Following my last oys, Horns of Apathy gave me some advice

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/paj7qe/comment/ha8phfe/

I misinterpreted his advice, and went Rambo with it. I was having a hard time understanding his further advice. I think I understand the message now, correct me if I'm still wrong:

-Don't offer the wife needy unnecessary cuddles or affection.

-Do give it when she comes to me for affection, quickly, then go continue doing my shit.

-When she's being shitty, don't give attention/affection, let her come to me for it, initiate if I want to, then give her her cuddles.

Also I need to constantly game my wife, ass slaps, sudden kisses, touch, something with sexual energy, and then leave to continue doing my shit.

2 questions. Is my current interpretation correct?

How to differentiate between good Kino and needy Kino? After a week of sexual denials, I feel sexually needy and it comes off in my touch.