the one-legged kangaroo, the paraguaian butterfly, the italian chandelier... Bail. She didn't become "closed off due to past history", she simply finds you repulsive. She'll dictate how and when you can touch her, and you better have been on your best behaviour throughout the last year, or she'll spark some discussion right after dinner about how you got her the wrong caramel soy latte last halloween. Oh, have I mentioned that dinner is mandatory? With a nice bottle of wine - enough so she won't dry heave when you touch her, but not too much or she'll claim to be unable to consent.

And if she ever uses the words "open relationship" in a sentence, run to the hills. Run for your lives. That's womanese for "I want to sleep around like my single friends, but have a roof over my head and the bills payed for without much effort like my married friends".

Edit: fucking keyboard. Yes, I'm going with that one.

gfgdhj5784yu8 · 2022-01-16T19:19:11+00:00

This is the result of having too easy of a life. She has nothing to worry about, too much free time and sits around all day with a microscope on her poor unsuspecting spouse. This is his reward for giving her all she wants and creating a easy comfortable existence for her.

I blame life being way too easy today for most of society's problems.

thisisnotyourconcern · 2022-01-16T20:26:38+00:00

I can't help but notice a lot of you have missed the future medical issues here.

She's having her breasts and ovaries removed in about five years (which, by the way, is fucking tragic - no hate for that). Does she seriously think any good quality guy is going to want to be stuck with three dogs potentially, two children who aren't his, pleasuring a woman without breasts?

I mean, learn to think with something else other than your vagina, lady. This relationship is by the far the best thing she could hope for. Throwing it away on a limb is foolish.

Throwaway90618 · 2022-01-16T19:31:47+00:00

Women will pressure you in their late 20s to propose to them because they have a need to pro create. Once that is completed it doesn't matter. They know they get the kids and the house. The media even promotes this notion and makes jokes about it. Men hold no leverage. She knows this. She has the kids now its back to the tingles.

MelkorHimself · 2022-01-16T19:56:12+00:00

As someone in the lifestyle I see stuff like this happen all the time. Couples who attempt to open their relationship or marriage after the fact almost always fail. Either start open or don't do it.

Goldmansachs3030 · 2022-01-16T19:25:33+00:00

Then yes go away, SHHHHOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! . Just do not take away the guys home, money, kids and tell me this, what in the fucking fuck , has sex become so important to you that you will destroy everything? Does Western women even think about old age, or, it is just 20==30==40 where you think you can live on and on. Men also settle, but the average man knows loyalty is a thing at the top of list. You can be Bezos, dancin' in money and still feel like a POS if loyalty is not there. Women have "hawt" on the top, ofc then get pumped and dumped, atleast it leaves a sign that this woman ain't loyal. Settled, how do you not know the guys settled for you too?

And which guy would let you walk over himself by going to these therapy's? Your chad will not. This, your current guy, is. Therapy wont work bcz you already have a mindset, its just so you can convince yourself that you do not like him.

You want respectable men, they do not come from couples having open relationship or single mothers banging guys every other day, it just cheapens the women gender in their mind and creates menace in society then and its your fault.You are destroying childhoods.Shitty bitch.Man i hate anyone who sympathises with them. Just fuck off, run away. YOLO,FOMO, whatever, bail out with your chad. Leave that home with the least possible damage.

NetherIndy · 2022-01-16T21:36:43+00:00

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silly_birb_Banned · 2022-01-16T20:19:46+00:00

Blupilled men suffer from prpstitution being illegal, otherwise they will compare prices.

Just think that the first thing women did with their vote was making prostitution illegal instead of asking for equal pay or maternity leave.

PhantasyBoy · 2022-01-16T20:06:33+00:00

The final sentence alone, means she will have an even worse time than the other geniuses who leave their husbands for cock.

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2022-01-16T21:57:55+00:00

I have seen people on the side... His rejection of me over time

What did she expect by opening the relationship one sided?

She's already nuked the relationship. The question is who and when is going to file for divorce.

