Dancing - a criminally underrated skill for your game

itsmevichet · 2014-12-03T15:34:39+00:00

It's definitely underrated on Seddit. I've written like, three guides. Almost no one here wants to learn how to dance. Or maybe I just write shitty dance advice.

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1qjqkx/dancing_what_do_my_guide_on_how_to_get_girls_to/

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1ad32l/itsmevichets_bsfree_guide_to_dancing_in_a_club/

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/10y72t/learn_how_to_dance/

For reference, here is me dancing:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a7VGG6VyQ4I

finalxcution · 2014-12-03T08:02:59+00:00

What's even better is that since most guys don't dance, these social dance lessons almost always have far more girls than guys. You're a hot commodity there. I always have girls coming up to ME asking if I can dance with them. Salsa in particular is great for this. I don't even like salsa music but the dancing part is fantastic.

Macguyver84 · 2014-12-03T04:26:53+00:00

I have gotten more responds from women when I dance than any other single action put together. If you dance they chase.

sorry0fucks · 2014-12-03T08:04:07+00:00

I wanted to get into a salsa class, do you know how long the commitment is for these classes? I wanted to try it out for a month but haven't looked into it too much.

pirated-ambition · 2014-12-03T16:17:01+00:00

Shhhh!!

If every other guys starts dancing (and dancing well) then competition goes up and thunders get stolen.

Jk ^{^{^kinda}}

Y'all should def learn dancing. Like most philosophies in this sub, dance because it's fun as shit, you have a great time & it just generally makes you a happy person.

SedditJM · 2014-12-03T09:06:23+00:00

Dancing is something I have wanted to incorporate into my life (not just my game) for awhile, but to be completely honest there are very few things that I am more clueless about. In general I am not the most musically connected person, I enjoy the songs but I have trouble REALLY getting into it or feeling the beat- so the core component to dancing doesn't come all that naturally to me either. I've wanted to do it because I want to better enjoy that sort of art and I think it seems like a great way.

OP specifically mentions club dancing not being what he's talking about but that's the kind I'm most interested in at the moment- it seems so authentic. The off-the-cuff and partnerless aspect make it very personal between the dancer and the music, it really appears to just be flowing out of them in sync with the song... and I just cannot see how to do it, but I WANT to.

Has anyone come from a dance-impoverished background like my own and really learned to do it? Do finding dance societies help? Is it something you can do in your room? I would love to hear some info.

turo9992000 · 2014-12-04T00:47:27+00:00

All right man, I never dance, but I just signed up for a three week salsa class that starts tomorrow. Wish me luck.

GlitchySwitch · 2014-12-03T13:23:14+00:00

I picked up ballroom dancing when I got to college and it was one of the best decisions I've made. Met my current girlfriend through it and lots of others along the way. I absolutely recommend learning to dance, not just for the women but because it has turned out to also be a really fun hobby.

Sumpfkrautjunkie · 2014-12-03T15:13:55+00:00

This is also a good thing, if you are not comfortable/feel weird touching women. After 6 months of dancing I completely lost these insecurities.

And last but not least: You learn to keep a good posture.

fnsimpso · 2014-12-03T17:38:24+00:00

Tango is amazing, especially Argentine Tango; it's seduction on a dance floor.

A friend of mine (who's a female) told me she was wet after dancing with this guy. He was very good, competative level good.

DaygameCoach · 2014-12-03T19:25:26+00:00

I have a lot of friends that do REALLY well with salsa dancing.

nuc22 · 2014-12-03T19:47:27+00:00

One of my friends changes dance classes every 6 months. Meets lot of hot women in the process, fucks them and shift to other ones.

WhiteMarauder · 2014-12-03T05:50:28+00:00

This and playing guitar. Or any instrument for that matter.

For some reason ladies flock to guitar players. Even if you're not that good. I've seen guys on campus just go sit on a bench outside and start strumming. It's not even a minute before girls start flocking.

Funny thing is, he's fucking terrible at guitar. I saw a good guitar player do this once and he had girls swarming him during the middle of the day.

DJVendetta · 2014-12-03T14:32:37+00:00

A few weeks ago I got told that I 'dance like I'm gay' - alas it was from an overweight unattractive girl who was trying to hang off me all night. I shrugged it off but I did get a little pissed.

bunka77 · 2014-12-03T16:13:36+00:00

Okay so you have my googling instructors in my area. The hump that I'm running in to is that the photos and videos on every site are mostly 50 y/o married couples. Realistically, what are the chances that anyone in there twenties would go take dancing lessons? I've graduated so Uni dance clubs aren't really an option.

zomgitsduke · 2014-12-04T01:50:27+00:00

Line dancer here, holy shit there are so many reasons you need to learn the dances.

First off, there are usually hot women there. Do not go after them immediately. Befriend them. Make them your actual friends. Don't immediately introduce yourself as a predator; they will see it and they will think you're doing this just to get laid. Be the gentleman, the cool guy. They will bring hot single friends with them to line dancing on occasion, and they will also introduce you to quality women who have top qualities. Go out with them socially. They know you, they know you're a quality guy, they will wing you quite well. Show off your dances, especially WITH the women there, and it will catch the attention of any woman. Wagon Wheel gets plays by a live cover band? The guy dancing with the three women had the entire bar in a circle around themselves within 20 seconds.

I love line dancing.

itisthumper · 2014-12-03T20:14:07+00:00

You dont necessarily need to join a dance class or club. If you go to enough concerts or music fests, you will become comfortable with dancing.

Brendan056 · 2015-04-12T23:31:48+00:00

Learning to dance basic salsa steps has got me laid, quite a lot. It also boosted my confidence big time.

Title	Dancing - a criminally underrated skill for your game
Author	jacks_not_surprised
Upvotes	93
Comments	56
Date	December 3, 2014 3:20 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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