Modern men are broken

Over_North8884 · 2024-03-29T13:24:46+00:00

But women rejecting men for being short or broke is "standards", not "insecurity".

gntlbastard · 2024-03-29T13:07:51+00:00

LOL....men are intimidated by

Mid 30's fat chick
Living out in the middle of nowhere
Earns 110K

TwizzlersSourz · 2024-03-29T13:28:14+00:00

She is either grotesquely overweight. (For 90% of men, that is a deal-breaker.)

Desperate with baby rabies and comes off as unhinged. (You know the type. Wants the ring. Needs the ring because her friend circle is all settling down, and she can't relate to conversations about husbands and babies. My spinster aunt has that issue.)

Picking men who aren't interested in the same end goal. (Some guys aren't interested in marriage and children. That doesn't make them broken.)

Profile photo deception (Using old photos, filters, angles, etc. Honesty is the bedrock of every relationship. If she is going to lie from the jumpstart, why commit? If I arrive at a date and she is 50 pounds heavier than advertised, no thanks. If a DVD player doesn't work, I return it.)

She could find someone, but she is fishing in the wrong ponds.

Ben-iND · 2024-03-29T13:22:04+00:00

"Maybe its me? Maybe something about my looks or personality? .... No i am awesome... Its these insecure men."

notthefuzz99 · 2024-03-29T14:07:30+00:00

She doesn't have youth or beauty on her side. Mid-30s means children are unlikely unless she already has some in tow. "Not fat" wins over "pretty face" almost every time. And in her mid 30s, the odds of losing and keeping off a significant amount of weight are very small.

The only real value she brings to a relationship is her income ($110K in the middle of nowhere is pretty good), so I guess she could be a sugar mama.

But this woman wouldn't even be on my radar. Has nothing to do with insecurity, she's simply invisible/uninteresting to most men.

Edit: Man, that "friend" is hilarious. "But... all that LAND!!!" As if guys are going to wife up a ham planet just to... uh... hunt?

gabriel-kornilov · 2024-03-29T15:53:38+00:00

TIL that not wanting to date a 35+ years old landwhale, even with a "pretty face", makes men "insecure"....Good! So be it.

gulpugo · 2024-03-29T14:24:58+00:00

Becomes a lesbian and realizes, no takers there too

Delifier · 2024-03-29T15:26:38+00:00

If she’s fat she needs to be at least pleasant to be around. She might have been okish on a first date, but if she doesnt improve or yaps on about your income, we might have a problem.

Futureman999 · 2024-03-29T16:03:50+00:00

She should find a 50 year old bald fat dude who makes about the same amount and hasn't had kids yet but is open to it, and doesn't mind living in her broken down hundred year old possum-infested farmhouse

Land_of_the_Losers · 2024-03-29T14:30:37+00:00

"Hey check-out those huuuuge tracts of land..."

...haha, these jokes are almost getting too easy for a drunk person to make...

TenuousOgre · 2024-03-29T16:24:42+00:00

“I feel” = the immediate reaction to anything. Why they choose the least reliable, most changeable, and most reactionary mental process as their god to baffles me.

“Men are insecure “men are to blame” “patriarchy” “misogynist” = turn to external sources for blame because accepting responsibility for both choices and circumstances is too difficult?

Why is the internal, reflection step never important? Because it leads to the accepting responsibility and changing yourself step and when all your life you're “special, beautiful, brave, empowered” then nothing is ever wrong with you.

Siddyf · 2024-03-29T18:16:45+00:00

If modern wamynz would put all their negative emotional state to lobby the FDA into going after the companies that put all this awful garbage into the food they eat, they would have less problems finding men to fuck and wife them up into families.

Cristoff13 · 2024-03-29T23:05:19+00:00

As overweight and insufferable as she might be, she could still find plenty of men. But she demands a man who earns at least as much as her. Women generally can't stand being in committed relationships with men who earn less.

She also demands a man she's attracted to. Fair enough, except she fails to realize she's only attracted to objectively handsome men.

Valuable_Following_2 · 2024-03-30T00:00:39+00:00

Modern men are broken = I'm mad men's standards are increasing by the day and that more and more men are not tolerating my BS.

Brilliant_Eagle9795 · 2024-03-29T21:12:02+00:00

Is that what you tell the fatasses 🤔

New_Wrangler3335 · 2024-03-30T01:10:48+00:00

I don’t wanna date you cuz you’re fat and physically unattractive with a horridly toxic personality

I’m the most insecure man alive

Joaquino7997 · 2024-03-30T09:01:27+00:00

Maybe it's not her.

Maybe it's Maybelline.

Maybe it's mayonnaise.

SceneAccomplished549 · 2024-03-30T05:19:43+00:00

Somehow it's ALWAYS Men's fault... just go to the gym for goodness sake.

rb5775 · 2024-03-29T14:59:34+00:00

"She's losing..." yeah. Like Oprah. . One pregnancy and .....

Mein_Tarnaccount · 2024-03-30T10:18:44+00:00

I haven't seen her, obviously, but I promise you she does not have a pretty face. She probably just looks all shiny because the increasing fat keeps her skin stretched.

poorproxuaf · 2024-03-30T10:42:20+00:00

"110k a year, huge property"

Why would I date a man? I'm not gay lmao.

But if I had to be gay, I'd rather date a real man than a woman trying to act like a man.

DrDog09 · 2024-03-30T15:37:21+00:00

Men are not impressed with money from a woman because they know two things:

When she is granted motherhood her income stream will cease to exist. Fact in most societies on this planet, including ours, that is a good thing. She should be focused on the kids, not being a boss babe, attempting to be Bezos.
American women have followed the rule "what is his is mine, what's is mine is mine". Regardless of their high and mighty pontifications of 50/50 in their hearts its 90/10 at best.

Personally I apply the rule to men too. I would be more impressed beating or losing to Trump at golf than the fact he is worth $6.5Bn. Its an even playing field and all the players face the same challenge to their skills.

Scantraxx12 · 2024-03-29T15:05:41+00:00

It’s a shetshow in the other Reddit dating/marriage groups. Always a simp 1 foot away.

EducatorDelicious126 · 2024-03-31T17:28:51+00:00

But some of us still prevail

Lopsided-Bench-1347 · 2024-04-04T11:52:48+00:00

I’m smarter than you, independent, more educated than you, more successful than you and make way more than you do! Why are you insecure?

Lopsided-Bench-1347 · 2024-04-04T12:09:45+00:00

Yep! Broken by modern, liberated, independent, entitled carrousel riders incapable of pulling their own weight.

Title	Modern men are broken
Author	polishknightusa
Upvotes	144
Comments	61
Date	March 29, 2024 1:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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