Was going to format this with a nice outline with some back story of the relationship and events leading up to the night in question.

The important back story:

  • I live a very healthy lifestyle
  • ED and labido have been steadily deacreasing the past year
  • 8 days till I get to the doctor to get blood work done

So on to story time: Friday 4-6-18, my wifes friend was celebrating her birthday and I joined in the good time. Took my wife to a hipster bar for some fancy drinks and snacks before the birthday celebration, then moved on to the main venue. A great time was had by all, dinner and then drinks and dancing. Birthday girl kissed me on the lips when I told her we were leaving (she is wreak and wifes friend, and I am not any where near spinning plates)

So ubber home as that was the plan. I am tired, and the previously mentioned ED, but the wife wants to get busy... I try to diffuse the situation but she presses on. I say "not tonight", and she goes down on me. My junk doesnt fire up and she keeps asking questions like if I think she is sexy while trying to get me hard. I get up and say I'm done, this is where I fucked up. I had a shitty tone, but dont really care.

However I realized I was trapped, I had to much to drink to drive away, and then here she comes. The wife is pissed and yelling, I fuck up and yell back for 30 seconds before saying I am done again and try to go to the basement.

This is where shit hits the fan. I know I drank too much which put me in a bad situation, and my wifes yelling made me lose my grasp on any frame... but I was walking away, yet she told me she was taking our daughter and getting away from me. This is where I told her if she was going to try and leave with our child I would call the police. Moments later she woke our young child and told her they needed to pack.

So I dialed 911

The annoyed officers showed up, and my wife told them she just wanted to go to bed. They said very few words to me, just asked what I wanted. We had a very brief interaction with the police and the wife went to bed. Soon after I went to bed as well, my wife asked what I was doing in the bed and I just told her I was going to sleep. She told me to leave but I finally regained my dont give a fuck and spoke up saying the bed is much more comfortable then the cojch.

Then she has been trying to iniate sex for the past 7 days (we have fucked 4 times)

I have read much of the side bar, and still dont know how to establish boundries. I obviously set some here: You arent taking our child without a fight, and I am not leaving this house. Pretty sure I did this in a very autistic way.

Yes I have been getting laid, but know a portion of that is the unknown level of dread: dread level 0 #DickInTheDirt

Its not quite Rambo (been there, done that) but the police where at my house... so yeah