Best places/methods to pickup for over 30 ?

meccanexus · 2015-04-08T02:17:08+00:00

The grocery store! Organic or natural ones are the best. Easy to check out ladies, scope for rings, checkout whats in her cart. Easy paced social setting it's comfortable and soo easy to approach! Talking about ingredients, recipes, cooking, health/fitness, working in some teasing, asking over to critique a dish, making bets about who makes the better lasagna, what wine goes with this, whatever!

lntoTheSky · 2015-04-07T22:53:16+00:00

I'm actually curious where people go to pick up women in their 40's/40's/50's as a young guy (23)

Not2original · 2015-04-07T22:33:21+00:00

I switched to day game, as I'm and active guy, and I feel more relaxed during the day. Plus usally just coming from work I've been sociable all day with Co workers and feel at ease.

"Hi, how's your day going?" Is my go to opener people are free to talk because your just making small talk. But sometimes it can evolve into more depending upon what they reveal.

TheDynamicHamza21 · 2015-04-07T20:17:39+00:00

Anywhere where there are women. Past 30 years old the club scene is old so you best bet is daygame and social circle for meeting women.

Iloveyou-Iknow · 2015-04-08T07:43:53+00:00

Do you want to pick up 30+ years old women or the most attractive ones? (17-27 ish)

Your age IS NOT A PROBLEM, I'm in my 30s and I haven't even kissed a woman older than 23 in the last 5 years. Go for what age group pleases you, and don't worry that "you are too old for young girls"; that's not the case.

1- Internet 2- Grocery store 3- Bars and Nightclubs if you are into that kind of people 4- The street 5- Social gatherings of any kind

A) Open air gigs and festivals B) Open air rally and competitions C) University parties ~~ D) Political gatherings (I picked cute girls at a racist party's soup shack :p I'm of mixed ethnicity. I was 30. They were 16. Be confident man, that's all you need. E) Any congregation of people you spot with more than 5 individuals.

Now these are just general ideas. What you need to do is ask yourself:

What do I want?

No ship without a destination port will reach anywhere. Do you want smart, business women? Do you want artsy hipsters? Do you want party girls? Do you want a cute girl to marry? Do you know what you want?

For smart, career focused classy women: frequent the classy after hours pubs and sushi places around the business district. Go everyday, befriend the staff for extra social proof, and sarge.

For artsy hippies; go to art exhibitions, the type of gluten free vegan cafes they frequent, and read a book or two about their social life.

For cute girls to marry, go to church happenings (MAn.. they have movie screenings, book reading nights, mushroom picking sundays.. You wont believe how much they want to affirm their biases by hanging out together and THEY GET LAID TOO :p ) Most of these are alcohol free and require no fees and may include free snacks.

If you write down your type, we can brainstorm perfect answers to your question.

By limiting your target area to the type of places that the type of people you WANT hang out: you will greatly increase your success and your satisfaction.

I think you are not into 300lbs honey boo boo mommas riding their scooters at the grocery store, but if you are, go for it as well :)

DaygameCoach · 2015-04-07T20:19:00+00:00

How old are the women you are targeting?

Teston83 · 2015-04-07T23:48:38+00:00

Online. Most of the +30 crowd I know can't be bothered with the night scene as they're looking to settle down.

Kubi74 · 2015-04-08T07:21:11+00:00

Hey, I've noticed.... the country club isn't a bad place.

lvav68 · 2015-04-08T09:05:48+00:00

I'd say i would've had success at the jazz bar, but i never went for it. The one I frequent in Dallas is MY chill spot, and it's more for relaxing than anything. But i do recall Pre 9/11 i worked at the airport and didn't realize I had an older lady flight attendant try to hook up with me. ( I'm oblivious to that). But if they look good I'll go legal age and up!!

jonnyhaldane · 2015-04-08T09:23:23+00:00

You can go to the same places as everybody else. I picked up two 19 year olds at a bar the other day. I am 32.

Day game might be better for you though. You have more reason to be in a bookstore or coffee shop than a nightclub.

gensyms · 2015-04-08T18:32:27+00:00

What are in your opinion the best places and methods to pickup women for men over 30 ?

I'm perplexed. Was I supposed to change something after my 30th birthday? I didn't get the memo.

2015-04-07T21:58:37+00:00

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Whalers7997 · 2015-04-07T22:36:49+00:00

Cougar bars

InscrutablePUA · 2015-04-08T01:15:28+00:00

If you're looking at older women (30s and up) then hotel bars and classier/more expensive bars and clubs including jazz clubs and the like.

CmrShep · 2015-04-08T13:28:27+00:00

Southeast Asia. Seriously.

Title	Best places/methods to pickup for over 30 ?
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Date	April 7, 2015 8:12 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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