Best app for hookups

MokneyBladders · 2024-05-18T22:27:04+00:00

People will say tinder, but it’s easier to get dates off hinge I’ve found. Imo the biggest barrier in OLD is definitely getting to meeting in person. Once you meet in person, it shouldn’t be too tough to turn good chemistry into a lay

RespectOk4052 · 2024-05-19T03:28:50+00:00

Dating apps honestly suck. They screw with the algorithms to give you small sniffs of action to keep you on board. Maybe an anonymous person visited your profile but you need to pay $10 to see who it was, pay the $10 only to find it’s some random from the other side of the planet.

They’re designed to be a hindrance and pain because the longer they keep you looking on the app the more money they’re gonna make. They’re actively disincentivised to find you a partner because once you find a partner you don’t use the app anymore. They’re inherently flawed imo. Not to say success stories don’t exist, of course they do, people would catch on if it never worked. It works just enough for people to vouch for it.

Practise talking to randoms in person is my honest advice, even if it’s just a cashier scanning your items or someone looking at something in the supermarket. It gets easier as time goes on.

thisismyusername177 · 2024-05-18T23:31:18+00:00

Maybe try fetlife? I’ve had a few guy friends say they found girls there. Not really an app but if you just want sex probably the best place to find it.

weedsmoker7 · 2024-05-18T21:08:41+00:00

Grindr. Could have 10 different hook ups a day, easily

WinterTakerRevived · 2024-05-18T22:44:12+00:00

none, they're all a game that is destructive to your mental health

cemj86 · 2024-05-19T01:48:48+00:00

Tender and if you want the slopps Facebook dating.

Remember they're just tools and you're not going to get nearly the same results as you would if you're going outside to get women.

I get matches every day but you really have to go about it correctly to get results.

DJ_Yason · 2024-05-19T05:16:48+00:00

Hinge. Don’t use tinder unless you are in a country that only has tinder. No dating app is gonna be easy. I have 2000 matches and still don’t get that many dates. Been to 30 or smthing

Zootpak · 2024-05-18T22:08:44+00:00

I like Feeld

Significant-Report16 · 2024-05-19T00:00:31+00:00

Tinder has the highest success rate for me, almost every single first date has led to a hook up.

However, I get the majority of my dates and hence hook ups from Hinge. However, the success rate is closer to 50%.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-05-19T03:10:33+00:00

None of the apps (except for Grindr) are "hookup" apps. You can get hookups from any of the apps, you just need to have a good profile and know what to say. That being said, hookups don't come easily, it's usually luck of the draw on the girl you get, no matter if you say everything right.

rjones416 · 2024-05-19T07:23:48+00:00

If you want as much sex as possible then use those kink apps like Feeld. Other than that it's whatever app you personally get the most matches on. Also just because a woman has "looking for long term" on her profile it doesn't mean she's not down to hook up.

I've had women who I thought were the serious long term type practically begging to go back to my place halfway through a date and I wasn't even trying.

Direct-Signal-449 · 2024-05-18T20:29:48+00:00

Tinder.

That's a no brainer.

berzerker5000 · 2024-05-19T19:40:26+00:00

Only success on apps I have had is bumble and hinge. Remember to establish some rapport very briefly then get the number. Over text, continue the flirtation a little more, then ask them to drinks. Don’t play the get to know you over text game. Your only focus is to flirt and establish you are not a creepo and fun enough for her go out with. If more than a week goes by without meeting up, they go cold and unlikely to happen after that.

Ben_boh · 2024-05-19T12:25:03+00:00

Bumble with bumble premium works well as it’s a 1 off cost and you can stockpile likes and pick and choose when you want them. E.g. if I feel like finding a local milf I just filter through my likes for a dozen and then chat to all of them until I see which is dtf, if I fancy a 5’0 gym rat I find some and chat to 10 etc.

Feeld is good as everyone on there is only looking for casual sex but unless you pay it’s horny men fighting over pussy at a rate of 10-1 so you have to aim lower and have chat. (Think pulling in a night club vibes).

slaphappypap · 2024-05-19T01:02:20+00:00

In theory it should be hinge. Hinge just doesn’t pop for me for whatever reason though. Maybe me, maybe my city? Maybe some combination of the two. Tinder is what pops for me in my city, but the number of fake profiles there is overwhelming. Feeld is great if you’re into kink, or ENM. If you’re not you won’t get traction there. People can tell.

LateProduce · 2024-05-19T16:05:11+00:00

Online is horrible. The only time online works is if your target older women.

TomJohnFP · 2024-09-09T15:06:31+00:00

It is MeetOutside in my opinion as it is video based and not just photo based. Real people means more action. Take your time communicating before committing yourself. At times things work out and at times we have to move on, so just take it in the stride.

6ee · 2024-05-19T00:17:56+00:00

Grinder. Stop being gay and suck that dick. 👍

Epicrato · 2024-05-19T07:17:05+00:00

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2024-05-19T19:18:22+00:00

Feeld.

itscysean · 2024-07-23T02:19:45+00:00

In all honesty, I've tried just about all of em. None have given me as much success as Facebook dating and the blk app. Facebook dating is a definite go to, almost guaranteed to get something going within a few days or a week

Title	Best app for hookups
Author	Direct-Signal-449
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Date	May 18, 2024 8:09 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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