This is for intermediate guys who can't seem to shake the anger phase, on the tail end of the dancing monkey improvement program. It's what I did to finally develop my mental point of origin. This is dynamite unless you have all your auxiliary SMV levels straight. It is a method to turn the incorrect dancing monkey mindset into living in your own frame.

By this point you should be physically attractive, have a good social life, most of your MAP in green, and yourself easily fun and flirty with other women, but still struggling with your wife, and still lacking a solid understanding of frame. A&A and amused mastery are concepts you understand mentally, but your usage of them is cringey. You are probably not genuinely fun at home, despite your attempts to fake it. You probably have a history of being a little high strung and always found yourself trying too hard to make people like you.

You probably find yourself angry or frustrated often, thinking you've done the work so why aren't you getting the results you want? It's because you're still haven't found your balls, you don't have the power and you know it, and you're angry that it's just not working for you like it is for other guys.

If you find yourself stuck at this stage, grinding day in day out, failing constantly, feeling anger and not knowing what to do about it, I suggest something that worked for me. Focus HARDER on the anger and frustration. Stop trying to fight it or suppress the anger and frustration. Go somewhere alone, let yourself get extremely worked up about your failure to succeed with your dancing monkey program. Look at the amount of time and effort you've put in to win your wife's approval. It's ridiculous, you've completely changed yourself and your wife STILL hasn't given you her pussy as a reward? How long are you going to do this? Fuck this. It's been long enough, she's not coming around for whatever reasons and it's time to get the life you want no matter what. Really let yourself surrender to the fact you failed, and that's ok, and accept its time to go out and get the life you want.

Something will happen. You will reach that point of idgaf that you need, not the anger idgaf but zen calm idgaf. You will understand that your anger was just a result of you feeling powerlessness all along. You will understand that you are now a free individual man in the world, with complete self reliance to make anything good that will happen, happen. It's all on you now. Your confidence and drive should skyrocket at this point, as you have just given yourself permission to have complete power over your situation in life. Congrats, you now have frame and mental point of origin. You don't give a shit about what your wife thinks, your coworkers, your friends, strangers, other women, guys on MRP. You will RELAX into your masculinity, because you've been overcompensating for it all these years and you just needed to fucking relax a bit. You'll notice you just feel happy and have fun, because the stress that was caused by feeling powerless in your situation is now gone

Idgaf means you're a fun driven dude who knows he can handle any problem that arises, therefore he has no problems. Life is good.

Wake yourself up daily to this message, and it will cement itself in place.

At this point, you will be able to finally uncover what it is you want out of life, and start making moves towards it. You are now the prize.

Footnote

A lot of guys seem to be misunderstanding the format of this post. I personally think if you don't get it, you're a retard, but at the end of the day we're all retards for being here in the first place. I will spell it out.

The beginning is written from the perspective of a dancing monkey, meant for him to identify with the incorrect mental models.

The middle is an approach used for a guy with the dancing monkey mindframe to break past this incorrect mental model.

The end is the new correct mindset.