The guy is repulsed by her already and six months without sex prove it. The guy is checked out, it's just a question of time when he or she pulls the divorce trigger. Children are involved which makes it complicated.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2022-01-17T00:44:02+00:00

Whenever somebody says they “settled”, what they mean to say is : I had higher aspirations, but I was forced to accept the best possible arrangement I could manage, which was not my preferred arrangement. That is what settling is, it’s a euphonious substitute for the fact that she wanted a Chad, but couldn’t get one. The fact that she feels accepting reality is a punishment shows her immaturity, everyday, people “settle” for houses, cars , educations and other things they can afford.

Fancuku · 2022-01-16T20:24:17+00:00

Agents of chaos.

kapriece · 2022-01-16T20:53:13+00:00

Men have civilized the world so good that they can complain about the good times. All I hear is gimme gimme gimme and I deserve like children.

HedgeRunner · 2022-01-16T22:33:39+00:00

What the fuck did I just read.

Seriously.

I have no words.

themostgianthorse · 2022-01-16T23:58:12+00:00

Asking for an open relationship is not a question. It is an announcement!

2022-01-17T00:17:33+00:00

This is a woman who has everything but failed to please her man. She's in the process of ruining it all and ending up alone. Pass the popcorn.

CarpAndTunnel · 2022-01-17T04:31:29+00:00

Ditch the bitch, keep the kids. Doesnt sound like she really cares about them anyways

Lameador · 2022-01-17T09:18:55+00:00

I hate some of the Disney toxic culture. What's wrong with settling ?

Everyone sorts of settles with his partner, and proceeds to build a strong 2 people team. There is literally nothing wrong with that. Except the whole process hollow out when your partner has a free option to monkey branch.

As USA lost its last wars in the Muslim World, and got its economic edge completely outmatched by China, it is unpleasant to see the kind of civilizationnal collapse triggered by withering family as an institution.

Cristoff13 · 2022-01-17T09:57:42+00:00

The reasoning I see online from women is:

Don't Settle. i.e. don't marry a man who doesn't generate intense sexual chemistry ("the butterflies", etc.). This will ultimately destroy you and leave you dead inside!

But isn't it rare to meet such a man? Not so! Provided you resist social pressure to Settle, your very own magic man is just around the corner!

But isn't it true that only good looking, unreliable bad boys generate The Butterflies? Not so! Any man could potentially generate The Butterflies. It is a very mysterious process. A short, quiet, nice guy could do it just as easily as a tall, exciting asshole.

But if you do find that its mostly or exclusively assholes who generate The Butterflies, it must mean you are damaged in some way. Its an incel lie that woman are naturally attracted to bad boys! Perhaps your mother didn't love you enough. You may have an "avoidant attachment style" (whatever that means). This can be easily fixed through therapy, so not to worry.

WINDEX_DRINKER · 2022-01-17T01:00:47+00:00

I hope he dumps her, and with her lopping off her only market values, lol good luck honey.

Bing_Bang_Bam · 2022-01-17T01:18:14+00:00

Removing her breasts and ovaries?!

Jeezus

king_of_the_potato_p · 2022-01-17T01:18:37+00:00

Divorce would be doing him a favor.

pfresh331 · 2022-01-17T06:28:00+00:00

Should she consider divorcing her husband? How tf has her husband not divorced her yet???

2022-01-16T20:03:05+00:00

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panzer22222 · 2022-01-17T09:41:06+00:00

OMG, she really thinks heaps of guys are going to want her once her tits are cut off?

Machomuk89 · 2022-01-16T20:39:41+00:00

Dirty fuckin' dangles Boyz.

That-One-Dude46 · 2022-01-21T16:28:45+00:00

That ladies husband is going to end up dumping at her lowest, and will move on quickly. Chances are he knows about everything, and is just waiting for the perfect chance to throw the Divorce nuke

Fine_Measurement7968 · 2022-02-21T15:13:59+00:00

I rather pay the 100k for a surrogate mother and raise the kid myself than marry a harpie like this and share custody.

loneliness-inc · 2022-01-16T22:11:28+00:00

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Discontented dame discovers dissatisfactory dalliance doesn't do decently - divorce doomed duo, debauchery destined damsel

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Title	Discontented dame discovers dissatisfactory dalliance doesn't do decently - divorce doomed duo, debauchery destined damsel
Author	Impressive-Cricket-8
Upvotes	260
Comments	124
Date	January 16, 2022 7:08 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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