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[–]Hermes_Godoflurking 82 points83 points84 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
The first time is always the hardest. I find everything is awkward and fumbly the first time, you'll do a bit better with every go 😊
[–]ChiefWarlock7 33 points34 points35 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I started with a joke but fumbled and ruined it. Still she laughed and was very nice.
[–]snorlaxy4977 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
Hey, I asked a girl in my driving license course if she could give me her instagram and she said “do I have to” and btw this all situation happened in Turkish language, and I’m not a bad looking person so maybe I made her feel like she was an hostage because Im a tall guy and btw that didn’t came out of no where we had a couple interactions before and I thought she liked me I guess I was wrong, the thing that really bothers me is just how she reacted (do I have to) did I intimidate her or was she just uninterested?
[–]cantgetschwifty 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe she was joking?
I hit it off with a girl recently and she was super friendly and seemed a bit nervous and I got her Instagram without a problem. She was like yeah sure we'll hang out.
I DM'd her the next day. No reply. Again after a week. No reply. So I'd rather had her say do I have to than what happened to me...
[–]snorlaxy4977 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was actually thinking the same thing I needed to tell that to someone thank you
[–]Hermes_Godoflurking 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey man,
I wouldn't aim for the socials straight off. Like the other guy said, you'll likely get ghosted from just socials.
Find something you have in common, like maybe she's never been out to some cool restaurant or arcade or whatever. Then say something like: "Well I'm heading there on Saturday, you free then?".
If you've made an impression and she's interested she'll jump at the chance and that's when you get her number or socials.
You can go for the socials early on but if she's not interested it's just wasting your time.
Goodluck man, remember you are the prize and confidence is everything
[–]Going_to_hell123 24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well done bro! don't ever let that discourage you, you win some you lose some 🤷🏾♂️
[–]Competitive-Link-912 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep up the work!
[–]fatnfurius 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Broke the first barrier! Keep it up
[–]lewis2846 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Keep it up mate, don't take too long to do it again or it (for me) feels like ypur starring all over again. The first time I asked a girl out, she was a checkout girl at my local shell garage. I use to fill my bike up roughly 1/2 times a week. She always make small talk and asked aboit things and that.. so one night I promised myself I'll ask for her number. She was serving a bloke before me so I was trying not to talk myself out of it. When it was my turn, I asked. And turns out the bloke before me was her bf 😂
[–]TopAide6 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha. The universe is funny like that!
[–]Connect-Pear-3859 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well you must have been Interesting if she accepted the approach, keep going and do t give up.
[–]non-troll_account 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They all have boyfriends.
[–]ReptilianApe 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey you dropped this, King 👑
[–]bojack1011 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
lol do another 1000 of those just like that, and see how it feels.
[–]bmtechs 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Will it feel amazing ?
[–]intergalactic_bonsai 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When you score yeah. When you don't no.
[–]texaspete3 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link
don't focus on results based approaches. Just talk and game. If you have enough game she will hook you up with a friend or cheat on her bf with you .
[–]Peelfest2016 25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Maybe I’m in the minority in this sub, but getting a girl to cheat on her boyfriend is not an accomplishment. There are plenty of women out there. We don’t have to go around blowing up other dudes lives.
[–]TruSiris 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Big Agree.
[–]Kronuk 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with this. Single girls aren’t in short supply. I don’t associate with cheaters in general though, or liars, so I don’t tolerate that shit even with friends. Just a values and morals thing I stay true to.
[–]HTML_Novice 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Most hot girls are already taken
[–]Peelfest2016 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think that’s true.
[–]HTML_Novice -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
They’re hot, they get way more attention, more likely to pick out their boyfriend and get what they want. Simple mathematics
[–]Peelfest2016 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, but you’re proving my point. They are able to be more selective. If you’re a high value man there are hot girls single and interested everywhere.
[–]cantgetschwifty 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They're hot - looks does the job for them - they don't develop personality - they remain single. Hot and boring.
[–]raclnp 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personality is developed for yourself, not to please others.
[–]BoneLessElephant 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's definitely not true
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100%, I agree w/ you.
[–]itsonlybliss 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
bruh that’s an L if she cheats on her boyfriend with you. Just means you scored a hooker
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just so you know, the preferred nomenclature is sex worker. I should know, because I frequent Asian massage parlors.
[–]texaspete3 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
its misogynist like you that will never experience love and happiness. A woman can engage with as many sexual partners as she likes without having to be degraded with such false terminology. You sound frustrated.
[–]jeffcheal 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like your justifying a girl who cheats? Please tell me you're not a guy
[–]itsonlybliss 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
homie is literally condoning cheating. Prob a cuck himself
[–]texaspete3 -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
cheating happens so frequently , its almost as if marriage is a human construct that can't coexist with our own biology.
[–]itsonlybliss 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So you don’t mind it if your SO fucks other people?
[–]texaspete3 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am not egotistical enough to believe that I am fully capable of fulfilling another person's desires and needs. But that is the constraints of marriage, hence why i am not married and never will be. If i have a bond with someone and part of that bond is fidelity , and she breaks it, then i simply move on. When you are able to attract women, it's hard to put any serious value into any one relationship.
[–]itsonlybliss 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Alright bro so you’re a cuck yeah?
It never gets easier but keep trying.
[–]Milzirks -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't let her boyfriend stop you from yall being together
[–]Calamity__Bane 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t even want to talk about the first time I asked a girl out 😂
Good on you, keep at it!
[–]AffectionateLeek2578 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude thats great! Congrats for stepping up
[–]ThriftStoreDildo 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's rude to ask her out and not her boyfriend as well...
[–]ozzzy83 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Meh, it sucks when you realize that you will get that kind of an answer 80% of the time.
[–]Red_Cat69 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well done!
Keep it up and rock on
[–]Why_am_I_LikeThis27 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How did it go? Being confident enough to ask someone out straight up makes you more confident then a lot of people. Keep that energy and you are gonna be fine. Great job, go next!
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