LTR will not stop complaining about life

ExactMammoth · 2020-10-22T11:55:11+00:00

Decide how long you are going to continue accepting unacceptable behavior in your life.

2020-10-22T12:00:45+00:00

How do YOU handle these situations? You haven't said a lick about what you do. You've started reading one book in 3 months. You have a lot of reading yet.

Calls me a pussy or bitch, or worse, whenever something happens, and I don’t like it one bit.

You came to a safe place. There won't be any name-calling here.

Cam_Winston21 · 2020-10-22T12:32:44+00:00

She’s a drama queen.

That will definitely get better after you wife her up.

Calls me a pussy or bitch, or worse

The first time she called you that and you did not kick her ass to the curb, she knew she was right.

rpbb9999 · 2020-10-22T12:54:56+00:00

maybe it's because you're a pussy or a bitch

a-little-spice · 2020-10-22T12:13:17+00:00

She called you a pussy and a bitch? You poor man. You sound like you can use a good hug and a shoulder to cry on. Have you tried explaining to her about how it hurts your feelings? You should probably buy her stuff and compliment her more. If your super nice she might reward you with some pity sex.

mr4kino · 2020-10-22T12:17:33+00:00

Just move on. You have a lot to learn. No kids, no wedding, nothing. Then spend time learning and concentrating on yourself.

Quality woman or not, in all cases, you are not ready yourself.

UEMcGill · 2020-10-22T12:30:05+00:00

No one can get on the crazy train if the station is empty.

Jaggarojo · 2020-10-22T15:47:02+00:00

This is the same girl who visited her ex-plate and cheated on OP.

Nuff said, let's not waste anyone's else's time.

u/hornsofapathy

donmcde · 2020-10-22T12:47:51+00:00

Calls me a pussy or bitch, or worse, whenever something happens, and I don’t like it one bit.

Why is this not the title of your post, but the fact that she's a miserable? JFC man, have some self respect

rpbb9999 · 2020-10-22T12:55:52+00:00

buy her flowers and acknowledge her feelings, I hear that helps

breakupstrategy · 2020-10-22T16:07:39+00:00

She probably just needs to get "dicked down good".

Why don't you send her over to her ex's house for another "break". That should chill her out.

Good job moving in with her by the way... she's a keeper

PreEntertain · 2020-10-22T17:40:45+00:00

She wants to sleep close to the door so she can sneak the fuck out on you and fuck your brother if the chance ever comes up again

She doesn't want you holding doors for people because she wants to control you because she knows you're a cuck

She hates your brother because he probably fucked and chucked her, or turned her down.

GTFO.

Tyred_Biggums · 2020-10-22T16:49:39+00:00

She wants to sleep near the bedroom door, in case a shooter comes through the 2nd story window(?)

I mean... ok? Do you really give a fuck which side of the bed you sleep on?

The other shit is just normal shit. Next time she’s balling on push her against a wall and kiss her deeply. Or spray her with the faucet sprayer.

Oh and her disrespecting you is a red flag despite you being a pussy and bitch.

You clearly weren’t ready to move in together. This is a clear sign:

The beginning 6 months were okay. Ups and downs. Then after 6 months shit started getting rocky.

First 6 months should be easy. The next 6 months should be easy. It should all be effortless and natural for you. You aren’t HVM. You don’t know shit about yourself let alone women.

Explain these “downs”. I can’t even see how it’s possible to have a “down” in the first 6 months and want to continue a relationship.

AnonDude4Reddit · 2020-10-22T16:49:41+00:00

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part_wolf · 2020-10-22T13:28:58+00:00

It’s going to take you a while to get through the sidebar, so I’ll give you the short version.

Just have an honest and open conversation with her about what you don’t like. I’m sure she will understand.

EveryGodDamnDay · 2020-10-22T15:24:28+00:00

Why are you in an LTR with this person? Did you think you were ready to settle down? You are not. Be glad there are no kids. Remind yourself you are not ready to live with a woman, and end this mess. This is not about her qualifications as a long term partner; it's about your willingness to get what you want in life. And you're not going to learn that by staying in this relationship. Life is short. Move on.

business---travel · 2020-10-22T17:54:06+00:00

Oh, for fuck sakes, just dump her if you are this unhappy being around her.

How long did you date/plate this woman before promotion? I smell a guy that prompted his unicorn or approached her for a relationship after a month of dating...

red-sfpplus · 2020-10-22T13:04:33+00:00

She wants to sleep near the bedroom door, in case a shooter comes through the 2nd story window(?)

Sounds like she is a hood rat to me.

Next.

SelectAirline · 2020-10-22T20:32:36+00:00

Been with LTR for 1 year 9 months. The beginning 6 months were okay. Ups and downs. Then after 6 months shit started getting rocky.

So 21 months total, and only 6 were okay. You're quite clearly clinging to her because no one else will touch your dick. If you had any other options you'd have dropped this chick a long time ago.

The rest of this post (as well as the rest of your history that you tried to delete) is just confirmation that she's right to call you a pussy and a bitch.

As for the complaining, it seems like she's following your lead in at least one place. You could be rid of her today with no real consequences, but instead you're bitching about it to a bunch of strangers online.

InChargeMan · 2020-10-22T15:04:17+00:00

Put a baby in that

RStonePT · 2020-10-22T23:18:50+00:00

Girls complain. I've seen mine complain for 11 years.

comes with the territory. Just let em vent and put boundaries on how much time you want to listen to it

As for the rest, learn to say no and not feel guilty

Rhyat250 · 2020-11-23T06:24:33+00:00

Leave!

saltybull · 2021-02-11T19:09:40+00:00

A rational Man would have ghosted her 6 months ago.

What are you waiting for?

Title	LTR will not stop complaining about life
Author	AnonDude4Reddit
Upvotes	12
Comments	52
Date	October 22, 2020 11:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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