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[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The comments here are L O L. It always work. Get a gym membership. But be prepared for the unattractive to walk your way
[–]HTML_Novice 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you’re really skinny it’ll prob help a bit, but unless you tryna catch some fat dick, it won’t help as much as you’d wish with the ladies
[–]MrHound325 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If nothing else it will help you view yourself in a more positive way, and that will make you carry yourself differently. If they don’t notice the muscle they’ll notice the swagger
[–]sirbassist83 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Was very muscular once, am kinda fat now, and it makes an unbelievable difference. Literally like being an entirely different person. Anyone that says otherwise is either already attractive and has never been unattractive, or has never been more fit than average
[–]CocoBabeNYC 31 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, women want to feel safe and protected by their man and a skinny bitch can't do that. Start eating big and lifting big.
[–]greenlight144000 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I will do
[–]RinkyInky 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s the easiest way to be hot that you can control.
[–]JF803 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Working out will help in more ways than just how you look. You will feel better, you will carry yourself better, you will be more confident knowing you are progressing in something and can handle yourself physically. Working out should be NON NEGOTIABLE for men
[–]tehallmighty 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personally i found the biggest benefit ive gotten from lifting is better posture. Not only is it just better general health, good posture shows confidence as well.
[–]SigmundFreud 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'll give you $800 to stop working out.
[–]JF803 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never
[–]peduxe 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It will because you’ll be heaps more confident in how you carry yourself around others.
Girls might be or not be moist over your gains but it’s the confidence they’re unconsciously looking at in the end of the day.
[–]Vigeto619 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Every answer here is just a fucking 🤷
[–]logicallyillogical 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What is with these dumb ass questions lately. “Do muscles, good looks, being attractive help you get women.” If you can’t find the answer yourself I can see why you’re single.
Looks matter people.
[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First muscle to focus on is your heart. If you got no heart(drive,confidence,compassion), no amount of muscle on you will matter.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Build muscle. Put on some tattoos too. The kind of girls you wish you could fuck like muscles and tattoos.
[–]greenlight144000 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I do have quite a few tattoos on my arms
[–]ifonlyYRUso 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Skinny guy here 🙋 I would say most chicks I date or hook up with are skinny also, I think if you want an hourglass woman or a tall perfect woman it's most likely not going to happen.
My motto is if I can't curl them I don't twirl them lol
[–]PaidRenegade 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah dude. You don’t have to be huge, but the fitter you are the better you’ll do. If you’re buff then putting up a shirtless picture on tinder will answer this for you. Source: My Profile. PM me if you wanna see some proof
Okay I pm”d you
[–]Ajarofpickles97 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
On tinder, yes, absolutely women will strait up beg you to have sex with them. It has happened more than a few times to me. Real life not as much but you will get looked at a lot. This is coming from a guy who has been in the gym for 3 years
[–]Diditagn 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Tinder has too many either fake accounts/ugly/or fat women and most of the time they just match for you for attention and don’t say anything. I’m an attractive male with an athletic body and I can say I have far more luck in person than on any social dating app.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It help a lot if you are super skinny or super fat.
But going from avg to super jacked isn’t going to change your dating life that much.
[–]peduxe 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It can definitely make you more attractive to a larger number of girls though. It’s a numbers game, the more candidates the higher your chances.
[–]Matt_Bigmonster 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do what you can with your looks and don't worry about the rest. There is a girl attracted to you out there (more than one actually). Just don't be a slob.
[–]Turbopre2 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Quit making excuses and get in the gym.
[–]big_nose_juicer 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A lot of girls are definitely attracted to muscles. Ive also noticed a difference in my experience since i started working out 4 years ago.
Even if it doesnt make a difference, you will get a confidence boost from being stronger.
[–]MeanZombie5852 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Muscles… mmm… that’s you working on yourself, and people around you can see that but muscles… that’s just a plus. If you know how to calibrate + escalate with girls and a little of social skills, muscles are nothing lol
[–]determinator94 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh I don’t know; women go gaga for guys like Chris Hemsworth, Henry Cavill, Jason Momoa -
YES! It makes all the difference! You as the guy are supposed to resemble a pinnacle of strength, stability and protection. If you’re also familiar with Charles Darwin’s theories on evolution, it all ties towards survival of the fittest. Key phrase - SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST.
[–]Pop_Zestyclose 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Depends on the woman you're trying to attract. I've talked to some that love them and some that don't. One of those things that's different for each girl.
[–]sirbassist83 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
90% of women that say they prefer a dad bod are lying, either to themselves or you
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol deadass. They’re probably into guys built like an offensive line, not dudes who are built like they belong on trailer Park boys
[–]fishpony3 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean have you seen Julian tho
[–]roakmamba 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True, they'll say some bs in order not to hurt your feelings.
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
It depends on who you want to attract. If I go to a gym and become healthy, i will in turn, attract more health conscious women. If I sit and watch movies, I will attract more movie watching women.
Just depends what you want to attract.
[–]greenlight144000 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Nah women hate skinny guys
[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Homeboys apparently answering the question he asked 😂
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
See... here come all the skinny women.
[–]P7o7s7t7a7l 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't expect to attract those type of people. If you're skinnier and want the type of girl that goes for muscle, then you'd better start hitting the gym.
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[–]greenlight144000 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Do you have muscles
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[–]JustWhy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lmfao
[–]luhvrrboy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes it helps.
[–]grindforthegold 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
no they’re a cope lifts will help you 10x more
[–]MeWuzBornIn1990 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Going to the gym and lifting weights is one of the most important and best things you could do for yourself.
[–]itbittitcommit 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think having any weight is better than being skinny.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Plenty of thin men get hot women. Confidence is key.
[–]Jasonhardon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes
[–]MrBizzniss 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In my experience absolutely just don’t be arrogant about it
[–]NastyMonkeyKing 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Will it make everything automatic? No
There is only upside and no downside besides the commitment, which doesn't have to be a downside.
It's like money. If you have it, money isn't everything. But if you don't it absolutely is.
[–]tgm93 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Being muscular helps a ton with women. But it also helps with dealing with men. Often they'll respect you more straight off the bat. The saying "don't judge a book by its cover" exists because that's exactly what people do, judge your looks first, which sets the tone for your first interaction. They are not necessary but will absolutely help in all aspects of life. There is no downside to being muscular and fit
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