Can we get a day game thread going?

canadian_stig · 2011-04-12T20:24:47+00:00

I'm still a newbie, but since day game material is sparse, and I only really have a few hours here and there, I've been testing out frames and transitions. These are some basics I've found.

A good psychological frame is to want something and not leave until you get it. Trick is, your not allowed to ask for it until 5 minutes in. You may want to give value, like recommend a book you just read that was fantastic, only you are not allowed to bring it up until you can get the conversation on books. In my experience this keeps you in the moment and it's almost like a game. As you get better you can up the ante. "I have to do day game approaches until I sing Friday with a girl" for example. I've had some success with this frame and I haven't had many failure but I'm just one guy testing in his spare time.

EDIT: Essentially you Wiki Walk your way to your topic. The only rules are you have to start a great distance from your intended topic, and you have to bring it up naturally.

"Is the coffee good here?" ---->" "Can you recommend a good mechanic?"

nomdeanon · 2011-04-12T20:51:45+00:00

I think most masters would tell you that there's no difference between your day and night. Women are women.

That being said, i always use the parallel conversation technique -- basically it boils down to analyzing what thoughts are on her mind based n context, then commenting off hand about this topic, almost as if to yourself. However, I always spin it positive. This does two things, establish a slightly greater value, and common interest with her.

I've found that the highest quality women are in libraries, and they're often the most sexually repressed. Tough nuts to crack -- teasing falls flat, generally. However parallel conversation works very well since these women often have very strong frames when studying, so you merge into that frame, bend it, then move her to a different frame (e.g., take a walk with me.)

if you're looking for more typical dumb girls, places like Old Navy are perfect. I meet so many chicks in ON alone, I generally dont look elsewhere. My typical route is Starbucks in the morning, Panera at lunch (cougars/milfs), Old Navy, Borders or Library, then back to starbucks or other coffee shop. I never spend more than an hour at any place, once i number or email close, try for insta-date, if not, move to next location.

Nice thing about day game is creeper alert is much lower than nighttime. Also, I observe that the time period before dinner, 5 pm to 6 pm is ideal for pickups, there seem to be more women out and about, and they're typically tired but happy to be done with work.

TofuTofu · 2011-04-12T20:03:16+00:00

I tried Gunwitch's method out to reasonable success.

absolutebeginners · 2011-04-12T21:48:41+00:00

I'm not really in the game (currently in a LTR), I'm just super into these topics of discussion. I would consider myself somewhat of a natural, but never have been too good at putting into words what has made me successful.

I just got into grad school so I've been in an amazing mood lately, and have noticed myself smiling all the time for no reason. Walking down the street, in a grocery store, whatever, I've noticed that maintaining strong eye contact along with a big smile to passing women will cause them to open me up with a "hello" and a seductive smile. If you are a super happy person, people are more likely to want to get to know you.

So, thats my advice. Eye contact and a smile!

KallistiEngel · 2011-04-13T04:58:51+00:00

I have a question relating to day game. How can you get a cashier's number when there are other customers waiting on line? I've missed a couple opportunities because it's hard to break out of the typical customer/cashier role.

Delightful_White · 2011-04-12T20:57:02+00:00

I'm glad you posted this. Since the weather is getting nicer I've been wanting to do a lot of day gaming. I'm planning on getting a longboard to cruise around the city, and I want to dedicate every saturday and sunday afternoon to daygame and collecting numbers. I could easily get 10 numbers every weekend if I put in the time. The ultimate goal is to get a mini date and a lay within the same initial meeting.

frogma · 2011-04-12T19:57:23+00:00

I don't really have a "method"- and I'm constantly changing it up, because in reality I'm just being talkative- but I'm usually very nonchalant. Most of the time, I tease almost non-stop. Sometimes I'll be incredibly cocky- like I already know the girl wants to fuck me, so the whole interaction is arbitrary. I might not actually say anything cocky- though I often will- but I'll just feel cocky, and she'll be able to sense it (maybe "entitled" is a better word).

Beyond that, I tend not to show any overt interest. In a sense, it's like I don't "care" about the interaction at all- and most of the time, I really don't. So it's the girl's job to qualify to me for however long it takes, and then I'll usually invite her somewhere. Sometimes I'll play it up (like "My friends and I are having this huge themed kegger, supposedly 200 people are showing up, it's gonna be nuts, you should come!") but most of the time, I'll just mention it in an off-hand way like I couldn't care less if she shows up or not- because I really don't care very much. It works the same way with numbers.

I don't do anything scripted, and only recently have I started actually thinking about things like push/pull. I used to do push/pull all the time without knowing what it was- when you actually have abundance, you end up naturally doing all the shit that's talked about in the community.

Edit: Some "keen observations": the bolder you are, the better- usually. Especially for day game, being a cool, normal guy can be great, but it's more effective if you can pull off some shit the girl isn't expecting. The great thing about day game is she won't be expecting much, so kino and teasing alone should get you pretty far.

Also, day game for me is usually much more of a numbers game. I dunno why, but usually if I'm at a bar or a party, I can make a read on a girl before even talking to her. I can guess pretty accurately if she's single, if she'll appreciate whatever I do, and how quickly I can start making moves. There's a lot of different social/body language cues you can pick up on during night game that aren't as obvious in day game for some reason.

The other problem with it is a lot of things aren't socially "acceptable" in the day, so you'll tend to be more cautious- that's a limiting belief, and everyone has it to some extent. I firmly believe when I reach Super Beast Legend status, I'll solely be relying on DIRECT, SEXUAL day game- no ifs ands or buts- and it'll be successful 90% of the time. I'm not there yet.

Sed5 · 2011-04-13T02:38:33+00:00

I've made this thread several times and no one replied, people are more receptive to you..so thanks a lot for making this thread tofu!!!

Daygame REALLY lacks any material and I really like stuff like this!

HIGHdrogen · 2011-04-12T21:17:43+00:00

I think girls are more vulnerable during the day. They are prey in the wild in the day, compared to protective social sanctuary at night. Also, I think you are more likely to find high caliber girls during the day.

CuilRunnings · 2011-04-13T04:43:53+00:00

Girls are less adventure-seeking during the day. As a result, I find it better to build commonalities, rather than pump attraction which I find weirds-out girls due to daylight, soberness, and the general public being within earshot. If I can lay a solid foundation, it's super easy for me to close in a bar situation with drinking + my social circle.

ihaveabu · 2011-04-13T14:12:07+00:00

jeremy soul krauserpua

youtube has a few nice day game examples with nice in field footage

Title	Can we get a day game thread going?
Author	TofuTofu
Upvotes	59
Comments	53
Date	April 12, 2011 7:34 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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