Covert Contracts and STFU

SBIII · 2019-06-26T17:15:27+00:00

When you have a retarded question and you expect people to take you seriously, that's a covert contract.

When you STFU, no one realises that you are retarded.

When in doubt, STFU.

helaughsinhidden · 2019-06-26T18:16:42+00:00

CC is covered pretty well and I assume you get it from the books, so let's open up the STFU a bit. This can be a little more nuanced.

Your woman will shit test you. When you receive the disrespect, your default blue pill feeling pushes you to act by addressing it right away. Maybe you say something sarcastic, maybe you scold her and tell her not to talk that way, possibly you go full hulk and body slam her from the top turn buckle. None of those is recommended.

STFU is simply not showing a reaction to her shit test.

You don't get butthurt, you don't correct her, you don't pout or cry, you don't become defensive or explain yourself, and you definitely don't use a chokehold. You let her little comment slide off of you like a drop of water off of the feathers of a duck. Then you exit to let the hamster do all the talking for you.

It will tell her things like:

"Why isn't he groveling?"
"How can he just walk out on me?
"I am mad, why is he so confident?"
"What does he know that I don't?"
"Does he think he can replace me?"
"Is there already another woman?"
"This worked on my last boyfriend, why not him?"
"He treated me like I was a little kid....... was I acting childish?"
"Where did he go?"
"When is he coming back?"
"Is he coming back?"
"What was in his gym back he took with?"

Then you return in a reasonable time and act as if it never happened and you sincerely didn't even care that she got her little feelings all worked up. Sometimes 15 minutes, sometimes 2 hours to go to the gym. You don't stop talking completely though. When you return, you have your full frame intact and you don't bring it up because you aren't upset at all. Keeping the STFU going for an extended time or for days on end is called STONEWALLING. SW is petty, bitter, weak and worst of all, kills her good feelz. Only do this if you are actually trying to make her break it off and GTFO.

LaimbeerAdvocate · 2019-06-26T15:56:53+00:00

Don't do stuff for other people that you don't want to do while expecting them to repay you. STFU. Done.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-06-26T15:58:57+00:00

Its when you make a deal In your head that they dont know about.

Like "I'm going to start this MRP journey and my wife is going to want to fuck me".

Then when that dosent happen in 4 days you get butthurt, act butthurt, and punish your wife with your presence, because she isnt holding up her end of the contract.

You lifted, shes not fucking.

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Here, faggot, make some cranberry sauce and let the man himself pour wisdom Into your ear pussy

CrazyLegs78 · 2019-06-26T17:13:05+00:00

Not sure why you view them as contradictory. Unless you are thinking of making your covert contracts overt by talking about them!

At first, STFU is intended to be damage control until you have mastered several of the basics. Don't know how to avoid,identify, or handle a shit test? You better STFU! Comfort test? You better STFU! Want to avoid blowing up a 10yr marriage that could potentially be awesome because you "learnt not to take no shit from nobody on the interwebs?" You better STFU!

Once you piss excellence, talking doesn't matter that much. You have shown others what you want/expect out of daily life. If your girl wants to spend any time with her now high value man, she will help make sure your wants/expectations are met. Beyond the daily is all your problem. Also, at least I've noticed, when you speak less, what you say gets heard.

Sepean · 2019-06-27T05:18:39+00:00

Covert contracts is shit like “if I give her a fancy handbag she’ll give me a blowjob”, that she didn’t know about and didn’t agree to. Then when you don’t get a blowjob, you’re bitter and angry.

In a more general sense, the whole “she’ll love me and give me great sex if I provide for her and love her” is a covert contract.

It doesn’t work. And if you try to talk about it and she agrees to it, that’s covered under you can’t negotiate attraction. Doesn’t work either.

STFU coveres a few things. First, stop gushing out your feelings, fears, plans, yadda yadda. Second, it’s an easy way to pass shit tests instead of DEERing.

CaliEd256 · 2019-06-27T16:47:05+00:00

STFU applies to you and your wife.

This is more like a tribe, where you can share your fuckups and it doesn’t matter (beyond everyone calling you a faggot of course).

Steve_rebooting · 2019-06-26T17:28:05+00:00

Overt contract is when you are direct -> "I am going to supply you XXX and you will pay me YYY"

Covert contract is "Hopefully he will pay me YYY if i surprise him/her with XXX"

STFU is not gushing your emotional thoughts onto someone

You do not understand one of the two if you think they are contradicting. They aren't even related

SelectAirline · 2019-06-26T17:47:02+00:00

The difference is in expectations.

"If I stay cool and display a bunch of DHVs, my wife will fuck me more" - covert contract

"Engaging her silly argument is pointless, so I'm not going to take the bait" - STFU

Title	Covert Contracts and STFU
Author	88Tyler
Upvotes	11
Comments	32
Date	June 26, 2019 3:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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